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Since when was £1000 a month enough for a food budget?

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BitCoinBillionaire · Today 08:36

We are a family of 3 adults - my youngest still at home being 19. We don’t buy alcohol and have 2 cats. Like to eat as well as possible and I’d really been noticing I’d been overspending lately so decided to use ChatGPT to work through a budget with me

I want this budget to include all food, cat food and household type bits - of which I’m generally well stocked up on anyway. I also wanted this budget to just cover August to see how it goes

I’ve put a figure on it of £1000 and ChatGPT has been helpful in helping me see how to divvy it up etc into pots (I’ve previously just been spending as I feel) but tells me that ‘£1000 is very doable to not generous’

Not generous! Is this where we are at now? A grand a month is considered ‘a little tight with not much wriggle room.’

Thoughts? Are you spending this? More than this? I know it’s like asking how long is a piece of string but I think it’s highlighted to me that I need to perhaps meal plan a bit more!

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NoodleHorses · Today 13:49

Sounds like ChatGPT needs better prompts, or a reality check. Very aware of the irony of suggesting a reality check for AI.
Single woman, 3 dogs. My grocery shopping bill comes in at approx £120 per month, plus dog food of about £50. I do grow a lot of veg.
£1000 seems a lot to me, but I am no longer in a multi adult household.

Ibi · Today 13:51

Wow, that Sainsbury’s shop sounds very good! I find Sainsbury’s more expensive than Waitrose and don’t rate the quality. I tend to do a mix of Waitrose and Aldi. I’m impressed with those who can make £50pp per week work, I spend more than that on lunch for the week!

Anarchy99 · Today 13:52

BitCoinBillionaire · Today 13:49

And again, the point of my thread wasn’t really to learn how to be frugal etc etc (I’m beyond all that - beyond help!) but to sort of discuss just how mad it is - the increase in food prices and how crazy they all seem now

But that’s not really accurate because an AI prompt will give you a different answer depending on the exact wording.

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BitCoinBillionaire · Today 13:54

@Anarchy99 but putting AI to one side, the actual costs for people to live relatively comfortably these days are huge now. Gone are the days of one persons food costing £30 a week for example

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godmum56 · Today 13:54

Lankylegs3 · Today 12:28

Exactly..you would think this .
I need to get tough
I'm slowly introducing more potatoes ,veg ,rice ,pasta type meals .
But they want burgers chips pizza and that costs more for sure
So I'm limiting those type of meals to one burger meal and one pizza meal a week.
Yes we make our own pizza at home ,but it's not any cheaper because I but ready made sourdough pizza base
Vegan chocolate is unbelievably expensive compared to normal

can I ask (genuinely) what is in normal chocolate, apart from milk chocolate of course, that makes it non vegan?

wishingonastar101 · Today 13:58

spend about £200 a week on main shop + £20 - £60 on top ups. 2 adults 2 kids.

Anarchy99 · Today 13:58

BitCoinBillionaire · Today 13:54

@Anarchy99 but putting AI to one side, the actual costs for people to live relatively comfortably these days are huge now. Gone are the days of one persons food costing £30 a week for example

Your OP was expressing surprise that £1,000 is not seen as a generous budget according to ChatGPT. What is ‘generous’ varies for each situation, I’m only pointing out that what ChatGPT has stated isn’t in any way ‘fact’ - it’s AI and unreliable for something like that.

A single person can still live on £30-50 a week for food in any case.

It all depends on what people eat and where they buy it from.

IwanttoWFH · Today 14:05

That’s an awful lot of money! Two adults and two cats in our household.
We get a Gousto box delivered every week (five meals), which is £51, so that’s £204. I then spend anything between £40-£60 a week on the food shop (milk, eggs, yogurt, bread, lunches, fruit, dinner for the Sunday, cleaning products etc). I take my own breakfast and lunch into work.
We get a takeaway once a week, or eat out, so between £25-45.
The cats’ food is bought in bulk from Amazon and is roughly £50 a month.
In total, that’s (at the top end) £674. Realistically, it’s probably more like £600. I shop in either Sainsbury’s, ASDA or Lidl. We don’t drink, so no alcohol.

