The Gok Thread is Still Alive and Kicking

[mummylin2495]

here e are a nice new thread for us all !! hope you can all find it

abloke ,are you ok ????

Yo dude I am fine.

I have mood swings I think.

Work is stressful due to OW and I have emailed boss, which may or may not be a bit silly. You know me, I do not have filter in my brain...the filter to stop saying exactly how I feel.

we have a fecking team day this week hehe!

We into office yesterday and done what OW wanted me to do.

SHES BEEN HERE FOR 4 WEEKS!!!!!! F-O-U-R-
W-E-E-K-S NOT YEARS!

She slammed files down on Wed as I was chatting and not doing as she wanted. She then referred to a "project"and said "yes, well I done all that".

WTF does she think I am doing???

[breathes]
[better]

I may take her outside and ask her is she if wants to chew on a brick or keep this up, either way her teeth will/shall get knocked out!

Yes, anyway, fine.

Hard to get on this week due to op in household being here.

Mwah ? x ? loves y'all!

Eww what is she is a mnetter. ?

moi

dd,s partner arrested.locked up till last night ,bailed to be in court on 19th dec.more on scuttle thread.

i will look for it. sorry to hear that M.

FFS M.

what a complete and utter ba&tard. take care.

fecking cock, m!

couldn't have put it better myself.

off to read update on other wool...[thread] sorry. un-humorous

You okay M?

I forgot to put sprkles name on my post naming people. I have been pissed off everytime have remeber since.

DD is ill again.

OH found another job.

Going out to school thing tonight for DC.

Child is signing:

"Why this car is auto-matic"
"This car is hydro-matic"
"Why it's greased Lighting"

You get someover head listing and bla bla bla bla bla bla

keep walking yeah keep walking or is it talking? or working. feck it I give up.

kicks thread

sprlkes ??

I want a POPPY!

[listens to ben fold]

morning ,had a good night out last night to celebrate gs,s 18th,have pu a couple of pics on.Dd came with us but did get a bit tearful at one point.Reaction i think from sunday.She hasnt had any texts or anything from him ,which normally he texts and phones all the time.every day.He is not allowed any contact with her.She has had extra locks put on front and back doors ,just to be a bit more secure,her dad got it done for her.this is all such a huge worry for dd and for me too.I dont want her to be hurt and the thought of it makes me feel sick to my stomach

Such a worry M. Your poor daughter has really been through the mils this past few weeks.

I get that saying off my mother.

your mum has the right sayings !!!! we will do all we can to help dd and keep them all safe.i dont know what will happen when he appears in court , he is only not allowed to go near or contac till the 19th decwhen its the court appearance,i am worried about what will happen after that date.i suggested to dd that she gets in contact with the dv team again and gets an injunction right away from the date of the court appearance.

Hopefully they will do this at the court M but if not yes, deffo contact DV for interdict.

I wrote my christmas card list yesterday and bought cards and a few baubles/bobbles, I like the last one but it is not correct, [baubles] oh dear now I am all mixed up again.

Re: situation with work, think it will be fine, emailed OW re: project we share telling her I aint doing it this week as I am too busy doing other important stuff [love that word, even though it makes me look thick],anyway.... she emailed me back a Nice email, like one from a normal person.

ithinkshemustbeamumsnetter

or higher beings have spoken?

T I was thinking about you yesterday and with you being a Catholic and all I think you would hate me.

When I was aged approximately 10/11/12/13 ish?

I used to on a Sunday afternoon

friends parents at bingo - free house)

play a weigdy [sp] [a pretend one with glass and cut out letters] board with all my friends not only that but convinced all my friend I had the D [word] [little dude with horns] inside me!!!! [shame]

Friends were terrified.

I can be very convincing but it was sore on the throat at the time, that i do remember.

Ater a while I got fed up with it as it was so sore, so just had to say he wasn't there today [dude with horns].

Then we just stopped playing that and played in the river instead....friends still don't know I was kidding.

Must remember to tell them,if I ever see them again. Oh does not like me mixing with those ppl. Even if one does live 1 street away. hmmm

I've been falling around the place laughing for the last five minutes just having read that last post, Blokey

M, I'm really sorry you're all going through this.

