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Has MN just generally got more argumentative ??

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Greedybilly · 18/10/2026 20:44

I feel as though every thread turns into a row about 3 replies in. Is everyone just more argumentative these days? Rows between women about misogynistic behaviour I find really sad. Is there still a sister hood?
Should I just stay on the books and gardening threads?

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MerryAquaKoala · 19/10/2026 12:15

PoppieCock · 19/10/2026 12:06

Oh, the YP would annoy me a bit because I'd either have to ask you what you meant, or I'd have to Google it.

But either way, I wouldn't get angry 🤣

Ah ok. Well it's Young Person, it was with the context of education. I am so used to using it and it's used very often on university / Higher Education boards /discussions / websites, I didn't think twice. Yes.. don't get weirdly angry, just look it up / ignore / ask.. Very sensible advice for us all! But MNers love a tussle..

PoppieCock · 19/10/2026 12:27

HairsprayBabe · 19/10/2026 12:11

DD and DS have been AWOL for 1wk - I rang 111 but DH said they are probably at FILs working PT and I know nothing because I am a SAHM with 4 NDNs on each side.

Should I LTB so he is StbExH or AIBU?

Can I get any more in @PoppieCock ha!

Idk?

😁

HairsprayBabe · 19/10/2026 12:29

@PoppieCock sorry I should have included a diagram!

Anarchy99 · 19/10/2026 12:30

The ‘sisterhood’ is a myth and always has been. It’s like ‘be kind’ - utter shit designed to shut women up.

If you find boards not to your liking then just hide them.

TemperanceWest · 19/10/2026 12:31

orthrywreeinvicedifthe · 18/10/2026 21:52

Yep. I had a thread and three of them were acting extremely odd and then one made a mistake and posted what was meant to be a DM in the thread.

I seen the same three names on other threads that day repeating the same pattern of behaviour.

I think they name change every day but I always assume it’s them when I see someone coming on to be abusive to OP on often innocuous threads who is then joined by a couple of others.

I think it must be a hobby for them.

You should let mnhq know. They can read the DMs.

Anarchy99 · 19/10/2026 12:36

Greedybilly · 18/10/2026 20:45

Fully expecting this to turn into full combat after 2 replies but hey let's hope not.....
Maybe it's just not the forum for me anymore 😕

Well yes because this is the weekly ‘isn’t MN mean’ thread. Do you want people to convince you to stay? Or do you want people to be more supportive of each other?

Greedybilly · 19/10/2026 13:26

@Anarchy99- erm..... this is exactly what I'm talking about. The general meaness of your tone. No one needs to convince me to stay but the general rudeness is horrible.

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Greedybilly · 19/10/2026 13:27

@Anarchy99my take on the sisterhood is v different to yours. It's seen me through some tough times .

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squashyhat · 19/10/2026 13:37

ShakyBake · 18/10/2026 21:07

Can we settle this with an arm wrestle?

Thumb wars

HairsprayBabe · 19/10/2026 13:45

@Anarchy99 fucking hell who pissed in your Weetabix? You know it is possible to disagree with someone without having an attitude.

No-one is saying you have to be bosom buddies but I don't understand the total lack of civility. It isn't "be kind" or "sisterhood" to want a generally polite exchange.

Andylion · 19/10/2026 13:50

I dislike the posters who are argumentative and lazy. Their single response to a post will be ”And?”
They can’t even be arsed to argue.

Greedybilly · 19/10/2026 13:55

@HairsprayBabe- thank-you the general arsiness is awful.
Also anyone know how u hide a thread? Thanku

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HairsprayBabe · 19/10/2026 13:58

@Greedybilly at the bottom of a thread before the text box there is a set of buttons unwatch//flip//hide

Greedybilly · 19/10/2026 15:17

Hmmm not on my phone there isn't but thanks for trying!@HairsprayBabe

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Sticklebricks · 19/10/2026 15:22

I like the people coming on the thread to be argumentative, very meta

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