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Phrases which I don’t understand (and which give me the rage)

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goodly · 05/08/2026 20:23

‘She was murdered in broad daylight’.
What is ‘broad daylight’? Is it worse than being killed in the middle of the night?

’He was found lying in a pool of his own blood’. Well, he’s not likely to have been found in a pool of someone else’s blood, is he?

Perhaps my perimenopausal diminishing hormones are taking over but phrases like this give me the rage. Any other examples?

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MyDarlingRose · 05/08/2026 22:55

But it is possible to be found dead in a pool of someone else’s blood. So you should specify to avoid people asking ‘who’s blood’ in horror.

Also yes broad daylight is worse than at night. Bad things should only happen at night. Daytime safe, nighttime dangerous unless you’re under a duvet.

TheIncredibleBookEatingManchot · 05/08/2026 22:55

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 05/08/2026 22:00

It's a joke, possibly a joke that the people you're hearing say it don't get! The proper saying is 'cheap at twice the price'

No, the proper saying is "cheap at half the price."

It's a sort of verbal sleight of hand. The seller says, "it's cheap at half the price," the buyer hears the word "cheap" and thinks they're getting a bargain. They're not, but the seller hasn't lied, because it's true it would be cheap at half the price, only they're not selling it half price.

Sooooewanttobut · 05/08/2026 22:56

Hermiaxx · 05/08/2026 22:48

Well that went wrong - I should have said squid! 😉

🤣 that is funny and does show how easily predictive text can adapt our use of language.

A bit like the "think" and "thing" debate. I go with think as it makes more sense to me but I do hear often another "thing coming".

Steeleydan · 05/08/2026 22:56

kwikfitt · 05/08/2026 20:25

Aha

I dont like when people misuse phrases

'Youve got another think coming' not thing

'I couldnt care less' the Americans are wrong

Its the whole brought instead of bought that makes me cringe 😬

PenelopeSchmenelope · 05/08/2026 22:57

RuudGullitOnAShed · 05/08/2026 22:39

My boss used to say "I was thinking, in my head" when she wanted to tell us to do something in a different way

I'd mentally always add as oppose to your arse because most of her ideas were absolute crap

OPPOSED

Sparkly666 · 05/08/2026 22:57

Soubriquet · 05/08/2026 20:52

Spill the tea….since when did tea become slang for gossip?!

Ok, so this was originally 'spill the T'. When T was short for truth. So it was 'spill the truth'.
It evolved due to the teacup emoji which allowed people to write 'Spill the 🍵'.

MyDarlingRose · 05/08/2026 22:59

Tryagain26 · 05/08/2026 22:44

I've never heard "spill the tea" only "spill the beans"

Tea meaning gossip comes from AAVE (African American vernacular English) specifically black drag culture AAVE. However it has spread through social media and Drag Race.

Sooooewanttobut · 05/08/2026 22:59

Blarn · 05/08/2026 20:47

Jump the shark comes from a later episode of Happy Days where the Fonz literally jumps over a shark on water skis. It was the point the series went downhill. The poor script writers inadvertently devised the phrase which is used to indiate the show has gone downhill in all tv programmes since. Which is quite impressive.

Thank you for this!! I've always wondered where this saying came from and never got round to googling it.

In context of threads I had seen it referenced, it made sense that it meant it implied the "story had gone a bit far-fetched" so I never bothered (found the time) to find the origin but this is really interesting!!

Sparkly666 · 05/08/2026 23:00

bakingdisasterqueen · 05/08/2026 22:17

Ride or die

I have absolutely no idea what this means

Ride or die is like Bonnie and Clyde. They'll either be by your side in the getaway car (ride) or die next to you. It's supposed to mean to show great loyalty to someone no matter what the outcome is.

MyDarlingRose · 05/08/2026 23:00

Sparkly666 · 05/08/2026 22:57

Ok, so this was originally 'spill the T'. When T was short for truth. So it was 'spill the truth'.
It evolved due to the teacup emoji which allowed people to write 'Spill the 🍵'.

That is not true. Yes Tea meant truth but it didn’t begin from an emoji. its documented from the 1970s onwards from drag.