It's an absolute nightmare.

I'm trying desparately to imagine how I'd feel if I was going through this

Sad, angry, scared, frustrated..lots of things.

I hope to God things start to improve somehow.

I've not really turned on the computer the last few days as it's too much of a distraction and gets me thinking about things I've no control over and I have enough of those to contend with already so I chose to ignore the big black box....

Went christmas shopping on sunday with dh and G.

Lovely lights, very festive, went to look at exhibition at RHA which dh is in {shows off }

and on every corner there was a homeless man or woman

it was freezing, really, truly bitterly cold and these people were sitting with nothing but thin jackets/jumpers, staring at us lucky feckers with our hats, coats, gloves, warm homes, money, family as we rushed by, no time to stop, to make eye contact, to acknowledge their exsistence, offer something, anything.

I need to do something to help, join a group or make a monthly donation to a hostel, I feel sickened and haunted and angry.

Sorry for that, but how the hell is it that in the year 2008 we have people with no home, a basic human right, sitting and lying in gutters.

It's feckin' desperately, not desparately

hi tnog ,i agree with you about all the homeless,it is a disgusting state of affairs in this day and age.I cant imagine the horror of being out in the cold at night ,freezing and sleeping in any place they can find.

DD feels a bit safer now her dad has pu extra locks on her doors ,even though he is not allowed around the streets where she lives.But this only lasts till 19th dec,and that is what i am now concerned about.I dont inmagine the courts will do a lot,so he will probably be free to go where he likes,unless dd then gets an injunction out on him ,which i think she will do.It is very very scary ,for dd becasue she is scared,gd,s because it frightens them so much,and myself i am constantly worried about her now,i have been like this since he first acted violently toward her in the summer.Even though he hasnt been living there for the past few weeks he has been turning up when he felt like it at all hours and if dd asked him to leave he wouldnt go.he also phones her all day and sends text,so my poor dd has not had any chance to settle down at all,always afraid of what may happen.God knows why he has suddenly turned like this in the past six months,until this year he had never in 16yrs laid a finger on her.

baltic fecking baltic.

hope things improve.

I was a strange child Tnog. I think you may have guessed that.

M, your dd and the girls must feel completely devasted.

I'm so genuinely sorry that you as a family are going through this.

It seems an age since we all chatted on here.

I used to love it on the other thread when were all chatting and laughing and it really did help to cheer me up during some low points.

< sigh >

Anyway...

Am I going on too much about my feelings of feckin' upset that I don't feel able to go on it anymore.

M, tell me what you think

You've managed to just roll with it, am I just a bollix?

Blokey,

I'd never have thought that....

ever

im not quite sure why you felt like you did when other people started to come onto the thread and i know you think you have no solutions to peoples problems when they pop up,but this isnt the view i get ,you have as much understanding as anyone else,maybe you find it hard to say what you mean,i dont know.But tnog you are very popular and this thread is virtually the same as scuttle anyway !!! Of course the dynamics of scuttle changed because some of the long time scuttlers stopped coming on very much and newer people joined us,but they are all as nice.I do find it easy to switch because whichever thread of the two im on,im still chatting to the people i want to chat with.it seems to be bothering you [ scuttle thread ] are you missing it ? i too miss our chats ,and im sure eventually we will have them again,but because of the situation at the moment regarding dd,and celebrations this week and the weekend i havent had a lot of time the last few days ,but this situation wont last forever [ i hope ]So until we catch up ,you carry on sorting out your favourite outfits to parade on here !!! take care and see you soon x ps i am not wearing my long slippers at the moment

good morning ,i have to be first to put this on hope you all have a good day ,i am off shopping with my brother so will try and catch you later.

I miss that too.

Can we organise a time to meet on here?

Tomorrow would be good. I am unsure wabout the timing as I have to meet with Boss lady.

I just been to a meeting and stood up in fromt of 15 ppl and told them I was not happy with OW coming and taking over, in front of OW.

So..... does anyone know where to buy a "filter"? to stop me filtering.