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Boy with Tourette’s denied boarding after bomb remark

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TamanTun · 26/05/2026 15:00

I was just thinking about the news article about the 13 year old boy who was denied boarding after shouted ‘bomb’ at the gate. His parents had warned the airline in advance, he had his diagnosis letter on him and was wearing a sunflower lanyard. Imagine a world where others would understand and be supportive in a case like this rather than what happened. The family had done everything they could to avoid something like this but yet it did happen. Why can we all not be more accepting? I suppose it comes with educating others and does depend on the situation.

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NamelessNancy · 26/05/2026 18:29

JustChillin70 · 26/05/2026 18:24

Why would you be terrified if you were warned before take off by the cabin crew that they had a passenger on board who had Tourette’s and was liable to say inappropriate things?

Do you honestly think everyone pays attention to the announcements on a flight? I always do personally but feel like I'm in a minority. Add to that the number of passengers who will have been drinking pre flight and those who are stressed/nervous about flying and it's a potentially volatile situation. If he was my child I'd be terrified of him being attacked by a have a go hero if he shouted like that mid flight. Again, full sympathies to them but not an easily managed situation.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 18:29

hahabahbag · 26/05/2026 15:45

There are red lines that no disability can mitigate and this is one of them, it’s about security

Clearly not, given that another airline took him without difficulty.

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 18:30

TFMinx · 26/05/2026 17:47

All it takes is one person to fake the same diagnosis and there’s a plane full of lives lost. The airline cannot be slapdash about this. Unfortunate for the family, but completely the right decision.

Can you explain this logic? How does someone faking a Tourette’s diagnosis so that they can freely shout ‘bomb’ equate to actually bringing a bomb on board (through security may I add) and killing people? If you were actually planning on detonating a bomb on board a plane you wouldn’t be shouting about it beforehand…

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:30

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 15:00

I was just thinking about the news article about the 13 year old boy who was denied boarding after shouted ‘bomb’ at the gate. His parents had warned the airline in advance, he had his diagnosis letter on him and was wearing a sunflower lanyard. Imagine a world where others would understand and be supportive in a case like this rather than what happened. The family had done everything they could to avoid something like this but yet it did happen. Why can we all not be more accepting? I suppose it comes with educating others and does depend on the situation.

Perhaps consider Englands lovely shores for a holiday? No need for a plane!

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:31

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 18:29

Clearly not, given that another airline took him without difficulty.

Edited

I suspect denied boarding and a night to reflect with the parents possibly had a lot to do with it.

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:32

Pedallleur · 26/05/2026 15:38

Was in a queue some years ago at EM airport and some wise ass made a remark about not packing his machine gun!! He was out of that queue and explaining his brand of humour to the Police. Feel sorry for the boys family but ......

Perhaps they could holiday in UK?

Grendel7 · 26/05/2026 18:33

kittyplotty · 26/05/2026 15:46

Greater good is no longer cool.

Yes it is

Jellybelly80 · 26/05/2026 18:34

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 16:05

Surely you can see the distress and disturbance a bomb scare would cause?

If anyone in the vicinity of a 13 year old with Tourette’s who’d be distressed at the mention of a bomb should stay at home.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 18:34

amylou8 · 26/05/2026 15:28

Unfortunate for the boy and his family, but there are lines, and that crossed it.
Also have to consider the return destination might not have been as understanding as we are in the UK. The next headline would be 13 year old boy awaits trail in Cairo jail for bomb threats.

How could he end up in jail in Cairo when he wasn't going anywhere near Egypt?

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:35

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 18:30

Can you explain this logic? How does someone faking a Tourette’s diagnosis so that they can freely shout ‘bomb’ equate to actually bringing a bomb on board (through security may I add) and killing people? If you were actually planning on detonating a bomb on board a plane you wouldn’t be shouting about it beforehand…

It’s also about stopping panic. Panic can create a lot of security issues and I wouldn’t want to be on a flight with people shouting and reacting to a bomb threat. Plus as I have mentioned nothing is perfect and yes you have to take a bomb threat seriously including someone shouting it on a plane.

notimagain · 26/05/2026 18:35

JustChillin70 · 26/05/2026 18:24

Why would you be terrified if you were warned before take off by the cabin crew that they had a passenger on board who had Tourette’s and was liable to say inappropriate things?

There's not much point in trying to rationalise it like that.

Just have a think about the number of threads we see on MN from people who are genuinely scared/close to terrified of flying and want advice on how to cope.

You can try explaining how safe flying is and why, but nevertheless probably a fair percentage of the couple of hundred passengers on many shorthaul flights really don't want to be there, and regardless of soothing announcements they really aren't going to cope at all well with someone shouting "bomb"...

..Is it reasonable to expect them to cope with that stress when, as in this case, it could be avoided?

A lot of the decision making around this has to be based on what's best for the majority of those involved.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 18:38

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:31

I suspect denied boarding and a night to reflect with the parents possibly had a lot to do with it.

Please tell me you are not so utterly thick and crass as to suggest that a disabled person can magic away their disability at will?

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 18:39

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:35

It’s also about stopping panic. Panic can create a lot of security issues and I wouldn’t want to be on a flight with people shouting and reacting to a bomb threat. Plus as I have mentioned nothing is perfect and yes you have to take a bomb threat seriously including someone shouting it on a plane.

