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Somebody has just walked into our hotel room at 4am

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Batmam · 09/10/2026 05:18

Me and DP were fast asleep in a (large, chain) hotel and a woman with a suitcase has just let herself in with a key - don’t know who was more shocked her or us! We didn’t have any clothes on but were under the sheets thank god. I was sleeping so deeply it took me a second to realise what was going on. Never had this happen before in my life, and after everything that happened with Premier Inn I thought hotels would be even more diligent about security.

Phoned reception and she was more concerned with getting our details than actually apologising. It wasn’t a mistake with the key, the woman was told that this was her room. I’ve never worked in a hotel, but how could this happen? We checked in in person last night and signed for the room. Already paid when booking unfortunately. Surely the system should have known this room was occupied?

We’ve bolted the door now and it obviously won’t happen again tonight, but I doubt I’ll be able to go back to sleep now...

  • [Correction at OP's request - the security incident mentioned was at a Travelodge hotel, not a Premier Inn]
OP posts:
XenaSharples · 09/10/2026 09:07

I've had this happen, but it was during the day, and I didn't think anything of it. Still, it's a dangerous situation given that people have been assaulted in their rooms.

Pumpkinsaregrowingnicely · 09/10/2026 09:09

I bet Rose West owned a suitcase...

CosySocksBasket · 09/10/2026 09:10

Maisymouse2 · 09/10/2026 05:43

Why is it Scary?
A woman with a suitcase wouldnt be a threat.

What is with people today on here. Just stop. Of course someone coming in while you’re sleeping will be scary, nerves shot through the roof.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

GCAcademic · 09/10/2026 09:11

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 09:06

Those aren't emotive words except life-threatening (I only used it as I was responding to someone who used that word). Everything else I said was minimising the event/putting it into perspective not blowing it out of proportion as some others seem to be doing by calling it scary, dangerous, life threatening etc.

I will agree my criticisms are probably more towards those who are overreacting on this thread ( I haven't seen OP post again)

Edited

I would stop digging now. You’re making yourself look very foolish.

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 09:13

GCAcademic · 09/10/2026 09:11

I would stop digging now. You’re making yourself look very foolish.

To be fair I don't give a fuck what some randoms on the internet think about me

Franjipanl8r · 09/10/2026 09:14

Simplepink · 09/10/2026 05:57

This happened to my husband in a hotel when he was naked on the toilet having a poo! The other man was very drunk and belligerent and kept insisting it was his room. Poor husband said it was horrible being barged in on at your most vulnerable 😆

This story wins 😂

Imdunfer · 09/10/2026 09:16

QuirkyHorse · 09/10/2026 05:20

Why didn't you secure the door when you went to bed?
Do you leave your front door unlocked at home?

That said, the hotel need to look into why it has happened.

That's your take on a hotel giving someone keys to a room they shouldn't be in?

This isn't skin to not locking your door (which isn't always possible) it's the agent who rented your house giving someone else a front door key and telling them to let themselves in.

GCAcademic · 09/10/2026 09:16

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 09:13

To be fair I don't give a fuck what some randoms on the internet think about me

We know, you’re soooo cool and unphased by anything, not like the other girls 🤣

Iocanepowder · 09/10/2026 09:16

Pumpkinsaregrowingnicely · 09/10/2026 09:09

I bet Rose West owned a suitcase...

😂😂😂

I think we should randomly walk into everyone’s rooms who’ve said it’s not scary in the middle of the night and see who shits themsevles.

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 09:18

GCAcademic · 09/10/2026 09:16

We know, you’re soooo cool and unphased by anything, not like the other girls 🤣

I didn't say anything about other girls. You are trying to judge me and I just said I don't know you so don't care what you have to say about me.

Imdunfer · 09/10/2026 09:18

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 08:15

You can be scared at the time but obsessing over for days afterwards is silly. It sounds like an honest mistake. Honestly if you travel a lot this is considered pretty minor.

