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Will you sign up to the new refugee sponsorship scheme?

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JoyousOpalLemur · 27/06/2026 07:51

The Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood is apparently announcing next week a new refugee sponsorship scheme.

It would allow households to privately sponsor refugees from conflict zones.

Applications open this autumn, with the aim of resettling more than 10,000 people.

It’s modelled on Canada’s scheme and the Homes for Ukraine programme.

Sponsors would commit to providing financial, emotional and practical support.

What do people think? I just can't help thinking that with the current pressures on housing, schools, GPs and local services, how this will actually work in practice? Has anyone been involved in the Ukraine sponsorship scheme and can share what it was really like day-to-day?

Curious to hear everyone’s views.

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/home-secretary-announce-scheme-refugees-uk-lgdr8ff25

Ukrainian-style scheme to bring thousands of refugees to the UK

Shabana Mahmood will introduce a new sponsorship scheme offering safe and legal routes for migrants in an effort to deter small boat arrivals

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/home-secretary-announce-scheme-refugees-uk-lgdr8ff25

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Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:20

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:15

This scheme is for refugees?

They tend to be undocumented, many apparently either losing or having lost their passports behind.

Asylum seekers may be undocumented. Refugees are those given leave to enter or remain. In this case, leave to enter. They will not be undocumented at that point and will have met home office requirements to remain permanently.

The idea of this kind of scheme is to grant refugee status while people are abroad, e.g. from refugee camps in Pakistan serving Afghan families, instead of making small boats the only option and then funding people as asylum seekers while investigating their claims.

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:20

Cyclebabble · 27/06/2026 12:39

As a nation I think we should be generous. I could not host as DH suffers from dementia, but in some circumstances, I would host perhaps a young single female. Important though for me would be a cap. I do not believe we should accept more than a limited number of refugees. The Conservatives suggested 20k a year, I think this is a good starting point. I also think we need to make sure people are properly screened so that we reduce any risks from taking on board people with criminal records or people who are unlikely to adapt well to the UK.

On my local news yesterday they had a segment on the Afghani women's cricket team. All of whom had fled Afghanistan to avoid the Taliban. I might for example host one of these women.

Out of interest why would you only host a single female and not a male?

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:22

JoyousOpalLemur · 27/06/2026 13:14

Why did you let your husband win that battle?

I would say everyone in the household would have to be happy to participate in a scheme like this. It's not about winning battles

dapsnotplimsolls · 27/06/2026 13:22

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:14

I wonder how long it will be before Labour pass a bill making it mandatory that if you have a spare room you MUST house on of the many that will be coming?

As the article states they will be rolling it out by starting with low numbers and then "operate at a much higher capacity" than UKRS once it is fully established."

Source: BBC News website.

Mandatory? Tinfoil much?

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:27

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:22

I would say everyone in the household would have to be happy to participate in a scheme like this. It's not about winning battles

Do you always let your husband control you?

Why are your husband's reasons for not wanting to take a refugee into your house? Is it because they are likely to be male?

If you really want to help them you would be insisting on bringing a female refugee into your house. Would that work?

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:28

dapsnotplimsolls · 27/06/2026 13:22

Mandatory? Tinfoil much?

I hope it's tinfoil but who knows these days.

Let's see 🤷🏻‍♀️

oliviaAustin · 27/06/2026 13:29

JoyousOpalLemur · 27/06/2026 12:45

There seems to be an awful lot of ideological support for refugees and this scheme on this thread, just no-one who wants to be part of this scheme to support refugees in practice

Well duh. I believe people with mental health issues should be supported but that means hospitals and supported living not a room in my house. I believe victims of violence should be supported but that means in refuges not in my house. I believe drug addicts should be given places to detox… but not in my house.

Everyday people aren’t prepared, trained or able to support complex social cases in their own home. That’s not how it works.

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:31

Cyclebabble · 27/06/2026 12:39

As a nation I think we should be generous. I could not host as DH suffers from dementia, but in some circumstances, I would host perhaps a young single female. Important though for me would be a cap. I do not believe we should accept more than a limited number of refugees. The Conservatives suggested 20k a year, I think this is a good starting point. I also think we need to make sure people are properly screened so that we reduce any risks from taking on board people with criminal records or people who are unlikely to adapt well to the UK.

On my local news yesterday they had a segment on the Afghani women's cricket team. All of whom had fled Afghanistan to avoid the Taliban. I might for example host one of these women.

Also those Afghan men that are coming here on boats left those women behind.

