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Boy with Tourette’s denied boarding after bomb remark

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TamanTun · 26/05/2026 15:00

I was just thinking about the news article about the 13 year old boy who was denied boarding after shouted ‘bomb’ at the gate. His parents had warned the airline in advance, he had his diagnosis letter on him and was wearing a sunflower lanyard. Imagine a world where others would understand and be supportive in a case like this rather than what happened. The family had done everything they could to avoid something like this but yet it did happen. Why can we all not be more accepting? I suppose it comes with educating others and does depend on the situation.

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NamelessNancy · 26/05/2026 19:15

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 18:39

There are lots of things that cause panic and threat on planes mostly pissed up adults become unruly and abusive. If I heard a child shout ‘bomb’ my initial thought might be panic, my next logical thought would be ‘oh it’s just a child being silly’ and if the airline and parents were proactive in explaining the situation to passengers beforehand there’s even less reason to panic.

How much do you trust the pissed up, unruly and abusive passsengers to apply that same logic though?

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 19:16

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:43

But a lot of people might start shouting there is a bomb and trying to get away. Seriously this is a big threat in the air on a plane.

Get away? Where? They’re on a plane. If they truly believe there is a bomb there’s not a lot of point in running. But had the airline told people then there would have been no need for panic anyway. People acknowledge that reasonable adjustments should be made yet seem to think it’s too much trouble to make a tannoy announcement or even tell people in person as they are boarding. Sod the distress and upset to the person with the disability who has now been made to feel like a second class citizen because of ‘behaviour’ completely out of their control.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:16

NamelessNancy · 26/05/2026 19:15

How much do you trust the pissed up, unruly and abusive passsengers to apply that same logic though?

That’s a ‘them’ problem not the child’s

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:18

ThereAreOnlyShadesOfGrey · 26/05/2026 19:15

Having a disability does not mean that every behaviour is ok, even if it’s not intentioned.

The fact that people are not legally obliged to prove their disability absolutely does mean that any arsehole could board a flight and start shouting that there’s a bomb on board and then claim they have a disability.

The term is reasonable adjustment, and it’s not reasonable to excuse someone shouting “bomb on an aeroplane full of passengers and to just wave it away. Any more than it would be reasonable to employ someone with Tourette’s whose ticks include calling people cunts and shouting the word fuck randomly in a nursery.

As for people thinking that nobody would shout bomb if they genuinely had one, I presume you don’t remember the IRA then? You’ve never heard of a bomb threat which turned out to be a hoax?

People absolutely do make claims of bombs in order to stir up fear, cause delays etc. The fear to the public aside, the plane could have been delayed while all luggage was offloaded and double checked, a security alert could close down an airport for hours if someone decided to make a bomb threat.

Let’s not pretend that this was just a random swear word which while unpleasant doesn’t have the potential for harm. It’s not.

He did provide medical proof and in fact airport security is one area where you do actually have to prove your disability ( quite rightly). For example I’m unable to go through metal detectors or be ‘wanded’ as I have an in built medical computer device. I carry proof to access a ‘pat down’ instead.

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:18

@lifeisgoodrightnow

a simple tannoy announcement should have sufficed

Not for some/many nervous passengers, it really won't.

You have to meet and talk to a few to realise how deeply anxious some passengers are and just how high a percentage of passengers are nervous.

When was working we were even cautioned against using some of the more extreme weather vocab (so Thunderstorms became showers) in our PAs.

i'd suggest a simple tannoy announcement may well not suffice if someone on board is tic'ing "bomb", and if it doesn't then the crew might have a right mess on their hands.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:20

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:18

@lifeisgoodrightnow

a simple tannoy announcement should have sufficed

Not for some/many nervous passengers, it really won't.

You have to meet and talk to a few to realise how deeply anxious some passengers are and just how high a percentage of passengers are nervous.

When was working we were even cautioned against using some of the more extreme weather vocab (so Thunderstorms became showers) in our PAs.

i'd suggest a simple tannoy announcement may well not suffice if someone on board is tic'ing "bomb", and if it doesn't then the crew might have a right mess on their hands.

If they are that nervous about flying it’s them who should be adjusting their behaviour not the child

NamelessNancy · 26/05/2026 19:22

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:16

That’s a ‘them’ problem not the child’s

Oh I agree. They could rapidly make it everybody else's problem on a flight though and therein lies the problem. It's horrible for the poor child and family, for whom I have huge sympathy.

ETA - If I could choose to fly on planes full of children with disabilities and their families rather than drunk idiots that would be my preference by far. Sadly the latter seem far more prevalent.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:27

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 18:59

I’ve seen people restrained by an onboard air marshal ( 2 days after 7/10) and our flight met by armed police.

a child with a Tourette’s diagnosis tic’ing bomb is not in the same category at all and a simple tannoy announcement should have sufficed. If anyone in Britain remains unaware what Tourette’s is after that bafta debacle they need to get out more.

