Woke today to find that my partner had yet again stayed up all night and consumed a whole box of 10 Stellas. As much as he was trying to tell me he wasn't drunk I could tell that he was certainly under the influence of alcohol. My 5 year old girl is off school today because she has been unwell and he was due to be looking after her because I had to go to work. Seeing that he was in a bit of a state of course I phoned up work to make an excuse not to come in as I felt it would be irresponsible to leave her with someone that had quite clearly been drinking
Now my other half thinks I'm overreacting and being unreasonable. Saying things like 'its just a few beers, it's not like I've been drinking spirits' and highlighting that loads of people do things under the influence of alcohol when they shouldn't.
I know that I am right to be angry but everything I say is just met with excuses. I literally feel like I am banging my head on a brick wall. It's not like he does this very often but that's not the point. It's hugely irresponsible and he just can't see that or see why it's so selfish and inconsiderate!
Sorry not sure why I posted. Sometimes I feel like I am crazy since everything I try and bring up is just met with excuses and just needed to rant !