I travel a lot. No, it's not.

echt · 09/10/2026 09:19

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 09:06

Those aren't emotive words except life-threatening (I only used it as I was responding to someone who used that word). Everything else I said was minimising the event/putting it into perspective not blowing it out of proportion as some others seem to be doing by calling it scary, dangerous, life threatening etc.

I will agree my criticisms are probably more towards those who are overreacting on this thread ( I haven't seen OP post again)

Edited

Jesus.

They're all emotive words. Weren't you listening in your English lessons?

Oh, and I missed out your "no need to go full Karen". How does the OP fulfil the stereotype of Karen? Offensive as it is, you don't appear to understand what it means.

yesleavemealone · 09/10/2026 09:19

It was Travellodge that had all the trouble about them letting people into other people's rooms not Premier.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 09/10/2026 09:20

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 08:48

People have been using the words life threatening and dangerous situation in this thread. Maybe not OP but others are blowing it out of proportion.

I mean you described it yourself as a 'dangerous situation's maybe you're the drama queen

Edited

What are you waffling on about now. Of course it’s dangerous if hotels are giving out room keys to other people who might use it for other reasons. Want a concrete example? Woman assaulted in Travelodge

No, it wasn’t a “dangerous” situation on this occasion. But it could have been, should the person given the key be a dangerous person and if OP was alone.

Is it ok to be a bit shaken up to realise that any random could get into your room and struggle to get back to sleep? Yes. Is the whole point of a hotel to give you a safe place to sleep? Yes!

Just because you’ve travelled a lot doesn’t make you an expert on travelling safely. It sounds like you’re a bit lax to me and have been lucky. I’ve travelled a lot too and have a totally different perspective.

And no, OP wouldn’t be a “Karen” to complain to the hotel about what happened so they can improve their policies and processes (god, update your terminology won’t you, that is a bit overdone now)

A shot of the travelodge in Maidenhead

Travelodge failed Maidenhead sex assault victim 'at every stage'

Room intrusions were still being reported at one-in-10 Travelodge hotels this summer, a review finds.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c93429dg425o

CleverlyBeery · 09/10/2026 09:22

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 08:11

No I mean 100% I've had it happen at least once before. I've also probably stayed in about 40 or so hostels throughout my life so have seen/experienced far worse.

Edit: I should say I'm a big solo traveller who has been to 50+ countries over the years

Edited

Sorry, what do you mean by 100% then, if you're not describing the proportion of times it's happened? On one occasion it happened 100% instead of 10% ?

thevassal · 09/10/2026 09:22

SnowflakesandSlippers · 09/10/2026 05:40

Wasn't it Travelodge that was mainly in the news for this? I think you need to talk to reception about why this happened and ask for a refund.

Yes it was travelodge that had a number of incidents.

It would be helpful if op had said which chain she was in! Not sure why people are assuming it was premier inn just because she (incorrectly) remembered other incidents happening in.

Cailleach1 · 09/10/2026 09:22

Maisymouse2 · 09/10/2026 05:43

Why is it Scary?
A woman with a suitcase wouldnt be a threat.

Since the reception were giving out the card key to op’s room, it could have been given out to anyone.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 09/10/2026 09:24

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 08:15

You can be scared at the time but obsessing over for days afterwards is silly. It sounds like an honest mistake. Honestly if you travel a lot this is considered pretty minor.

Pretty sure @PeachyDaisy is just looking for reactions at this point - or refused to read the thread properly.

OP posted about an hour or two after it happened, not “days later”

CleverlyBeery · 09/10/2026 09:24

PeachyDaisy · 09/10/2026 08:15

You can be scared at the time but obsessing over for days afterwards is silly. It sounds like an honest mistake. Honestly if you travel a lot this is considered pretty minor.

OP posted an hour later. How you think an hour equates to several days, and post equates to "obsessing", I don't know.