And deaf or very elderly people who may not hear a tannoy but may hear somebody next to them screaming BOMB? Is their disability second priority?

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:30

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:20

If they are that nervous about flying it’s them who should be adjusting their behaviour not the child

Ummmm......

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:31

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:27

And deaf or very elderly people who may not hear a tannoy but may hear somebody next to them screaming BOMB? Is their disability second priority?

If they can’t hear a tannoy then they have a card handed to them as in the case of the safety announcement

MyAutumnCrow · 26/05/2026 19:32

Perhaps the parents could have behaved in a manner that was acceptable to the airline.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:38

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:31

If they can’t hear a tannoy then they have a card handed to them as in the case of the safety announcement

It’s all getting so complicated and unworkable.

You’re also forgetting the legal implications.

If the airline accept responsibility for informing other passengers of the Tourette’s to mitigate their distress; are they legally responsible if (eg) somebody goes to the loo and doesn’t hear it, then panics and has a medical episode or panic attack?

They don’t want this kind of responsibility and I don’t blame them.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 19:40

MyAutumnCrow · 26/05/2026 19:32

Perhaps the parents could have behaved in a manner that was acceptable to the airline.

Where does it say they didn't?

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 19:42

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:18

@lifeisgoodrightnow

a simple tannoy announcement should have sufficed

Not for some/many nervous passengers, it really won't.

You have to meet and talk to a few to realise how deeply anxious some passengers are and just how high a percentage of passengers are nervous.

When was working we were even cautioned against using some of the more extreme weather vocab (so Thunderstorms became showers) in our PAs.

i'd suggest a simple tannoy announcement may well not suffice if someone on board is tic'ing "bomb", and if it doesn't then the crew might have a right mess on their hands.

All of these problems fall away in light of the fact that the boy travelled without problems on another carrier a few days later.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:44

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 19:42

All of these problems fall away in light of the fact that the boy travelled without problems on another carrier a few days later.

So? Nobody is saying he actually had a bomb?

itsgettingweird · 26/05/2026 19:44

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 17:12

Because people with disabilities are protected from discrimination by law (thankfully). And I'm sure with an announcement made regarding his condition, the majority of passengers would be understanding. Obviously, the ignorant ones will make a huge issue out of it though...

Being protected from discrimination doesn’t mean protected from having to abide by rules and regulations - or the law.

It’s called “reasonable” adjustments.

An airline can decide it’s not reasonable to risk scaring 200+ other passengers mid flight.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:45

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 19:42

All of these problems fall away in light of the fact that the boy travelled without problems on another carrier a few days later.

Exactly x well said I can’t believe the ignorance Tourette’s sufferers are still facing. Have people learnt nothing ?

if you’re a nervous flyer there’s medication, hypnosis, special learning flights.

for Tourette’s - a disability and a protected characteristic there’s currently no cure or treatment

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 19:47

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:38

It’s all getting so complicated and unworkable.

You’re also forgetting the legal implications.

If the airline accept responsibility for informing other passengers of the Tourette’s to mitigate their distress; are they legally responsible if (eg) somebody goes to the loo and doesn’t hear it, then panics and has a medical episode or panic attack?

They don’t want this kind of responsibility and I don’t blame them.

It’s no more complicated than the safety announcement or announcement for nut allergies

MyCottageGarden · 26/05/2026 19:55

Same rule for everyone!

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:57

"if you’re a nervous flyer there’s medication, hypnosis, special learning flights"

For info those concerned say some of the above works, some doesn't, depends on the individual.

Many regulators are also not keen on medication for use in flight for safety reasons...

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 20:00

notimagain · 26/05/2026 19:57

"if you’re a nervous flyer there’s medication, hypnosis, special learning flights"

For info those concerned say some of the above works, some doesn't, depends on the individual.

Many regulators are also not keen on medication for use in flight for safety reasons...

And there’s nothing for Tourette’s - which again is a recognised disability and a protected characteristic

SavedByTheBells · 26/05/2026 20:06

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:24

Pre boarding

As opposed to post boarding once the flight has taken off?

How would the order of boarding make the tourettes disappear?

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 20:06

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:44

So? Nobody is saying he actually had a bomb?

so you agree they knew he didn’t have a bomb but were scared of a disabled child shouting about a non existent bomb?

SavedByTheBells · 26/05/2026 20:09

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 19:40

Where does it say they didn't?

Clearly asking the airport manager for her full name while being filmed with the express purpose of shamming her on SM isn't what I'd call reasonable behaviour

Noras · 26/05/2026 20:10

My disabled son said we had dangerous substances in our bags at check in in Italy. By 30 minutes later I had decided to go back via train.l with him and DD plus DH back by plane. The issue was that we had mixed bags for packing. By a process of calm discussions with son who was repetitively stimming mainly we rules IHT locations where the