StepsInTime · 05/08/2026 23:01

“Hope your well” (with or without typo). It’s not even a question!

tobee · 05/08/2026 23:01

“Oh my days”
“Back in the day”
both annoy me

people (especially celebrities) are always “welcoming a baby” grrrrr

people who say “I hate to say this….” Usually they are delighting in saying this.

The way people “identify as” rather than “are”.

Tryanalogue · 05/08/2026 23:02

WingBingo · 05/08/2026 20:30

“Cheap at half the price.”

well yeah it would be.

It’s a joke.

Sooooewanttobut · 05/08/2026 23:03

Theunamedcat · 05/08/2026 22:39

Chip on his shoulder

WHAT DOES THAT MEAN i dont get it 🤔

I know what it means and have heard it since childhood. I take it to mean that someone is bothered or het up about something that they are always going to be be so about. Or that they have a particular grievance against something which might not make sense logically.

But a bit like jumped the shark I've not looked at the origin. Off to google now.

Sparkly666 · 05/08/2026 23:03

MyDarlingRose · 05/08/2026 23:00

That is not true. Yes Tea meant truth but it didn’t begin from an emoji. its documented from the 1970s onwards from drag.

I meant the use of it nowadays being more commonly written down, allowing the popular spread of the version of 'tea' rather than 'T'.

Tryanalogue · 05/08/2026 23:04

thenightsky · 05/08/2026 22:54

Also, ‘slept like a baby’. What, awake every 3 hours needing food?

I've never understood that one either. Grin

Babies sleep a lot.

tobee · 05/08/2026 23:05

thenightsky · 05/08/2026 22:54

Also, ‘slept like a baby’. What, awake every 3 hours needing food?

I've never understood that one either. Grin

But it’s like taking candy from a baby 😉

Theunamedcat · 05/08/2026 23:08

TheBewleySisters · 05/08/2026 22:22

When celebrities die from a drug overdose and it’s reported that they choked on their own vomit - well, who else’s vomit would they choke on?

Edited

I really don't want to know

Theunamedcat · 05/08/2026 23:10

tobee · 05/08/2026 23:05

But it’s like taking candy from a baby 😉

Clearly a phrase coined by someone who has never wrestled a boiled sweet off a baby (trying to verbally reason with the baby like its going to care the sweet might kill it)

JudyTeeny · 05/08/2026 23:11

thecatdidit · 05/08/2026 22:30

No, you are wrong. It's "another thing coming"

No, it's definitely think.

Flowerheads · 05/08/2026 23:11

thecatdidit · 05/08/2026 22:37

No it's definitely thing.

It really isn’t.

KimWexlersPonyTail · 05/08/2026 23:11

PersonIrresponsible · 05/08/2026 22:09

"No news is good news"

A) All news is bad

B) That we haven't heard anything yet, means the chances of something turning out good are vastly improved.

I genuinely have no idea how to interpret this.

Its from WW1, if you hadn't had a telegram then it was a good chance your loved one hadn't been killed.

Theunamedcat · 05/08/2026 23:12

tobee · 05/08/2026 23:01

“Oh my days”
“Back in the day”
both annoy me

people (especially celebrities) are always “welcoming a baby” grrrrr

people who say “I hate to say this….” Usually they are delighting in saying this.

The way people “identify as” rather than “are”.

Edited

Im guilty of oh my days its usually said instead of oh for FUCKS SAKE somewhere I decided that it was an acceptable substitute for swearing

tara66 · 05/08/2026 23:12

'Infamous' now used to mean 'famous'
And 'very unique' now often used too.
Annoying

Tryanalogue · 05/08/2026 23:13

honeylulu · 05/08/2026 22:51

’He was found lying in a pool of his own blood’. Well, he’s not likely to have been found in a pool of someone else’s blood, is he?

This concept is spoofed in the film Spinal Tap when someone refers to a rock star doing because he choked on vomit ... but it was someone else's vomit. (Sorry it's funnier than it sounds written down.)

Choked on vomit.

They never found out whose vomit it was.