Maybe all these refugees coming heres should only be women.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 13:31

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:12

The BBC article seems to be about refugees, who would already have permanent leave to stay. Presumably they would be processed off-shore and then given this support in their first year in the UK.

That means the system already has limits on it in terms of numbers, refugee status verified etc.

But people seem to be talking about asylum seekers (many young men with unverified claims, housed in hotels currently). These people aren't refugees. The state doesn't house refugees this way - they can be added to council lists or rent privately, like everyone else. You get evicted from asylum seeking housing when you get refugee status, but you don't have the right to work and support yourself until you have refugee status and leave to remain.

That's where a scheme to support people in their first year as refugees makes sense.

Yes, I'd take part. I already donate to schemes helping refugees in this position. So I would be very interested in helping more formally. My house isn't terribly suitable, but with that right rules and assurances I'd consider it, or this scheme might support me to support people I'm already helping financially that way, which would be great. I am single and live alone - obviously this would not be suitable for many family and households, but this isn't happening to everyone by decree! It's a choice to make depending on your individual circumstances.

As to the burden on the UK - refugees are asylum seekers whose claims have succeeded. They're not people in boats chancing their arms. They are not the people currently housed in hotels etc.

I don't think any of us would deny that there are legitimate refugees across the world. The UK like every other country is committed to taking a proportion of them. This seems like a sensible scheme to help them integrate. It's a pity people are tearing it apart, in many cases without understanding it.

Where are you envisaging people will be processed? Which off shore facility?

It’s good you want to do it, although the Sudanese man in Belfast recently in the press was a refugee.

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:32

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:27

Do you always let your husband control you?

Why are your husband's reasons for not wanting to take a refugee into your house? Is it because they are likely to be male?

If you really want to help them you would be insisting on bringing a female refugee into your house. Would that work?

I don't have a husband. You're talking to the wrong poster.

If I were living with a husband or anyone else, family member, child, flatmate, obviously I wouldn't bring anyone else into the space without their enthusiastic consent. Their reasons could be selfish, untilitarian, cautious, whatever. It doesn't matter.

Lots of people would not want to do this. That's obvious, and fine. That doesn't mean other people would be wrong to do it.

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 13:35

Why hit a refugee and not a struggling British homeless person?

Bullandbear · 27/06/2026 13:39

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:31

Also those Afghan men that are coming here on boats left those women behind.

Maybe all these refugees coming heres should only be women.

Some might say that the ‘men’ in the countries of origin, may not permit the women to leave on their own.

Some might say that the ‘men’ should go ahead, first.

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:40

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 13:31

Where are you envisaging people will be processed? Which off shore facility?

It’s good you want to do it, although the Sudanese man in Belfast recently in the press was a refugee.

People are currently processed at refugee camps, e.g. in Pakistan for Afghan refugees. It takes a while. I know people who have got visas though this route. Processing a Calais would be helpful too.

Yes, I know about the Belfast attack. I also know Sudanese and other refugees and asylum seekers in my own area. A scheme like this which works on integration is not going to solve every problem for everyone, but the alternatives are not, don't take in a single refugee ever again or introduce schemes like this. So it is sensible to try to devise workable schemes for supporting refugees to become part of their new communities. I hope this one will succeed.

Cyclebabble · 27/06/2026 13:40

Lugol · 27/06/2026 13:20

Out of interest why would you only host a single female and not a male?

Hosting anyone you do not know well in your house is something of a leap of faith. I would feel more comfortable doing this with a woman. Statistically as well I am aware that the vast majority of violent crime is committed by men. I realise this is not all men, but the percentages would be enough to make me more reluctant to take a man than a woman.

Bullandbear · 27/06/2026 13:43

Shabana Mahmood made history in July 2024 when she was sworn in as the UK’s first female Muslim Lord Chancellor at the Royal Courts of Justice, taking her oath on the Holy Quran.

dapsnotplimsolls · 27/06/2026 13:44

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 13:35

Why hit a refugee and not a struggling British homeless person?

I'm not planning to hit anyone tbh.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 13:44

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:40

People are currently processed at refugee camps, e.g. in Pakistan for Afghan refugees. It takes a while. I know people who have got visas though this route. Processing a Calais would be helpful too.

Yes, I know about the Belfast attack. I also know Sudanese and other refugees and asylum seekers in my own area. A scheme like this which works on integration is not going to solve every problem for everyone, but the alternatives are not, don't take in a single refugee ever again or introduce schemes like this. So it is sensible to try to devise workable schemes for supporting refugees to become part of their new communities. I hope this one will succeed.

Are you happy to give a room to a male refugee?

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:44

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 13:35

Why hit a refugee and not a struggling British homeless person?

