we are in the process of dh adopting ds1 and i have just found out today that this means ds1 will not have a standard 'normal' birth certificate. he will have a short version that doesn't say birth certificate on but makes no reference to adoption, and the long version which will state that dh and i are both the adopted parents(i am his birth mum). his entry in the births register will be crossed through and adopted written in the margin and a new enrty created in the adopted childs register. there will be no paper evidence anywhere to suggest that i am his birth mum.
i am so angry and so upset that this is the way the system works, i am questioning the whole adoption, i don't think i can 'give up' my son like that. dh is happy to go along with what we decide together.
at the moment on ds1's birth certificate is a blank space where the fathers name should be, also his surname has been changed by deed poll to dh's so his birth certificate has his old name on it.
if anyone has any experience or advice it would be much appreciated. tia
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frazzledfairy · 26/02/2007 17:32
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