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What would persuade frequent fliers to fly less?

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hippospot · 05/10/2026 22:05

I read this very article and liked the suggestion of having to pay more for each subsequent flight you take in a year. Maybe a family who take one holiday a year won't be penalised but the people who fly multiple times a year would face increased penalties the more they fly. Currently 5% of the population is taking 33% of the flights!

I worry so much about climate change but people around me seem to not be making any adjustments to their carbon-heavy lifestyles. What could be the solution in your view?

I don't really want to debate whether flying is the biggest cause of climate change. It isn't. But it's one of the biggest discretionary changes we can make to our impact on the climate as individuals.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/oct/03/heathrow-third-runway-climate-warnings-economic-reality?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

The expansion of Heathrow would be an expensive disaster for Britain and the world. Burnham needs to block it | George Monbiot

A third runway would fly in the face of reason. If we are to prioritise human life over short-term ‘growth’, we need to use planes less, not more, says Guardian columnist George Monbiot

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/oct/03/heathrow-third-runway-climate-warnings-economic-reality?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

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Ozgirl76 · 06/10/2026 13:01

I mean, it makes sense as a Labour policy. They love to tax the middle classes and yet the properly rich wouldn’t even notice. Same as VAT on school fees. The people I know in the middle class have pulled out their kids and tutored for grammar places while the properly rich barely noticed the increase.

So yes, if you want flying multiple times to be only for the very rich, this is a great policy.

My DH flies regularly for business and it wouldn’t affect him as our business pays. If it had to pay more for flights, ok, then we will make less profit and pay less tax, no biggie.

Clearinguptheclutter · 06/10/2026 13:05

Octavia64 · 05/10/2026 22:25

Decent fucking trains.

this, I would be far more likely to take a train to euope if a. it was cheaper than flying (it makes no sense to me that it can be approximately double the cost, sometimes more) b. endless strikes/engineering work often make it less reliable than a flight and seats never seem to be guaranteed

yes it takes longer but within reason I'd put up with it if they sorted out a and b

PauliesWalnuts · 06/10/2026 13:13

Subsidised or not-for profit train travel in the UK. I'd love to get the train to Europe but not when it costs me £200+ for an off-peak single train ticket to London just to get to St Pancras for the Eurostar.

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FiveEightNine · 06/10/2026 13:14

hippospot · 06/10/2026 09:10

Maybe I should have specified leisure travellers. Clearly if you are forced to travel for your job, or you have family abroad, it's different. What I think upsets me is the people who take 2, 3, 4+ flights a year for leisure, seemingly without any concern for the environment at all. Who fly to Mexico for a beach holiday when there are nice hot beaches much closer to home, for example.

I absolutely agree that trains need to be cheaper. I've taken several journeys by train that would have been cheaper by plane, which has obviously meant saving up for longer in order to do so (obviously this was leisure and not an emergency trip).

As someone said above, it would be awful to return to the days of the European tour when only the very privileged could travel. I agree 100%. But something's got to give. I do get the impression that a lot of travel these days is about Instagram and FOMO and being seen to be well-travelled.

As a species we can't really continue to live as we currently do, can we?

Nope. Why do you single out leisure?

My leisure flights are much more meaningful for me then many of my work flights were.
Similarly, living far from family is a choice, not more valuable than living close to family and going for holidays together.

I am all for some kind of reduction, but targeting leisure first is very lazy.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 06/10/2026 13:23

What does flying your private jet to COP conferences come under, business or leisure? because until people see change coming from those who lecture the rest of us while dong what they like, they won't stop flying.

OreganoandFeta · 06/10/2026 14:00

Making the UK trains more reliable and more affordable. I live in the UK, travel to Europe by train and have a French railcard because the discount is worth it but every time getting to and from London St Pancras for the Eurostar is expensive and unreliable so have to allow more time than should be necessary and to be honest if it's a shorter trip I can understand why people would fly rather than face that. Eurostar can be affordable if booked in advance but glad they will soon have competition.

bababamama · 06/10/2026 14:04

Most frequent flyers are travelling for a reason, work, family etc. Also need to take flights varies depending on where you live, my in laws have to take a flight to see the consultant for medical conditions or it’s a 14 hour ferry! If i lived in London I would take the train to near Europe but from where I live it takes far longer, requires an awkward tube transfer and is very expensive

Quokka2 · 06/10/2026 14:09

I fly from one end of the UK to the other where I previously took the train. The train now takes 25-50% longer (usually the latter), costs 50% more and is noiser, smellier and hotter than 10years ago. Flights have remained the same and are possibly even cheaper now.

Also where travelling for in face meetings disappeared for a while when everyone realised they didn't have to, a significant minority of workplaces are intent on returning. I'm sure airlines and airports are lobbying in favour of this.

DistantEarlyWarning · 06/10/2026 14:20

hippospot · 06/10/2026 09:10

Maybe I should have specified leisure travellers. Clearly if you are forced to travel for your job, or you have family abroad, it's different. What I think upsets me is the people who take 2, 3, 4+ flights a year for leisure, seemingly without any concern for the environment at all. Who fly to Mexico for a beach holiday when there are nice hot beaches much closer to home, for example.

I absolutely agree that trains need to be cheaper. I've taken several journeys by train that would have been cheaper by plane, which has obviously meant saving up for longer in order to do so (obviously this was leisure and not an emergency trip).

As someone said above, it would be awful to return to the days of the European tour when only the very privileged could travel. I agree 100%. But something's got to give. I do get the impression that a lot of travel these days is about Instagram and FOMO and being seen to be well-travelled.

