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I discovered today that I am a complete failure as a parent….

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CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 17:44

………I discovered that my adult
ds is a……historical re enactor!!!

Where did I go wrong?😢

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Arran2024 · 11/10/2026 18:43

I hope he's on the right side!

AlexandraCarrington · 11/10/2026 18:46

What does he re-enact? I've met medieval, English Civil War and Napoleonic re-enactors. There are people who do the 1940s too (minus the rationing, I assume).

Thelastofmypatienceisonfire · 11/10/2026 18:46

I’m more intrigued what historical reenactment he does.
And I say that without sarcasm as me and my family, kids and all, do it too!

HoppityBun · 11/10/2026 18:47

Arran2024 · 11/10/2026 18:43

I hope he's on the right side!

Hmmm. Right but Repulsive or Wrong but Wromantic?

Facecreamed · 11/10/2026 18:49

Wynter25 · 11/10/2026 18:40

I wouldnt be happy if my kids were vegan imho

How odd.

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 18:49

I absolutely refuse to start a vegan thread! (Absolutely nothing wrong with veganism, btw) Not sure how it works but he’s a Saxon today. Does that means he’s always a Saxon or just for The Battle of Hastings?

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AlexandraCarrington · 11/10/2026 18:50

Right but Repulsive or Wrong but Wromantic?

They were both wrong really, but one side had nicer frocks.

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 18:50

HoppityBun · 11/10/2026 18:47

Hmmm. Right but Repulsive or Wrong but Wromantic?

🤣🤣

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Facecreamed · 11/10/2026 18:51

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 18:49

I absolutely refuse to start a vegan thread! (Absolutely nothing wrong with veganism, btw) Not sure how it works but he’s a Saxon today. Does that means he’s always a Saxon or just for The Battle of Hastings?

Don’t be silly — the key question is whether he got his picture on the Bayeux Tapestry!

jetlag92 · 11/10/2026 18:52

SilenceInside · 11/10/2026 18:05

I can't tell if you are being serious or ironic...

Nothing wrong with being vegan either, but perhaps that's more irony.

Well it is if you have kids and you make them vegan too. But that hobby sounds fun!

SmalllChange · 11/10/2026 18:52

Ahh, we host reenacters at work and they're a lovely bunch of people.

The only thing I'd say about the particular lot we host, is they're not keen on using the washing facilities.

And given they're wearing the same costumes all week, they can get a bit fragrant by the end of it 🤭

NimbleTaupeTiger · 11/10/2026 18:53

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 18:49

I absolutely refuse to start a vegan thread! (Absolutely nothing wrong with veganism, btw) Not sure how it works but he’s a Saxon today. Does that means he’s always a Saxon or just for The Battle of Hastings?

Ooooo, I've been to one of those re-enactments at Battle Abbey ... They are FABULOUS 😍

Imisscoffee2021 · 11/10/2026 18:54

I remember guffawing at larpers in the woods as a teen, now almost 40 with a son I'd actually be thrilled if that was one day his hobby! They all have found their tribe, found friends and lots of creativity in that world. Yeah it can be a little cringey in a sense, I know a few people who like viking fairs and take it seriously but it's always with a huge dollop of fun, and what a great thing in life to find people on the same wavelength, it's not a given for some people.

Loverurarliving01 · 11/10/2026 18:55

As a historian, I find it weird when someone doesn't want to be a historical reenactor.

AnnaQuayRules · 11/10/2026 18:57

Are you anywhere near Suffolk? There's a recreated Anglo Saxon village at West Stow (near Bury St Edmunds) and they often have Saxon re enactors there. It's fascinating

HoppityBun · 11/10/2026 18:57

AlexandraCarrington · 11/10/2026 18:50

Right but Repulsive or Wrong but Wromantic?

They were both wrong really, but one side had nicer frocks.

When I was 10, our history teacher asked us which one we supported. I was nonplussed because obviously it was the ones that had nice frocks and supported KC2. I couldn’t explain why.

Years later I realised it was because I had read Children Of The New Forest! I had a look at it recently and found it almost unreadable.

I have also now come to regard the Putney Debates as seminal in the history of our nation. “The poorest he that is in England hath a life to live as the greatest he…”

… but I fear I’m getting over serious for a light-hearted thread.

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 18:58

He would LOVE the wrong but womantic clothes!

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RedThroatedWarbler · 11/10/2026 18:58

SmalllChange · 11/10/2026 18:52

Ahh, we host reenacters at work and they're a lovely bunch of people.

The only thing I'd say about the particular lot we host, is they're not keen on using the washing facilities.

And given they're wearing the same costumes all week, they can get a bit fragrant by the end of it 🤭

Historical realism.

NoelEdmondsHairGel · 11/10/2026 18:58

AnnaQuayRules · 11/10/2026 17:45

So, he has a hobby which he enjoys and which is very sociable?

I would be fine with that. I live in fear of one of my DC announcing they are joining Reform. I think I'd have to disinherit them.......

Do you always take things so literally?

Terfedout · 11/10/2026 19:03

SilenceInside · 11/10/2026 18:05

I can't tell if you are being serious or ironic...

Nothing wrong with being vegan either, but perhaps that's more irony.

Really??!!

CurlewKate · 11/10/2026 19:04

jetlag92 · 11/10/2026 18:52

Well it is if you have kids and you make them vegan too. But that hobby sounds fun!

Can’t sit in my hands-have to make one comment. If I’m a vegan then so are my children until they leave home.

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AlexandraCarrington · 11/10/2026 19:06

Saxons in action against William the Bastard
Forefather - When Our England Died - music video

Edit: the link doesn't work, but there's the title for anyone who wants to look it up.

SmalllChange · 11/10/2026 19:16

RedThroatedWarbler · 11/10/2026 18:58

Historical realism.

If you ignore the vaping when the general public have gone 😁

Nofeckingway · 11/10/2026 19:21

Is he a Roundhead or a Cavalier ? Snigger . 😜 Oops sorry , just realised that you are his mother . 🤐
Never mind you will just have to rewrite your Will and disinherit him .