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Never had a manicure...is this unusual?

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Keha · 26/09/2026 10:36

Late 30s woman living in UK. Just reading an article about "bare nails".

I've never had my nails done professionally or had a manicure. When I was much younger I would attempt nail varnish at home and it would usually look rubbish. I think in my 20s, I didn't feel like I had enough money for it (although I had a professional job and didn't really know the cost). Then at some point I considered it but felt overwhelmed with all the options and not knowing what to ask for, so never went. Is this a common experience?

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Zeroonin · 26/09/2026 11:56

I never had a manicure or a pedicure until years ago, when my DS worked at at resort for 3 years. He gifted my DD and I with his annual employee complimentary 'Spa Day' tickets, and we indulged in everything going; including mani and pedi. Neither my DD or I use nail polish; just can't be bothered tbh.

Tvradiorentals · 26/09/2026 11:57

I've reached my early 70’s without ever having a manicure. Clean and trimmed is good enough for me. I’m giddy with excitement at the thought I might be fashionable 😀

pelamo · 26/09/2026 11:59

Never had one. I just make do myself. This is a 70 year old hand, mine! Not perfect obviously but will do me!

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Perfidia · 26/09/2026 12:01

I’m in my sixties and as far as I can recall I’ve paid for three ‘professional’ manicures in my life.

The first, when I was about nineteen involved some sort of false nail application (can’t remember what - manicure vocabulary has changed so much across centuries). I was looking at my fingers in horror on the bus home, and peeling them off within two days. Never again.

Second time was when I was at a salon for a facial and they persuaded me to ‘have my nails painted’. It was a much jollier occasion than the previous one as all the salon assistants were friendly and chatty - but I still nearly died of boredom while it was being done.

Third time - god knows what made me think I needed nail polish for a conference. A miserable, silent 45 minutes in an empty salon ensued.

Across about thirty years I probably bought a bottle of nail polish about once every couple of years. And used it at home probably a couple of times before burying the thing in a drawer.

However, in the past year I’ve started using a home manicure kit (completely natural, no cutting, no additions, no colour) and have discovered - at this late stage - that my own unadorned nails have been harbouring a potential for indescribable shininess. And a slightly prettier shape. I’m slightly thrilled to have found something that works for me.

Have also never had a pedicure. The thought of sharing implements that have been tending other peoples’ feet is just too grim for words.

Sasha07 · 26/09/2026 12:06

In my 30s and I just don't see the appeal 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think it's half and half on the people I know who gets theirs done vs who don't.

Puhpuhpuhpuh · 26/09/2026 12:08

I’ve never had my nails done ever, and nor has anyone I know, including my DDs in their 20s.

DJSteves · 26/09/2026 12:09

I just paint them with clear nail varnish

Cheesemonster45 · 26/09/2026 12:10

How the fuck are bare nails 'white supremacist' 😂I've never had a manicure. The idea of having fake nails on seems bizarre to me but whatever. I think my nails look nice enough when kept natural and I must be saving £££s a year though right now I know I need to trim them a bit and I got lazy and have the remains of clear polish on them. I'm glad I haven't got wrecked nail beds from gel nails or whatever is the latest trend. They've looked like this for most of my adult life.

SockPlant · 26/09/2026 12:11

i have had precisely one mani-pedi in my life, and that was because i was in Ho Chi Minh city and was approached outside a salon by one of the workers. It was fun, all the staff were lovely and i paid them more than they asked for because it was such great fun.

But i have never done it again.

LoafofSellotape · 26/09/2026 12:12

I've had gel nails once but didn't like the feel of them . I paint my own sometimes but prefer them filed and short.

MyArtfulGreySloth · 26/09/2026 12:13

I’m 40 and have never. Never been waxed either or any other kind of treatments.

XenoBitch · 26/09/2026 12:13

No, never. I have also never needed to fuss with my cuticles. People say you need to push them back, but I have never done that and am not even sure what that means.
Have also never had my eyebrows done either.

MummyOre · 26/09/2026 12:14

I would say it's unusual for a woman of your age.

For work, I have to look for smart. So I started getting my nails done, I was 44 when I had my first manicure.

Mathsbabe · 26/09/2026 12:15

No chance. My DD does.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 26/09/2026 12:19

Me neither.

