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Anyone else have fleeting special interests? Mine's been air traffic control.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 00:59

I have been watching You Tube videos of interactions between Air Traffic Controllers and Pilots on repeat, some funny ones. Also sad ones. I practically feel like I have learnt how to fly a plane. Clearly I haven't!

The ones I like best are where the ATC puts the Pilots through their paces. They are so good at their jobs. They also have some amusing interactions. I also just really like, I mean love, the sound of a voice over a radio frequency.

I'm not sure but I think historical disasters could become a special interest. There's something so all encompassing about learning everything about a past event from perspectives of different people and also through the lens of technologies.

I wonder how the 'smart phone age' will be studied in future centuries, it's been a mixed bag so far 😂

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Cheeseplantalltheway · 02/10/2026 22:07

Some of mine have been:

The Russian Revolution
Abandoned buildings
Nuclear disasters
Missing people
Cults (and people getting out of cults)

LifeBeginsToday · 02/10/2026 22:10

realsavagelike · 02/10/2026 19:21

Hands up if you are neurodivergent! I have ADHD. The hyperfocus is real!

I'm late diagnosed autistic.

Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 22:23

Ooh this thread took off (excuse the air pun). I'll settle in and read.

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Greenjersey · 02/10/2026 22:36

Flight radar 24
American politics in the 50s and 60s ( not a really fleeting one, still an interest)
Demolition of buildings, started on a sleepless night, watching a documentary about a company that did this, one of the engineers was a young woman

hitsdifferently · 02/10/2026 22:38

I think you need to check out Air Crash Investigation (or Mayday, depending on your location)…

You’re welcome!

Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 22:40

IzzyLeng · 02/10/2026 06:50

I used to listen to ATC stuff a lot. I take it you’ve come across Kennedy Steve?

Ooh I had not, I was just listening to the short clips. He looks a bit more long form. I'll check him out. I think I'd like the commentary.

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AgeingMillennial · 02/10/2026 22:46

Yes. My fleeting obsessions over the last few years have been: Mount Everest, space shuttle disasters and why they happened, the Mariana Trench and its aquatic inhabitants, life on remote islands, and 9/11.

DaftHapeth · 02/10/2026 22:48

Hello, yes.

Current obsessions are badass American rappers and European royal families.

Big crushes on Prince Carl of Sweden and 50 Cent.

Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 22:49

CheeseWisely · 02/10/2026 06:54

OP if historic disasters are your think you’ll enjoy the Cautionary Tales podcast, and for other people’s niche special interests The Boring Talks (although sadly they don’t make it anymore).

Some of the Cautionary Tales episodes have fascinated me and sparked lengthy deep dives to find out more.

Ooh thank you! I often hear people say things like check out X (I'm sure I've heard of Cautionary Tales) but it never resonates unless they explain why I might like it. I am a hard of thinking (cusp of Gen X) Millenial 😂. Adding to my list.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 22:58

Moistcottonchafers · 02/10/2026 07:05

My ex partner is a tower crane operator. I work in supply chain and get sadly excited about shipping so I feel like I've found my people. 😂

At the moment I'm reading a gun recognition book and trying to learn all the manufacturers, countries of origin, how to identify different weapons etc.

Last year it was Paganism.

I'd be really interested to know more about working in supply chain.

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WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma · 02/10/2026 23:04

I've found my people. Great thread OP!

I'm really fascinated by saturation divers (deep sea diving) I find the whole idea deeply unnerving and almost like I can't look away from it so I have to keep researching

Disasters like airplane crashes, oil rig fires, earthquakes. I spent ages and ages reading about piper alpha and deepwater horizon and other environmental disasters. I spent a day last weekend reading all about Tilly Smith that girl who saved all the beachgoers in Thailand from the boxing day tsunami and watching endless videos and trawling forums.

True crime stuff, mysteries as well, I'm just gripped. I love watching all those police documentaries about murders and things.

The hours I have spent on wikipedia!

Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:06

somekindofdoughnut · 02/10/2026 07:43

It's places for me, often places I will never go to, most recently West Virginia, currently medieval almshouses (I do plan to visit a few of these). I spend hours on Google Streetview.