There are people who offer refuge to street homeless people, many of whom are British. For myself I'm aware that it is rare for street homeless people not to have substance misuse and related problems. Of course a refugee could turn out to have these problems too. In either case I wouldn't be willing to share my home with them, as I would feel unsafe.

We are all comfortable with different levels of risk. In any scheme like this, people will have to have final say over who they are willing to host (obviously). Men, we know, are always more of a risk to both men and women than women. So I am sure lots of people would stipulate sharing with a woman, as is their right.

StrangeWithoutInterest · 27/06/2026 13:47

God how utterly nauseating. I’m sick to death of being asked to give to charity every time I go into a shop, I’m sick to death of being taxed to pay for god knows who to live here, while our NHS fails. No I won’t sponsor yet another person from somewhere that can’t manage its own people. We are a sinking ship.

StrangeWithoutInterest · 27/06/2026 13:48

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Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:50

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 13:44

Are you happy to give a room to a male refugee?

There are male refugees I know whom I'd be willing to offer temporary accommodation to, but they are already couch-surfing in more central locations, better for work.

I would generally be more cautious about men. For example, after a work night out, I would offer a female colleague the couch overnight if helpful, but not a male. I'm sure many women are similar. My bar for allowing men in my personal space is much higher than for women.

So it is unlikely I would offer a place to a man through this scheme, but I very much doubt this scheme is going to force single women to take men into their homes! So that is no reason the scheme should fail.

likelysuspect · 27/06/2026 13:55

I havent read the whole thread, but I read lots of information over the years about people taking in Ukrainians and it went really badly, they couldnt get them out of their houses etc

However I will say tha there are swathes and swathes of elderly people in this country suffering from chronic loneliness, they go weeks without interacting with anyone

Where is the government scheme to support this formally? Yes there are voluntering roles for this but its very 'mend and make do'

Once I can cut my work ours or retire myself I want to do volunteering but if there was more of a scheme that would be set up by government I think people would be more alert to that. Yet here is a scheme to support people that dont even live here yet.

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 14:01

likelysuspect · 27/06/2026 13:55

I havent read the whole thread, but I read lots of information over the years about people taking in Ukrainians and it went really badly, they couldnt get them out of their houses etc

However I will say tha there are swathes and swathes of elderly people in this country suffering from chronic loneliness, they go weeks without interacting with anyone

Where is the government scheme to support this formally? Yes there are voluntering roles for this but its very 'mend and make do'

Once I can cut my work ours or retire myself I want to do volunteering but if there was more of a scheme that would be set up by government I think people would be more alert to that. Yet here is a scheme to support people that dont even live here yet.

I'm often struck by the lack of a big volunteer scheme to help the elderly. In Ireland there is ALONE which is quite well known, and also the Vincent de Paul is very active. I have shopped at Help the Elderly charity shops here, but they don't seem to have that high a profile. I think this is probably an area where the drop in churchgoing has left a lot of gaps too.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 14:01

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:50

There are male refugees I know whom I'd be willing to offer temporary accommodation to, but they are already couch-surfing in more central locations, better for work.

I would generally be more cautious about men. For example, after a work night out, I would offer a female colleague the couch overnight if helpful, but not a male. I'm sure many women are similar. My bar for allowing men in my personal space is much higher than for women.

So it is unlikely I would offer a place to a man through this scheme, but I very much doubt this scheme is going to force single women to take men into their homes! So that is no reason the scheme should fail.

Women probably won’t say yes to men in their homes. Would men take them? I suppose Gary Linekar has been vocal so could sign up, and others who share his eagerness.

I’m not sure why any victim has to be a proxy vetting system for men arriving though. Whether they’re in a home or not.

likelysuspect · 27/06/2026 14:03

Oftenaddled · 27/06/2026 13:14

Refugees under this scheme won't be undocumented men. You are thinking of asylum seekers

What do you think happens when someone arrives undocumented?

They seek asylum, they're given refugee status. Their documentation is that which is given to them via the HO and immigration and the UK government

Voila - documented

You still dont know anything about them other than what they've said in their substantive interview and which has then been assessed as a genuine claim and agreed by the HO as a reason to issue LTR.

Which is fine, but dont kid yourself there is any difference in what you know. Asylum seekers who gain refugee status, dont always come with clear documentation and records from their home countries setting out how they lived, any crimes etc, they dont exist like that. They dont come with references, health and school records and address histories. Half the time we get told they dont have any family, then an uncle pops up somewhere in the UK, then a cousin and so on. Theres a lack of clarity about who is still alive in their family for example.