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Bonnie Blue has had her baby

164 replies

greglet · Yesterday 18:39

And she’s already back on social media. Poor baby.

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BlueFahrenheit · Yesterday 21:54

Didn't Bonnie make a golden shower video? Apparently, she had a village of men urinating on her stomach a few weeks ago.

HambleTheDoll · Yesterday 21:54

Meh. Looks like a doll to me. I don’t believe it.

DelphinoPlaza · Yesterday 21:58

She is, or was, definitely pregnant. So whether she gave a later due date or this is a stunt - there will be a real baby involved.

A few weeks ago I was thinking she dropped off, maybe she’s decided to live a quiet life. Looks like she was in fact still making adult videos and in fact has no plans of stepping away.

dannyufcfan · Yesterday 21:59

Searching for the father of this baby must be like searching for a needle in a haystack.

Queenncat · Yesterday 21:59

Surely monetising children on SM needs to become illegal.

converseandjeans · Yesterday 22:10

Ihateboris · Yesterday 18:58

I agree. However, despite her disgusting lifestyle, I doubt social services will feel she's doing anything wrong!

@Ihateboris if you look at her X profile I would say that she has engaged in risky behaviour while pregnant. It’s not the same as making porn content in the traditional sense. She has made content based on her being pregnant & had groups of men all at once engaging in unpleasant things like urinating on her belly.

I’m baffled as to how these men get excited when they are in such a big group, they are being filmed & they are wearing balaclavas. Not only that she is pregnant & they still want to ‘use & abuse’ her rather than protect her & the baby. It just shows how many men think this way. Very worrying.

I hope social services do get involved & keep an eye on the situation.

BlueFahrenheit · Yesterday 22:12

converseandjeans · Yesterday 22:10

@Ihateboris if you look at her X profile I would say that she has engaged in risky behaviour while pregnant. It’s not the same as making porn content in the traditional sense. She has made content based on her being pregnant & had groups of men all at once engaging in unpleasant things like urinating on her belly.

I’m baffled as to how these men get excited when they are in such a big group, they are being filmed & they are wearing balaclavas. Not only that she is pregnant & they still want to ‘use & abuse’ her rather than protect her & the baby. It just shows how many men think this way. Very worrying.

I hope social services do get involved & keep an eye on the situation.

These men are profoundly damaged.

Gall10 · Yesterday 22:17

70isaLimitNotaTarget · Yesterday 20:19

No effing chuffing idea but Bonnie Blue is a young woman who has gained noteriety and a fair bit of money by filming and screening on you tube for her fans.
If only there was some sort of search facility to look things up 🤔

From what I’ve read on here I won’t waste my time… there’s paint to watch drying.

IsItOverYetPlease · Yesterday 22:19

DelphinoPlaza · Yesterday 21:58

She is, or was, definitely pregnant. So whether she gave a later due date or this is a stunt - there will be a real baby involved.

A few weeks ago I was thinking she dropped off, maybe she’s decided to live a quiet life. Looks like she was in fact still making adult videos and in fact has no plans of stepping away.

Can I ask how you know this? I'm still desperately holding on to the idea that it's fake

Autisticradfem · Yesterday 22:22

Neurodiversitydoctor · Yesterday 20:37

A c-section at 32 weeks ? There must have been serious complications.

The baby looks full term.

i saw someone say she was due November clearly not. Don’t understand why she had a c section probably because she doesn’t wanna ruin her poor vagina.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 22:22

converseandjeans · Yesterday 22:10

@Ihateboris if you look at her X profile I would say that she has engaged in risky behaviour while pregnant. It’s not the same as making porn content in the traditional sense. She has made content based on her being pregnant & had groups of men all at once engaging in unpleasant things like urinating on her belly.

I’m baffled as to how these men get excited when they are in such a big group, they are being filmed & they are wearing balaclavas. Not only that she is pregnant & they still want to ‘use & abuse’ her rather than protect her & the baby. It just shows how many men think this way. Very worrying.

I hope social services do get involved & keep an eye on the situation.

As I said she has put the baby at risk by sleeping with men where contraception failed and the risk of unknown STI's as a result. Syphillis, Gonnorhea and Chlamydia can all cause premature birth. All of this has put the baby at risk before it is even born.

Autisticradfem · Yesterday 22:24

fluffydoglove · Yesterday 19:18

Why does anyone give this waste of space a mention she’s absolutely vile and god help her poor baby I pray that baby is taken away from her

The doctors should of sterilised her on the operating table

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:25

EnglishRose26 · Yesterday 19:24

If the baby is hers, I am pretty sure both the health visitor and the social services team will be monitoring her closely. She is high risk, and clearly not terribly well. I am more interested in her childhood and back story - no one chooses this 'lifestyle' willingly.