If you get into the historic disasters I can recommend When It Goes Wrong, I really enjoy the host's matter of fact delivery.

The tower crane has made me smile - my ND dd with lots of mh issues got really excited when we had lunch in view of one and said she wished she could work in one. She rarely gets excited or enthusiastic about anything so this was touching for me.

I have a Virginia car numberplate from 1996 in my cabinet. DF bought the car over to the UK from when he worked there, but the car was shortlived as they did some kind of irrversible damage when it came off the ferry. He was in Virginia working. I went to visit. It was my first time in the US and it was bizarre (I was only 15) how familiar it seemed from TV. I think, as it was so far, I expected it to be very different. I had my hair cut in a small salon in a twee town in Virginia. I am sure we drove down Route 66 but google has just told me there isn't one so maybe he lied about that 😂 I remember being fascinated that he had an auto button and could take his feet off the pedals.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:37

OsfameronTanamoril · 02/10/2026 07:46

DH is obsessed with commodity prices.

Apparently China own everything?

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:40

bababamama · 02/10/2026 07:53

I’m with you on atc see also flight radar, aeroplane programmes more generally, especially crashes. I would have loved to train as atc but my maths and spatial awareness isn’t good enough

I feel like this. Same about a 999 call handler. I worked in an inbound customer service call centre once, different obvioulsy but it was genuinely the most enjoyable job ever. I would talk all day then go to do sports in the evening.

I then suddenly one day was bored of it and left really suddenly.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:44

realsavagelike · 02/10/2026 08:11

Yes, and it’s getting even harder to separate fact from fiction these days eg the transcript going around of one of the 9/11 planes between ATC and Todd Beamer. Fascinating, emotional, 95 percent made up.

Watching 9/11 footage three weeks ago was how I ended up on the current ATC obsession.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:52

Bjorkdidit · 02/10/2026 08:13

I loved The Boring Talks and also listen to Cautionary Tales. BT is probably still available somewhere and highly recommended. The best one was, wait for it, about the European Pallet Pool. You know pallets, that goods get delivered to shops on? There is a system, and they're all collectively owned and tracked. It was fascinating, honestly.

Its crazy really not that I am criticising modern culture but when you consider the level of drivell of some TV shows designed for escapism. I blame it on Chinas exports, we just lost interest in where things are from, how they are made, and how they get here. For an entire generation.

My GF had a saying according to my DF 'you're like shit from China, far fetched you are' when someone was being ridiculous.

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Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:54

LittleRedYoshi · 02/10/2026 08:13

Mountaineering. I’m an utter couch potato: I’m not outdoorsy, I don’t go to the gym, I can’t stand being cold - the prospect of climbing a mountain holds no appeal to me at all. But reading about other people doing it is weirdly fascinating.

I've been a fan of that. After a couple of big disaster movies I'm not sure I can again though, they are like worst nightmares! You know the one I mean I think.

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somekindofdoughnut · 02/10/2026 23:59

Megamegablahblah · 02/10/2026 23:06

I have a Virginia car numberplate from 1996 in my cabinet. DF bought the car over to the UK from when he worked there, but the car was shortlived as they did some kind of irrversible damage when it came off the ferry. He was in Virginia working. I went to visit. It was my first time in the US and it was bizarre (I was only 15) how familiar it seemed from TV. I think, as it was so far, I expected it to be very different. I had my hair cut in a small salon in a twee town in Virginia. I am sure we drove down Route 66 but google has just told me there isn't one so maybe he lied about that 😂 I remember being fascinated that he had an auto button and could take his feet off the pedals.

I needed to know how things went from The Waltons to Demon Copperhead (brilliant, brilliant book, must read) via Empire of Pain (ditto). It is sobering to look at those hollers now and know that life on Waltons Mountain would not be so wholesome these days.

Megamegablahblah · 03/10/2026 00:03

TheGoldenApplesOfTheSun · 02/10/2026 08:18

I expect you’ve already come across this story, OP? So sweet:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/sep/06/pilot-air-traffic-controller-love-story

It’s a fascinating hidden world isn’t it, of pilots and air traffic control who know each other’s voices as part of their job.