There are lots of things that cause panic and threat on planes mostly pissed up adults become unruly and abusive. If I heard a child shout ‘bomb’ my initial thought might be panic, my next logical thought would be ‘oh it’s just a child being silly’ and if the airline and parents were proactive in explaining the situation to passengers beforehand there’s even less reason to panic.

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:42

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 18:38

Please tell me you are not so utterly thick and crass as to suggest that a disabled person can magic away their disability at will?

No I meant the parents might be calmer and more prepared to find a solution which didn’t involve filming the staff.

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:43

seeminglydull · 26/05/2026 18:39

There are lots of things that cause panic and threat on planes mostly pissed up adults become unruly and abusive. If I heard a child shout ‘bomb’ my initial thought might be panic, my next logical thought would be ‘oh it’s just a child being silly’ and if the airline and parents were proactive in explaining the situation to passengers beforehand there’s even less reason to panic.

But a lot of people might start shouting there is a bomb and trying to get away. Seriously this is a big threat in the air on a plane.

SandwichSuperstar · 26/05/2026 18:43

Jellybelly80 · 26/05/2026 18:34

If anyone in the vicinity of a 13 year old with Tourette’s who’d be distressed at the mention of a bomb should stay at home.

Edited

And how could they stay at home?

Are you suggesting the airline contacts every single passenger on board to pre-warn them?

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 18:44

squashyhat · 26/05/2026 15:15

If I had been on that flight I would have been terrified. Well done to the airline staff for following protocol.

Rubbish. If the airline /airport/armed police thought he was a threat he’d have been arrested not just removed from the airport and flight.

Callmeback · 26/05/2026 18:48

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 15:25

This. Why should other passengers not privy to his Tourette’s be scared witless? It could cause a human crush, heart attack or worse.

This. It could cause all sorts of chaos. Crush injuries, panic attacks etc etc. People with disabilities deserve reasonable adjustments but allowing that kind of behaviour when you're going to be tens of thousands of feet in the air, flying over ocean etc. That's not a reasonable adjustment. The sunflower lanyard and letter is irrelevant.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 18:49

Tourette’s or not, shouting ‘bomb’ on a plane is far too sensitive to make people tolerate even idle threats/tics. Many of us remember 9/11, Lockerbie etc, these are not events that can be wiped from your memory. The majority is the priority here.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 18:50

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 18:03

Telling them the day before means nothing if the kid turns up and tries to distress 350 other people.

Tries to distress ?

tell me you don’t understand Tourette’s without telling me you don’t understand Tourette’s

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 18:52

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 18:03

Telling them the day before means nothing if the kid turns up and tries to distress 350 other people.

So you actually think the kid was trying to distress 350 other people? That was his intention?

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Callmeback · 26/05/2026 18:53

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 18:44

Rubbish. If the airline /airport/armed police thought he was a threat he’d have been arrested not just removed from the airport and flight.

The most terrifying moment of my life was on a plane. Some screamed in terror a few hours into the flight. For a few seconds I was absolutely terrified and instantly thought terrorist hijacking. Turns out her husband had collapsed and she had no idea why - she screamed without thinking because she was terrified he'd had a heart attack or something.

He was fine but it genuinely scared the shit out of me and I'm normally incredibly stoic.

A threat might not be real but it can definitely be felt.

Callmeback · 26/05/2026 18:55

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 18:52

So you actually think the kid was trying to distress 350 other people? That was his intention?

Intention is irrelevant in this case. It's the aftermath of the action that counts. Air travel is hugely heavily regulated for so many reasons.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 18:59

Callmeback · 26/05/2026 18:53

The most terrifying moment of my life was on a plane. Some screamed in terror a few hours into the flight. For a few seconds I was absolutely terrified and instantly thought terrorist hijacking. Turns out her husband had collapsed and she had no idea why - she screamed without thinking because she was terrified he'd had a heart attack or something.

He was fine but it genuinely scared the shit out of me and I'm normally incredibly stoic.

A threat might not be real but it can definitely be felt.

I’ve seen people restrained by an onboard air marshal ( 2 days after 7/10) and our flight met by armed police.

a child with a Tourette’s diagnosis tic’ing bomb is not in the same category at all and a simple tannoy announcement should have sufficed. If anyone in Britain remains unaware what Tourette’s is after that bafta debacle they need to get out more.

ThereAreOnlyShadesOfGrey · 26/05/2026 19:15

Having a disability does not mean that every behaviour is ok, even if it’s not intentioned.

The fact that people are not legally obliged to prove their disability absolutely does mean that any arsehole could board a flight and start shouting that there’s a bomb on board and then claim they have a disability.

The term is reasonable adjustment, and it’s not reasonable to excuse someone shouting “bomb on an aeroplane full of passengers and to just wave it away. Any more than it would be reasonable to employ someone with Tourette’s whose ticks include calling people cunts and shouting the word fuck randomly in a nursery.

As for people thinking that nobody would shout bomb if they genuinely had one, I presume you don’t remember the IRA then? You’ve never heard of a bomb threat which turned out to be a hoax?

People absolutely do make claims of bombs in order to stir up fear, cause delays etc. The fear to the public aside, the plane could have been delayed while all luggage was offloaded and double checked, a security alert could close down an airport for hours if someone decided to make a bomb threat.

Let’s not pretend that this was just a random swear word which while unpleasant doesn’t have the potential for harm. It’s not.

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