Hmmm, I don’t really agree with this.

whilst it’s true the adult industry is incredibly exploitative, there are women, especially with the advent of only fans that cut out middle management that at least attest that they have chosen this and their background is ‘normal’ ie no sexual exploitation, drug use and or turning to the adults industry out of desperation.

kinda need to take Bonnie at her word for it.

GaIadriel · Yesterday 22:26

I don't understand why you lot give so much headspace to her.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 22:26

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:25

Hmmm, I don’t really agree with this.

whilst it’s true the adult industry is incredibly exploitative, there are women, especially with the advent of only fans that cut out middle management that at least attest that they have chosen this and their background is ‘normal’ ie no sexual exploitation, drug use and or turning to the adults industry out of desperation.

kinda need to take Bonnie at her word for it.

What she does is classed as anti-social behaviour. She needs attention, extremes and risky behaviour in her work. I think every psychologist in the country would suggest she is not very well.
My money is on Histrionic Personality Disorder but in for a penny and all that, it might be added to any of the other personality disorders. She is not living in the realms of normal behaviour, however much anyone tries to make out she is a feminist or making her own way, it is disturbed reasoning.

BermudaRhombus · Yesterday 22:27

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 21:50

Isn’t his dad Ben Dover? He was a massive porn star

Yes, from like the VHS era. This is a different world and BB is doing a very different kind of thing.

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:27

Queenncat · Yesterday 21:59

Surely monetising children on SM needs to become illegal.

Yeah agree but it ain’t just Bonnie, look at the countless family bloggers.

at least Bonnie blurred out the baby

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:32

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 22:26

What she does is classed as anti-social behaviour. She needs attention, extremes and risky behaviour in her work. I think every psychologist in the country would suggest she is not very well.
My money is on Histrionic Personality Disorder but in for a penny and all that, it might be added to any of the other personality disorders. She is not living in the realms of normal behaviour, however much anyone tries to make out she is a feminist or making her own way, it is disturbed reasoning.

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is it classed as anti social behaviour? She’s not been arrested in the UK has she?

I dont think every psychologist in the world would state ‘she is not well’ because they are professionals and can’t diagnose someone they have not met.

i don’t love the women, specifically how she appeals to misogyny to sell her brand. There is an argument that the competitive sex market is a hungry beast that will always demand more and the stunts need to get increasingly extreme. There’s also how she’s been involved that bop house which is basically an MLM porn scheme BUT that doesn’t mean anyone who has not met her can diagnose her as mentally unwell

she is though an opportunistic business women who exploits rage bait for her benefit

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:34

I find the comments I’ve seen to her birth announcements on social media quite the window into either internalised misogyny or flat out misogyny from men. 9/10 comments are on the lines of ‘hot dog down a hall way’ ‘baby slipped out’ or some other disgusting trope

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 22:42

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:32

is it classed as anti social behaviour? She’s not been arrested in the UK has she?

I dont think every psychologist in the world would state ‘she is not well’ because they are professionals and can’t diagnose someone they have not met.

i don’t love the women, specifically how she appeals to misogyny to sell her brand. There is an argument that the competitive sex market is a hungry beast that will always demand more and the stunts need to get increasingly extreme. There’s also how she’s been involved that bop house which is basically an MLM porn scheme BUT that doesn’t mean anyone who has not met her can diagnose her as mentally unwell

she is though an opportunistic business women who exploits rage bait for her benefit

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She isn't doing it for money though, as most people who sell their body do. She has enough to retire but she hasn't which shows disturbed thinking. She isn't on drugs or alcohol so, unlike most sex workers after a few punters, doesn't even need to block it out. If I was a social worker looking after them as a family, I wouldn't want my head on the chopping block for being too laissez-faire with her home checks, mental health and baby aftercare. Social workers know full well people sell their babies online for perverted men to watch people abuse them. Why would she draw the line if she honestly thinks what she is doing is completely fine and normal?

MiceSpiders · Yesterday 22:44

If she was already pregnant when she did the 'breeders' event that's a huge risk to the unborn, and social care would be very interested. I think there would also be concern about the mental health and wellbeing of a heavily pregnant woman inviting a large number of men to urinate on her and Christ knows what else. Equally selling sex would highlight her as potentially vulnerable.

Absolutelynot2 · Yesterday 22:55

I hope someone takes the baby away and fast, she's horrific with zero empathy for women, and considering she actually thinks there's nothing wrong with a 1000 man gang bang the baby is definitely in danger of being sex trafficked.