As a species we can't really continue to live as we currently do, can we?

You’re OK with businesses flying people all over the world in business class, but not with ordinary leisure travellers taking a few flights in economy?

And you don’t want to return to the days when only the very wealthy can travel, but you want to price ordinary folk out of their trip because they only want to look good on Instagram?

Make it make sense.

GasPanic · 06/10/2026 14:21

Just add on significant environmental taxes and use them to subsidise net zero.

WoollyPigeon · 06/10/2026 14:28

I don't think you've really thought this through OP

Summerhillsquare · 06/10/2026 14:38

cheapskatemum · 05/10/2026 22:13

DH would fly less if he retired. He’s a frequent flyer because he works abroad. I’m sure this applies to many frequent flyers.

Yes, my former employer had to be badgered to let me take a train back from European meetings, and I had to take annual leave for the extra time it took! That stopped when colleagues had a massive flight delay and I kicked off at the unfairness.

So getting through to key employers would help. Fines/taxes on them to begin with.

Ritaskitchen · 06/10/2026 14:39

Magically make the European country I live in and the UK where some of my family live an easily drivable distance from each other? Rather then at least 12 hours non stop driving and a ferry or channel tunnel journey?
Make my job to have no travel requirements but they would mean restructuring the whole company or selling off manor parts of it.

Stop my mum having cancer and subsequent treatment and my dad having dementia.
Just things like that.

Yogafiend · 06/10/2026 14:40

cheapskatemum · 05/10/2026 22:13

DH would fly less if he retired. He’s a frequent flyer because he works abroad. I’m sure this applies to many frequent flyers.

Yes I agree. I would argue that most of frequent flyers are work related (myself and mum husband included). The other thing is we now live abroad so we fly very often.

Summerhillsquare · 06/10/2026 14:41

ChiasMarineras · 05/10/2026 22:42

Maybe if I could undertake all my work in my local region, I wouldn’t need to fly to do my job.

Maybe if my family weren’t scattered all over the world, I wouldn’t have to fly to see them.

Maybe if the specialisation course I’m on didn’t require me to be abroad for several weeks every year, I wouldn’t need to fly there regularly.

We’re not really getting on the planes every second week for funsies. I love me an airport and a flight, but I don’t usually do it out of choice. It’s both my livelihood and my family’s lifestyle.

Most emissions are caused by a minority of travellers, and yes it is a choice because you can afford it... Many people with family abroad can't, so don't.

neweconomics.org/2025/06/introducing-the-ultra-frequent-flyer

DearlyDiego · 06/10/2026 14:47

I'm exhausted by Joe Bloggs being expected to solve all the worlds problems by living a cruddy, moralistic and inconvenienced life. Meanwhile, the millionaires and billionaires are fuelling up their private jets and yachts, Amazon are putting an oak tree a week into their oversized packaging and toxic waste is being propelled into our oceans. But I'll use my paper straw and take a 8 hour train, with 3 station stops and wash out my milk carton before binning it - that'll help.

Berlinlover · 06/10/2026 15:02

I have Stage 4 cancer and would fly every week if I could.

Greedybilly · 06/10/2026 15:04

Decent, affordable trains would be a great start!

Greedybilly · 08/10/2026 15:34

All those very important people flying for work - can't uou just have a zoom meeting or something? Some of the time at least.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 08/10/2026 16:09

DearlyDiego · 06/10/2026 14:47

I'm exhausted by Joe Bloggs being expected to solve all the worlds problems by living a cruddy, moralistic and inconvenienced life. Meanwhile, the millionaires and billionaires are fuelling up their private jets and yachts, Amazon are putting an oak tree a week into their oversized packaging and toxic waste is being propelled into our oceans. But I'll use my paper straw and take a 8 hour train, with 3 station stops and wash out my milk carton before binning it - that'll help.

That's the most succinct summing up of my POV I think I've ever read.

And the banana bread. Don't forget the banana bread.

Anarchy99 · 08/10/2026 16:14

I’m guessing nothing would stop them.

That is fine as long as they don’t then bemoan the fact that their children and grandchildren will be living on a burning planet.

cartagenagina · 08/10/2026 16:21

Better train services.

Shinyhappyapple · 08/10/2026 16:27

hippospot · 06/10/2026 09:10

Maybe I should have specified leisure travellers. Clearly if you are forced to travel for your job, or you have family abroad, it's different. What I think upsets me is the people who take 2, 3, 4+ flights a year for leisure, seemingly without any concern for the environment at all. Who fly to Mexico for a beach holiday when there are nice hot beaches much closer to home, for example.

I absolutely agree that trains need to be cheaper. I've taken several journeys by train that would have been cheaper by plane, which has obviously meant saving up for longer in order to do so (obviously this was leisure and not an emergency trip).

As someone said above, it would be awful to return to the days of the European tour when only the very privileged could travel. I agree 100%. But something's got to give. I do get the impression that a lot of travel these days is about Instagram and FOMO and being seen to be well-travelled.

As a species we can't really continue to live as we currently do, can we?

But why would you expect to stop people travelling for leisure when people are flying frequently for business meetings which could take place virtually?

In terms of train travel, we have actually taken 3 short breaks this year by train and will do another couple next year. We’ve been able to do this though because we are retired and have the extra time, and no children travelling with us.

GalaDinner · 08/10/2026 16:27

Stop meddling in other people's lives. You do you.

Thechickenhasmypillow · 08/10/2026 16:30

Octavia64 · 05/10/2026 22:25

Decent fucking trains.

This to be honest
I always fly to Scotland because the trains are expensive, dirty and unreliable.