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Funeral white rolls Royces

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 11:46

Just on bus going past a huge funeral with what looks like 10 rolls Royces in attendance plus a white horse drawn carriage. Must be a big one eh?

OP posts:
alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:35

I just checked with Google ask anything
And it gave the correct answer

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:35

Fast800goingforit · 19/05/2026 12:05

I didn't get that at all from the OP's post. It is unusual as funeral cars are usually black.

Exactly, to me funeral cars are usually black.

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Roundhands · 19/05/2026 12:36

I'd have assumed that very showy funeral = celebrity and been curious. I genuinely didn't know that white funerals indicate a child. Perhaps that makes me lucky.

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:38

ViaRia01 · 19/05/2026 12:15

I really don’t understand the point of this thread…? It is obviously sad that there is a funeral for a child today but what is the thread about? Why speculate about who it is for etc? That’s gross.

And it makes absolutely no sense that you say it must be a common church that the travellers use as ‘they’ also had a funeral there ten years ago.

I was just a bit surprised. I’ve seen a horse drawn carriage with a child’s coffin going into West Norwood cemetery (that was really upsetting), I’ve honestly rarely seen white cars for a funeral. I’m upset to be honest as it’s a child who’s died. That’s very sad.

OP posts:
alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:38

I'm guessing those that didn't know are younger than I am.
Ask the elders in your family.
I'd be surprised if most didn't know.

MidnightPatrol · 19/05/2026 12:39

Given the context this thread is inappropriate and should be removed.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:39

Roundhands · 19/05/2026 12:36

I'd have assumed that very showy funeral = celebrity and been curious. I genuinely didn't know that white funerals indicate a child. Perhaps that makes me lucky.

That’s it, I thought maybe celebrity. I’ve heard of white coffins for a child but not white cars.

OP posts:
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:39

MidnightPatrol · 19/05/2026 12:39

Given the context this thread is inappropriate and should be removed.

Why is it inappropriate?

OP posts:
Thecows · 19/05/2026 12:40

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:38

I'm guessing those that didn't know are younger than I am.
Ask the elders in your family.
I'd be surprised if most didn't know.

Well I'm 60 and didn't have a clue about white = child so there you go, you are wrong

LowPowerModes · 19/05/2026 12:40

Overtheatlantic · 19/05/2026 12:10

I didn’t get that impression from the OP.

I'm not sure what else Must be a big one eh? implies,

Thecows · 19/05/2026 12:41

MidnightPatrol · 19/05/2026 12:39

Given the context this thread is inappropriate and should be removed.

Why is it inappropriate? Ive learnt something today as clearly a few other posters have so that's a good thing surely?

LowPowerModes · 19/05/2026 12:41

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:35

Exactly, to me funeral cars are usually black.

Yes, and white ones, like white coffins, usually imply a child or a very young person has died.

KeeleyJ · 19/05/2026 12:41

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:21

White signifies a child.
Isn't that common knowledge

I've never been to a child's funeral so not something I have thought about before.

I did notice white coffins in the undertakers coffin catalogue last time I was arranging a funeral for a relative though but never made the connection.

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:41

I am right
And you are making assumptions

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/05/2026 12:42

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:21

White signifies a child.
Isn't that common knowledge

I didn’t realise that, no. Ive lived in England & Wales all my life, Catholic and have been to the funeral of more than 1 child. I have learnt something today.

Namechange1345677 · 19/05/2026 12:42

I work in the bereavement sector. While white is often used for children, it isn't only used for children and young people. Anyone can have any colour they want.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 19/05/2026 12:43

Not so long go I was sitting outside a pub in Tooting (SW17) waiting for my Covid appt. jab in the church hall opposite, when a whole ‘Victorian’ funeral cortège went past, a hearse pulled by black horses with black plumes on their heads, funeral attendants in frock coats and top hats walking soberly in front.

Fascinating! - a thing I never thought I’d see in this day and age.

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:43

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:41

I am right
And you are making assumptions

My last in response to Thecows
comment above.

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:48

Well this is interesting sociologically.
And rather surprising to me.

LowPowerModes · 19/05/2026 12:53

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 19/05/2026 12:43

Not so long go I was sitting outside a pub in Tooting (SW17) waiting for my Covid appt. jab in the church hall opposite, when a whole ‘Victorian’ funeral cortège went past, a hearse pulled by black horses with black plumes on their heads, funeral attendants in frock coats and top hats walking soberly in front.

Fascinating! - a thing I never thought I’d see in this day and age.

Well, while I wouldn't say that horse-drawn hearses are exactly common, they certainly exist in enough numbers for me to have seen one on maybe four of five different occasions, mostly when welived on a main road in north London, once in Ireland. (Definitely not a Traveller funeral in the latter case -- I vaguely knew the (titled) family.

LowPowerModes · 19/05/2026 12:55

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/05/2026 12:39

Why is it inappropriate?

As I said above, the slightly prurient 'Must be a big one eh?' and your assumption that this was a celebrity funeral is in poor taste when this is an ordinary family going through the worst day of their lives.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/05/2026 13:00

Horse-drawn hearses are not uncommon in our part of SE London. Very striking.

thinkingofachange · 19/05/2026 13:22

LowPowerModes · 19/05/2026 12:02

Surely the white will have suggested to you that it was a child or very young person, OP? The implication in your OP that it was some kind of gangster affair is a bit distasteful in the circumstances.

no one except you said anything about gangsters 🤔

Fast800goingforit · 19/05/2026 13:31

alexdgr8 · 19/05/2026 12:21

White signifies a child.
Isn't that common knowledge

No. First I've heard of this and I'm over 50.

endash · 19/05/2026 13:35

Over 50 here too, and never seen or heard of white being significant.

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