Anyone adopted after recurrent pregnancy loss?

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Hi all,

I've name changed but am a bit of a newbie on here and have mainly been lurking.

Just wondering how those of you who adopted knew it was the right time to apply to adopt after recurrent pregnancy loss.

We had pretty much agreed that adoption was our route to becoming a family (I know it's not necessarily a 'cure' or a magic wand to fix the pain of our losses) when we were offered a different treatment to try to help me sustain a pregnancy. We decided to go ahead despite not expecting it to work so that we knew we'd tried every avenue available. Sadly my most recent pregnancy failed despite the treatment. Obviously we have to wait to start the application to adopt and in the meantime we're going to do the practical things to prepare as well as try to process the end of the ttc chapter of our lives.

Just wondered if there's any advice others can give or ideas on how to prepare and evidence that we have closed the door on ttc to social care.

Thanks in advance

Thanks definitely looking forward to the hol - definitely hoping that it may naturally come up as my OH has gone a little quiet. We have our NHS ivf consultancy appointment when I am back on the 20th and it kind of determines how we will go I think
so I need to understand where he is.

The open evening is great! We went to one a few months ago and learnt so much - it actually made us want to adopt even more than we already do x

Hi guys I just wondered how everyone is? The holiday is doing us a world of good and has given us a chance to really talk which is great. Dreading going back to work already! X