BF was out training with freinds last night. We are both busy with exercise things most nights, sometimes together, sometimes seperately, so our usual routine is he will call in here afterwards usually at about 9-9:30 and we have a couple of hours together before he goes home.
I like it like that, it means we each get our own time, plus time together and weekends are when we have more time together.
Last night he got delayed (in the pub!) and came straight here without a shower.
In his mind he was only coming for a cuppa and a chat, and it was better to turn up unshowered than late or not at all. I thought it was disrespectful to turn up unwashed.
Fwiw he didn't smell but was clearly in dirty sports kit, and he hadn't been drinking, just chatting in the pub.
I'm genuinely happy if he says he's going to the pub, see you tomorrow, but if he's going to come here he should be presentable?