I've become quite angry and stopped reading.
I'm a Doula. I'm a Doula who has suffered from Birth Trauma (for the uneducated that means Post Traumatic Stress Disorder following a birth). For me it was having a crash section with a general anaesthetic. But I know some women (myself included) who have crash sections with general anaesthetic and don't suffer from BT.
I know of a woman who suffered it because the doctor walked in and said "right, lets get your pants off" why for that woman? Most women get told to take their pants off when pregnant, not always politely and lets not get into what they do when you do, often without warning!
Some women experience it because their baby isn't given straight to them, but that's the norm in America.
Maybe a more masculine example, why doesn't ever solider come back with PTSD?
The mind is a complex machine and it is far from predictable. What upsets one person in identical circumstances another person doesn't even think twice about. A "normal" person can be totally traumatised by something that seems trivial to every other "normal" person.
As far as this situation is concerned, if the child in question had been looking for porn of her own accord, if it was something that she'd taken an interest in looking up, I'm sure the mother and a lot of other mothers wouldn't have had the same reaction. The reaction was because anyone could have picked that up, they don't know who was on the receiving end of it. Maybe a 13 year old who is being abused saw it or maybe a younger child when their older sibling was online saw it.
Someone showed my sister porn when she was quite young, in this country it's called SEXUAL ABUSE* she was traumatised for a long time over it.
- I'd think that's a good reason to not go out of my way to share porn with a child, I'd rather not end up as a Sched 1 thank you very much!