Growlybear83 · Today 14:06

I don’t think it’s a luxurious amount but it’s obviously a lot more than many people spend. Im fortunate that at the moment Im able to spend around that much on our monthly groceries for two adults and a cat, but the vast majority of our food is organic and I buy a lot of more expensive cuts of meat and pre prepared fruit, but no alcohol.

Greenwriter76 · Today 14:13

I don’t use Chat GPT, but ’very doable to not generous’ might actually be accurate - depending on the definition of ‘generous’
We (family of 3, no pets) spend average £360 / month. But our 7 yo doesn’t eat adult portions. So I guess 3 adults plus 2 cats could be closer to average £500 - £700 a month (a lot of variants to take into
account). If £700 this would leave a £300 excess. Who’s to say Chat GPT defines £300 as generous? (I would but I’m not Chat GPT)

RedToothBrush · Today 14:15

AtIusvue · Today 08:39

It’s an AI sloppy answer, I wouldn’t pay too much attention.

£50 per per person per week, is more than enough for any family.

Id say that's comfortable.

I'm not sure what I'd be buying if I was TRYING to spend a grand a month on three of us!

JoyousWriter · Today 14:18

We spend £40 a week for 2 adults.

I can't even imagine how you could spend £250 a week on food.

OneAmberFinch · Today 14:24

"Very doable though not generous" is a pretty wide range!

You could technically buy a big bag of rice and only eat that, so even £30 a month is "doable" as in you'd literally survive. You could technically want to have champagne and caviar and a 7-course tasting menu every night in which case £1000 wouldn't get you much further than day 1!

shouldntbeonhereagain · Today 14:37

We are a family of 6 people. 4 children ages 6 to 14, 2 big dogs, and 2 cats. The children have packed lunches every day. We spend £650 per month, with 5 week months obviously being more of a stretch. This includes all pet food and products (kids) toiletries, cleaning products and packs of pull ups (youngest still in them) We buy our own wine/toiletries etc out of our personal spending

Littlejellyuk · Today 14:40

BitCoinBillionaire · Today 13:54

@Anarchy99 but putting AI to one side, the actual costs for people to live relatively comfortably these days are huge now. Gone are the days of one persons food costing £30 a week for example

Hi OP 👋
I haven't RTFT, just your posts and I can honestly say I nearly dropped my phone when I read how much goes on shopping for 3 adults 😭
There's me, my DH, our DS7 and our medium sized dog (who eats like a bloody horse) and we manage to survive on £300 on food/household shopping pcm (no ale), then add an extra £100-150 on takaways/eating out pcm.
I dread to think how much it will cost when our wee boy is a hungry teen 😨

I understand you want to eat well and you are correct that prices have sky rocketed. 😔
We use our local butcher for deals (which keeps prices down) as well as local greengrocer for fresh fruit and veg.
Dog food is the dry kind ordered online (we tried so many brands) and for fish there's a mobile fish monger once per week. We are fortunate to have this on our door step and plan meals in advance, as well as having spats of batch-cooking and 'leftover/ freezer bits for tea' every blue moon when the fridge/freezer needs to be ran down. 🙌

EtA: Best thing I ever did (just before DS was born) was to download a fudget app and I opened a different/separate bank account and put 'food/house shop' money in once a month, which helped us to rein in the spends, otherwise my DH would seriously overspend on food like crazy. 🤦🏻‍♀️

BauhausOfEliott · Today 14:42

ChatGPT isn't the bloody gospel and it's terrifying that so many people take its responses at face value and assume they're correct.

I use ChatGPT for a few things. It's useful sometimes. It also makes an absolute fuck-ton of mistakes and logical failures. I've had it get simple mathematics wrong on more than one occasion.

BitCoinBillionaire · Today 15:04

@JoyousWriter can’t you? You can’t possibly imagine an adult living on £10.72 a day for all meals and snacks (this is what £1000 a month breaks down to) ?

Maybe I can’t imagine living on your budget of £2.85 a day….

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