Oh that is soooo lovely. They mixed their names up half way through the article.

I'm going to ponder on that story for a long time.

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MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 03/10/2026 00:05

The use of german airships (inflatable) in world war 1 for dropping bombs on the UK. I have tracked every bomb drop and even Googled each area to see what it looks like today vs photos!

Megamegablahblah · 03/10/2026 00:06

PineConeOrDogPoo · 02/10/2026 08:27

I do. I love air traffic control, plane disaster analysis stuff, so much tension and so much at stake. You should listen to the last 15 minutes of discussion between the pilots of the tragic AF447 flight as it was falling into the sea. Awful and gripping at the same time.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_France_Flight_447

Gosh that is awful. I watched some of the British Midlands flight that crashed over the motorway. Miraculously there were survivors and it didn't explode.

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Megamegablahblah · 03/10/2026 00:11

Randomchat · 02/10/2026 08:28

I love all the emergency 999 ambulance programmes and have researched so much I reckon I could solve all the logistical problems of the NHS single handedly. If only they would listen to me.

I was hospitalised and then watched every episode of 24 hours in A&E. There's 2 that really stick in my mind. One was the Dad whose daughter caught on fire (safety grating issue). She was in hospital and she said it hurts and he said you know what happens when it hurts, daddys here. She was okay.

The other was a cyclist who slipped down a grill in the middle of nowhere. He was badly injured facially and found a pub. As if that was not bad enough, during the CT scan he had a rupture to a vein that needed emergency surgery, so the whole side of his skull had to be removed permanently. I often think about him.

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NelferchyLlyn · 03/10/2026 00:14

I have found my people. I dont think I am ND but have had a few focussed interests over the years.

I'm currently obsessed with the el nino, watching data, updates and its developments. I've had to learn about meteorology to go alongside as different things will impact it. Loads of hurricaines in the pacific. Im checking it all when I wake up....

Its just so facinating!

Megamegablahblah · 03/10/2026 00:24

OvernightBloats · 02/10/2026 08:43

My most recent obsession was Roman history - couldn't get enough of it and started to refer to it in conversation at every opportunity! I've got burnout now but will revisit it in the future.

Another passion which can be fleeting is different foods and spices. The latest one has been miso. Researching and trying different recipes. I then get bored with it and move onto another food or cuisine. One time it was Cuban cuisine. I think it's my way of vicariously travelling there.

Also survival stories with pushing themselves to their limits. This one is an enduring interest though.

I was just talking to DM this weekend about underfloor heating systems in Roman times 😂. Have you seen/heard the funny skit 'how often do you think about the Romans?'. The answer apparently is more often than you think.

I asked DF and he said eh what are you on about. Then called a couple of days later to tell me he was thinking about how Romans lay roads while standing on the drive getting it regravelled, and how he relayed the whole story to his neighbour with him.

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Megamegablahblah · 03/10/2026 00:39

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 02/10/2026 10:28

I'm learning Ukrainian because I really like a band, and wanted to understand their lyrics better.

I've been watching a lot of Ukrainian TV on YouTube as a result and find their culture so refreshing/fascinating. It feels like the arts are taken seriously, and boy, if they've got something to say about a subject, there will be a three hour documentary covering the subject.

I'm used to Europeans being more straight-talking than Brits, but I quite enjoy how direct and enthusiastic they are about subjects of interest, and how much they go into detail. Our media seems quite surface-level by comparison, especially concerning the arts. You get the feeling the "three word slogan" propaganda trope wouldn't fly there.

Yesterday I watched an hour long documentary called "Why is Britain's economy dead?" and thoroughly enjoyed when they got to the bit about Brexit. No punches were pulled!

That sounds fascinating. I think consuming media from other countries is such a healthy thing to do.

I went backpacking round Europe on the late 90s. McDonalds was everywhere but we deliberately tried to visit as many cultural and historical places and sites as possible. Berlin, Prague, Rome, were particularly fascinating. I'll hunt out that documentary.

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