do I move abroad??

[jen45]

I have been married for 4 rocky years.Met and married in Canada. Hubby wanted to come to uk so I did. Used all my savings. Now hubby is out of job and wants to move back. He knows my mum is sick but says he will go on his own if I dont??...Hubby has been selfish throughout and had a few online discreations. He is also greedy with money and refuses to spend his... only mine!!...My kids live here but my sister lives over there.
Flights are booked for end of this month but I am scared to put trust in him and if he finds someone else in Canada, I will have lost my house in the UK and have nothing. I love him but I dont like him. I guess Im scared to be on my own. Ihave gave up my job for the move. Do I take a chance that I will have a better life over there or play safe, e on my own and be lonely.??

hello....i run past the idea of him going on his own and he seemed fine with it...didnt seem to bother him. however that was a couple of days ago and he started being nice again...so he thinks im definately going. i havent told him im not yet because im waiting for him to pay the vets bill fo the dogs. if he doesnt pay, the dogs cant fly and i wont go so he will pay...will wait till after that and i will say my mums got worse so he has to go on his own....he will probably think i will join him in 6 months
its 5 days to the flight....OMG....hope i have the strength to carry on and dont cave..

well 3 days to go. Today was another horrendous day. Hubby as usual didnt want to pay the vets bill which has to be paid before we fly!!..he will pay it i am sure as he does want me to go for some strange reason. anyways he huffed and puffed all day about spending "his" money and then tonight i had toothache and was uncomfortable in bed so I got snapped at agrily and told to go downstairs. also my mum has just got out the hospital again after 2 days (she didnt tell me in case she spolit my trip) and when i told him, he just ignores me and never said anything.didnt even ask how she was.
well folks, bottom line is..im not going and will tell him on monday after he pays the vet bill...I will actually be ending this horrendous marriage as well and he need not expect me to follow in 6 months!!...all i can say is ive wasted my time, all my money and my self confidence and esteem over the biggest PRICK out. he can be someone elses problem now cause Im done.
will let you all know how it goes Tuesday after he disappears off into the sunset LOL