Strawberrydelight78 · 09/10/2026 09:25

QuirkyHorse · 09/10/2026 05:20

Why didn't you secure the door when you went to bed?
Do you leave your front door unlocked at home?

That said, the hotel need to look into why it has happened.

It locks automatically when you close it. The bolt won’t actually make a difference. You only have to push the handle down to open from the inside. So will be easy for someone to access with a key card. I only put the bolt on with the door open if I’m going to someone else’s room we are with nearby. To save me going through the rigmarole of using the key card each time.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 09/10/2026 09:28

Imdunfer · 09/10/2026 09:18

I travel a lot. No, it's not.

Indeed - My DH travels dozens of times a year for work and has done so for 30 years, in addition to at least 3 leisure trips a year, often with children in adjacent rooms.
It has never happened to him.

It would be a major concern as a senior director and manager precisely because of the implications this would have for female colleagues travelling with him or being sent by him on work trips. You should not need to have been assaulted or raped - or just attacked and robbed as a male - to be allowed to feel outrage that it has happened and appears to be commonplace.

That isn’t about building ‘resilience’, it’s about the right to expect the legal contract between guest and hotel to be observed and the safety and privacy of each guest and their possessions to be paramount in the operation of a business.

@Batmam am really sorry this happened to you - hope the hotel management addresses this today. And I’d be tempted to reach out to the journos who have been covering the Premier Inn scandal so they can add it to their files!

AnonyMumAuDHD · 09/10/2026 09:32

Just to add: this didn’t used to happen when hotels used physical keys as they could easily monitor how many had been issued. I think computing systems that issue key cards need a failsafe - in this case it should have know that 2 cards had already been issued for that room and the system should have blocked the encoding of new card, giving the staff on onscreen warning that can only be overridden by a security procedure that requires management to verify the occupancy of the room.

Batmam · 09/10/2026 09:35

It’s not Premier Inn, it’s an airport Radisson Blu. That reference was about the incident at a Travelodge where man sexually assaulted a woman after getting the key card to her room by lying to staff that he was her boyfriend. (Sorry I remembered the hotel name wrong, I’ll try to edit the post)

Kyran Smith mugshot. He has dark hair and dark stubble.

How Travelodge in Maidenhead gave sex attacker key to woman's room

The woman, who woke to find Kyran Smith sexually assaulting her, branded a £30 reward offer "insulting".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3v77w5d437o

OP posts:
LondonPapa · 09/10/2026 09:36

Batmam · 09/10/2026 05:18

Me and DP were fast asleep in a (large, chain) hotel and a woman with a suitcase has just let herself in with a key - don’t know who was more shocked her or us! We didn’t have any clothes on but were under the sheets thank god. I was sleeping so deeply it took me a second to realise what was going on. Never had this happen before in my life, and after everything that happened with Premier Inn I thought hotels would be even more diligent about security.

Phoned reception and she was more concerned with getting our details than actually apologising. It wasn’t a mistake with the key, the woman was told that this was her room. I’ve never worked in a hotel, but how could this happen? We checked in in person last night and signed for the room. Already paid when booking unfortunately. Surely the system should have known this room was occupied?

We’ve bolted the door now and it obviously won’t happen again tonight, but I doubt I’ll be able to go back to sleep now...

  • [Correction at OP's request - the security incident mentioned was at a Travelodge hotel, not a Premier Inn]

Travelodge or Premier Inn? Avoid like the plague.

Sometimesitsmyownfault · 09/10/2026 09:48

SnowflakesandSlippers · 09/10/2026 06:16

Side note, but how can so many people sleep naked in a hotel room. I would worry too much about the fire alarm going off! I always take my best pyjamas just in case!

I slept virtually fully dressed once on the top floor of a right dump of a hotel in Aberystwyth. Crash helmet, boots and bike keys easily to hand, no way was my bare arse being displayed to the townsfolk, over a fireman's shoulder.

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