I've also never had a facial or a massage, never had my "eyebrows done" and haven't been to a hairdresser since my wedding day.

I just have no interest in any of it. I do however have multiple (as in, 20+) piercings and several tattoos.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 26/09/2026 12:21

MummyOre · 26/09/2026 12:14

I would say it's unusual for a woman of your age.

For work, I have to look for smart. So I started getting my nails done, I was 44 when I had my first manicure.

Having your nails done has nothing to do with looking smart.

RebeccaDecember · 26/09/2026 12:24

Never had one either.. I don’t think I’ve ever worn nail varnish…

TokyoTantrum · 26/09/2026 12:25

I like getting natural pedicures, where they don't do a polish but do trim nails, clip surrounding skin, and file off dead skin. My reason for liking someone else doing it is that I never do a very good job, and I enjoy the human touch and having time just for me.

I used to have this subscription thing in 2023 with a beauty salon in London which was fantastic. The basic tier included manicure, pedicure, waxing, and basic facials and you could do a certain amount every month. I started it because my hair grows back erratically after a wax- 40% might return in 3 weeks, and the remainder in 5 weeks. With the subscription I could actually stay hair free.
I started having pedicures out of curiosity and loved it. Tried gel nails and didn't vibe with them. Colour doesn't suit me.

Haven't had a pedicure in a year and a half though.

Mycatiscraycray · 26/09/2026 12:25

I’m 64 and never been anywhere near a nail bar

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 26/09/2026 12:27

I didn’t have one until I was late 30’s. I was getting them monthly but my nails kept peeling. The salon tried different things but it kept happening so I stopped.

SpottyAlpaca · 26/09/2026 12:28

I have never had a manicure either. Or a waxing. Or a spray tan. Or an eyebrow threading. Or Botox / fillers etc. Just not my thing at all.

I have other priorities for how I choose to spend my disposable income, such as 5 holidays a year…

yonem · 26/09/2026 12:29

Me neither. I keep my nails as short as possible as I find it distracting when they’re long. The last time I painted them was my wedding. Can’t say I’ve ever noticed my cuticles much less done anything to them. And a pedicure sounds like torture, I despise people touching my feet!

I do enjoy the spa but just get a massage and enjoy the pools rather than getting beauty treatments.

I find the racism point in the article pretty ridiculous given that Muslim women can’t paint their nails and it doesn’t mention that or even the existence of Arab women - only white, black, Latino and Asian!

Keha · 26/09/2026 12:30

Perfidia · 26/09/2026 12:01

I’m in my sixties and as far as I can recall I’ve paid for three ‘professional’ manicures in my life.

The first, when I was about nineteen involved some sort of false nail application (can’t remember what - manicure vocabulary has changed so much across centuries). I was looking at my fingers in horror on the bus home, and peeling them off within two days. Never again.

Second time was when I was at a salon for a facial and they persuaded me to ‘have my nails painted’. It was a much jollier occasion than the previous one as all the salon assistants were friendly and chatty - but I still nearly died of boredom while it was being done.

Third time - god knows what made me think I needed nail polish for a conference. A miserable, silent 45 minutes in an empty salon ensued.

Across about thirty years I probably bought a bottle of nail polish about once every couple of years. And used it at home probably a couple of times before burying the thing in a drawer.

However, in the past year I’ve started using a home manicure kit (completely natural, no cutting, no additions, no colour) and have discovered - at this late stage - that my own unadorned nails have been harbouring a potential for indescribable shininess. And a slightly prettier shape. I’m slightly thrilled to have found something that works for me.

Have also never had a pedicure. The thought of sharing implements that have been tending other peoples’ feet is just too grim for words.

Tell us more about this home manicure kit? I wouldn't mind my nails being slightly shinier and neater, but no idea where to start!

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Onacuctustree · 26/09/2026 12:30

Never had a manicure, pedicure.
50's

Keha · 26/09/2026 12:31

SpottyAlpaca · 26/09/2026 12:28

I have never had a manicure either. Or a waxing. Or a spray tan. Or an eyebrow threading. Or Botox / fillers etc. Just not my thing at all.

I have other priorities for how I choose to spend my disposable income, such as 5 holidays a year…

I've also never done any of these things.

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