Oh and she sticks up for Andrew Tate, because of course she does.

"the prostitute urges “‘barely legal or barely breathing” men to have sex with her, often at the expense of their wives and girlfriends, who Blue happily lambasts as sexually inferior”. Of Blue’s demeanour, she added: “As soon as she removes the camera, her face falls, almost accidentally slipping into an expression that’s somewhere between exasperation and boredom.

"Only Fans prostitute Bonnie Blue has likened herself to self-proclaimed misogynist Andrew Tate, remarking that she and the 38-year-old are “two of the most misunderstood people out there”.

I've quoted from a couple of independent interviews, there's a ton of this stuff out there.

She's not just a prostitute, which very much is intrinsically harmful to kids for all kinds of reasons - but yeah it's possible you could be a good mum and a prostitute. Not if you're her though, she's a piece of shit human being too.

"Three times she repeats misogynistic tropes: “it’s not my fault” that “lazy wives”, who have “had children, or they’re busy … or they just want money” find their husbands cheat with her, she says. Women are offended, she says, and “take it personally” .. "I hardly expected that our chat would see her confess, as many people aggressively project onto her public persona, that she really is harbouring “deep-seated trauma”, or “daddy issues”, or whatever other narrative might make her actions more palatable or understandable to some. I knew that she would tell me she likes doing what she does. I just wasn’t expecting to experience her fury factory so close up...

she also often slips into marketing mode: just as she appears to churn out go-to lines in the documentary – “I want to get my insides rearranged,” she says, flatly; “I just love to pleasure men” – her tone, especially when it comes to defending men, and especially when it comes to baiting women, feels like bland sales strategy, or the work of an AI girlfriend-bot. Some comments are quite simply very crass, like showing off about a time that she was “f*ing herself” on camera while her family waited in the next room. But when the talk turns to her fame and the responsibility that comes with that, things turn more alarming.

Much of the criticism of Bonnie centres around relatively clear issues: her recruitment of “barely legal” teenagers on university campuses and the insistence on seeking out virgins to sleep with...

More recently, the (cancelled) “Bonnie Blue Petting Zoo”, wherein she would be positioned publicly in a glass box to engage with “potentially thousands of men”, was called out as “rape culture in a display case”. Her fellow prostitute Annie Knight deemed it morally unconscionable.

Yet Bonnie says that she cannot be held solely responsible for the moral conscience of the porn and sex industry – and she’s right, though she has a role to play in it. It’s clear that everything she does is with full consent, which she is very vocal about and, as Silver says, she “never looks under any duress or zoned out or whatever”.

Still, her attitude to teens and rough sex is uncomfortable. “I love making content with people that are new to sex – virgins, 18-year-olds – because I’m allowing them to experience a woman’s body and try out things they’ve seen online,” she tells me. “Because it’s one thing watching porn online where someone’s been choked and slapped and then actually doing it in person"

She's a thing. I hope to God that baby is removed from her posthaste.

the-independent.com/life-style/bonnie-blue-onlyfans-documentary-b2796228.html

Conundrummum123 · Yesterday 22:56

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 22:42

She isn't doing it for money though, as most people who sell their body do. She has enough to retire but she hasn't which shows disturbed thinking. She isn't on drugs or alcohol so, unlike most sex workers after a few punters, doesn't even need to block it out. If I was a social worker looking after them as a family, I wouldn't want my head on the chopping block for being too laissez-faire with her home checks, mental health and baby aftercare. Social workers know full well people sell their babies online for perverted men to watch people abuse them. Why would she draw the line if she honestly thinks what she is doing is completely fine and normal?

Thing about money right, you never have enough? especially when you get used to a certain lifestyle/ have hangers on.

look I’m no fan of hers but there’s a pretty big line between her doing whatever she wants to herself and sex trafficking and sexually exploiting a child. You might not agree with her profession or choices but she’s not breaking the law, and the key issue is consent. She’s a consenting adult so legally what she’s doing is ‘fine’. Morally well, we all have different standards of mortality

OrangeSlices998 · Yesterday 23:00

That baby doesn’t look real. It’s meant to be a 32 weeker? It’s massive and isn’t all scrunched up like a newborn. Looks like a doll to me

Weirdwonderfully · Yesterday 23:02

likelysuspect · Yesterday 19:15

But what would your concerns be about the safety of the child and/or how she is meeting the needs of the child?

Thats what referrals are based on, that the child is being harmed in some way. Is there evidence of this at the moment?

You’re strange to think a woman of this sort will be a good parent. She won’t be.