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Standing at the door of the Pink Flamingo

91 replies

Snooks1971 · 07/08/2026 20:44

And…

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OwMyBackandKneesAndHips · 07/08/2026 22:37

Oh it reminds of a fling I had many years ago. We absolutely nothing in common, but we REALLY fancied each other.

Soft Cell version,obviously.

Sigh

EmeraldRoulette · 07/08/2026 22:39

Take your hands off meeee—-eeee———eeeee

The David Gray version is the first version I heard. Someone else had to tell me there was another one.

Dilemma999 · 07/08/2026 22:40

I was in a lift once with Marc Almond. Loved Soft Cell and Marc and the Mambas - their Untitled Album is in my top 10.

EmeraldRoulette · 07/08/2026 22:42

Just adding the Soft Cell one is much better and the music in particular is much better.

No offence to David Gray.

Sweetpea333 · 07/08/2026 22:42

Madonna's brother was in the video.

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 07/08/2026 22:42

Snapespeare · 07/08/2026 21:15

There is the most beautiful version, Marc Almond and the Jools Holland Big Band. Hootenanny 2001.

Going to see if it is on YouTube

tsmainsqueeze · 07/08/2026 22:43

OhBotherSaidPoo · 07/08/2026 20:45

David Gray's version of this is hauntingly beautiful

I think he ruined it !
I have heard Soft Cell and Marc Almond alone sing it so many times and it never disappoints.
Aha's version is pretty good.

Snooks1971 · 07/08/2026 22:48

Take
Your hands
Off me
For the last time
I never knew you
You never knew me
Say hello wave goodbye

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tsmainsqueeze · 07/08/2026 22:51

we've been involved for quite a while now and to keep you secret has been hell!
we're strangers meeting for the 1st time ok ?
just smile and say hello ......

Ohsakes · 07/08/2026 22:52

I dragged pure rock DH to Marc Almond a few years ago. He was blown away. I'm not a crier but this song got me when done live in front of me.

Snooks1971 · 07/08/2026 22:53

Londog · 07/08/2026 21:14

Oh my !
How I absolutely love to belt out and act out this song when I’m alone in the kitchen - it’s such a brilliant, haunting story and evokes so much emotion .
Didn’t think so many like minded people were out there .. yay ..going off to sing it now! X

Yay!!! Me too

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ApolloandDaphne · 07/08/2026 22:59

Oh Lordy I loved Soft Cell so much. I adore Marx Almonds voice. And those lyrics!

the80sweregreat · 07/08/2026 23:22

I adore this song!

Luddite26 · 07/08/2026 23:25

I wasn't a fan of Marc Almond in the 80s possibly I was a tiny bit young for his sophistication and I had an older brother who said horrible things about him to crush any enthusiasm.
In recent years I have finally given myself chance to appreciate his genius. I have to stop and listen to this it is so beautiful.

And as much as I love David Gray (Snow in Vegas❤️). His version isn't as soul searching/dramatic/unique.
I'm going to ask Alexa to play it.while I lay in bed. thankyou.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 07/08/2026 23:29

I bought the soft cell album for my first (serious) girlfriend..my first love age 15.

TemperanceWest · 07/08/2026 23:42

Snapespeare · 07/08/2026 21:15

There is the most beautiful version, Marc Almond and the Jools Holland Big Band. Hootenanny 2001.

I just found this on youtube. Amazing. Thank you ❤️

MadisonAvenue · 08/08/2026 00:04

Love this song. I bought Non Stop
Erotic Cabaret from Argos (when they used to sell LPs) with Christmas money when I was 12, just after it was released. Marc Almond’s voice is perfection.

Loved The Tainted Love/Where Did Our Love Go 12”, it was always played in clubs in the mid 80s and it takes me right back whenever I listen to it.

shellyleppard · 08/08/2026 00:07

@Vicliz24 its on the white ladder album ❤️❤️❤️

Sweetbeansandmochi · 08/08/2026 00:09

And there was me thinking I was standing by the door at The Pink Flamingo and I was going to open it and be in 1999. Derby Uni. Age 18. But you mean the song 🎵

KittytheHare · 08/08/2026 00:09

Thank you for reminding me of this most beloved song of my youth. And Mark Almond is the OG

baroqueandblue · 08/08/2026 00:24

It was a kind of so-so love and I'm gonna make sure it never happens again... 😢

the80sweregreat · 08/08/2026 10:12

Say hello, wave goodbye 👋
i like songs with a story

macaroon8 · 08/08/2026 10:27

Sof cells version buy a long mile !

DollopOfFun · 08/08/2026 10:31

I love how Marc Almond talking, sounds nothing like how you'd think he'd sound from his singing voice 😂

TragicMuse · 08/08/2026 10:40

David Grey’s cover is a travesty. Can’t stand it.

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