Today I decided to part ways with a long time friend. I found out she'd been talking about me behind my back and she also said to my face that I have my son too soft and that my next son (I'm currently pregnant) won't be soft because she'll "steal him". - this made me uncomfortable.
Behind my back she said stuff like "she doesn't have him in a routine"
I do but this is because we went on holiday together. My son wasn't a fan of the heat and was also on antibiotics so obviously wasn't in his normal routine. She also said that my family didn't get up early and come down for breakfast with her family, but she'd said we can do our own thing we didn't have to be around them all the time. She then said that I went to the water slides with her daughter and left my partner with our son. I did this for maybe an hour one day and asked my partner if it was okay, which it was. He later went on the slides whilst I watched my son.
Today I confronted her and she brought up the last day of our holiday.
Basically the bus wasn't there to take us to the airport so we waited in a room next to the lobby with her family. Another couple of families were next to us. When the bus arrived the other families all stood up and rushed to get their suitcases from the lobby. In the chaos my son was no where to be seen. We found him a minute or so later collecting his suitcase and following the crowd outside the bus. At this point he was 2 and a half btw.
She has made me feel like the world's worst Mam and I'm not sure why she brought it up but I feel like my who friendship with her she's been judging everything I do..
Anyway am I bad Mam for losing site of my son?