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Cultural Day at Primary School

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DancingonmyOwn88 · 16/10/2026 10:22

Looking for ideas! Not a political debate.

it’s Cultural appreciation Day next week at my son’s school, there’s quite a lot of different backgrounds that his classmates are coming from (only 15 in the class but it’s a southeast London borough) and we are actually in a bit of a minority being white British.

But they want parents to be involved which is very nice and it happens to be a day I’m not working, so they’re inviting us to come in and do a 5-10 min activity and take some traditional food from your culture to a class lunch.

As I say we are just English. Not even any Scottish or Irish or Welsh or things that are widely celebrated. I suppose it’s just making me wonder if it’s ‘ok’ to outwardly celebrate being white British without causing any offence (please no Reform-esque debates here I am trying to navigate it appropriately!

What do I do? Learn morris dancing? Dress as a Pearly Queen 😂

I thought about just reading a Paddington Bear book and making some marmalade sandwiches but is that a bit lame?

DS is only in reception by the way so they’re all very small obviously and they’re still all getting to know each other as a class.

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Reallyneedsaholiday · 16/10/2026 21:51

Mining and the use of pasties by the miners (they didn't eat the crust because their hands were too dirty to touch their food)

(Althpugh I like the Paddington idea)

CrystalSingerFan · 16/10/2026 22:04

WhatMyNameis · 16/10/2026 18:16

Oh ffs, you cannot think of one, single cultural English thing? Cos I’m black, share THREE cultures and could come up with loads.

How about a list of museums with stolen and looted art? Too young a crowd?

Hell, yeah!

Benin Bronzes? Nicked.
Elgin Marbles? (I believe we paid the Ottomans for them.)
Hoa Hakananai'a (Easter Island Statue)? A basalt moai statue taken from Rapa Nui in 1868 by a British crew and placed in the British Museum. The Rapa Nui community and Chilean government have formally requested its return.

etc.

Benvenuto · 16/10/2026 22:04

The Devon / Cornish scones sounds lovely.

There’s a lot to talk about with afternoon tea traditions - how to set the table; how to pour tea (could put juice in a tea pot to practise); good table manners such as not reaching across the table to grab stuff; how what you eat varies across the country; how to talk politely etc. You could also talk about how this is an event for family and friends to socialise.

Oranges & lemons was mentioned earlier & it would be a good way of introducing rhyming slang if you want to focus on London.

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DancingonmyOwn88 · 16/10/2026 22:11

Oranges and Lemons is a great historical nursery rhyme!

Although in modern renditions they disappointingly omit the ‘here comes a chopper to chop off your head’ part. They just repeat ‘here comes a candle to light you to bed’

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Kelticgold · 16/10/2026 23:08

Keep it simple and mystical. Dress him up as a druid and send him with a tray of Bourbonhenge.

Lachimolala82 · 17/10/2026 03:25

Literature. I'm an immigrant and I love this about Britain. Beatrix Potter, AA Milne, CS Lewis, Shakespeare. My children grew up on both cultures and literature is the one thing we are very proud of about being British. Maybe choose a book and embody it completely by dressing up and bring props (stuffed animals to re-enact Peter Rabbit, Winnie The Pooh, etc) Or dress up as Kings and Queens and recite a Shakespeare. I mean, the entire Horrible Histories crew are national treasures! Hope you have a great time being proud of who you are. x

Redplasticboat · 17/10/2026 08:14

DancingonmyOwn88 · 16/10/2026 22:11

Oranges and Lemons is a great historical nursery rhyme!

Although in modern renditions they disappointingly omit the ‘here comes a chopper to chop off your head’ part. They just repeat ‘here comes a candle to light you to bed’

I taught my children the chopper bit.

DancingonmyOwn88 · 17/10/2026 08:39

Redplasticboat · 17/10/2026 08:14

I taught my children the chopper bit.

Me too, DS loves that bit 😅

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GlomOfNit · 17/10/2026 09:45

RandomUserName12345 · 16/10/2026 10:32

We did the "The Great British Scone Debate".

Introduction to British tradition of Afternoon Tea centered around the scones.

The Introduction - a brief child friendly introduction to British tea culture and how people enjoy a cozy afternoon break with tea and scones.

The Debate Devon vs. Cornwall - introduce the historic light-hearted British rivalry regarding how to dress a scone.
The Devon Way - Cream first then jam.
The Cornwall Way - Jam first then cream.

Ask the children to vote by a show of hands on which method they think sounds the best.
The children receive precut mini scones and get to assemble their own based on whether they voted for the Devon or Cornwall method.

Brilliant idea!

Though I really like the idea of marmalade sandwiches and reading a Paddington Bear book, too.

mumnosbest · 17/10/2026 19:20

You could share the George and the dragon story then colour a dragon, make a dragon mask. Reception kids will love anything dragon related.

TimeToStopLurking · 17/10/2026 20:36

Paddington Bear is a great idea. There's a lovely big mural on London's South Bank. Work that into your story. Will post a photo if it lets me.

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DancingonmyOwn88 · 17/10/2026 20:45

mumnosbest · 17/10/2026 19:20

You could share the George and the dragon story then colour a dragon, make a dragon mask. Reception kids will love anything dragon related.

I do love this. Love a dragon 🐉

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DancingonmyOwn88 · 17/10/2026 20:46

TimeToStopLurking · 17/10/2026 20:36

Paddington Bear is a great idea. There's a lovely big mural on London's South Bank. Work that into your story. Will post a photo if it lets me.

That’s lovely, I hadn’t known it was there!

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BlackeyedSusan · 17/10/2026 22:54

Nursery rhymes
Traditional stories
A book you read as a kid
Red post box.
Fairy cakes
Pancakes
Skipping rhymes
Clapping rhythms/rhymes
Cat's cradle
Songs you sang in assembly
Games you played in PE/playground
Paddington was a TV programme and film so would fit.

WhatMyNameis · Yesterday 12:05

CrystalSingerFan · 16/10/2026 22:04

Hell, yeah!

Benin Bronzes? Nicked.
Elgin Marbles? (I believe we paid the Ottomans for them.)
Hoa Hakananai'a (Easter Island Statue)? A basalt moai statue taken from Rapa Nui in 1868 by a British crew and placed in the British Museum. The Rapa Nui community and Chilean government have formally requested its return.

etc.

😂

LlynTegid · Yesterday 12:12

So how did it go OP? What did you choose?

DancingonmyOwn88 · Yesterday 18:09

LlynTegid · Yesterday 12:12

So how did it go OP? What did you choose?

Aw thanks for asking! It was actually really sweet, only a couple of other parents wanted to do anything/were free to do something (some Venezuelan music and Nigerian dance session, both great) but others did bring in lots of nice food for the picnic. Lots of children in traditional dress from their various cultures.

I did end up reading Paddington at the Palace, my little boy had a Kings Guard costume and acted as my assistant and I asked lots of questions to the children about where Paddington came from and various London landmarks etc. Then we gave out little jars of marmalade with a Paddington sticker on.

I sent in a tray of cream cheese and cucumber sandwiches with the crusts cut off and cheese and pineapple sticks for the picnic, and a little dish of coronation chicken, which I don’t think was too popular with the children but the teachers liked it!

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Heylittlesongbird · Yesterday 18:43

Sounds perfect, thanks for updating us.

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