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What is something you know because of your job, that would surprise others? (My example is gross, thread warning!)

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Mrmen1100 · 10/05/2026 19:24

It can be anything!!

I will start..

I am a food safety inspector (local authority) and have been for over 15 years, working in two large cities, and my current job in a smaller local authority. The same theme...

Food handlers do NOT wash their hands properly after using the toilet / before preparing your food.. lack of antibacterial soap in a toilet cubicle or in a kitchen is common place.... even when I am there, hands are not washed, it is an absolute bug bear of mine.

Preparing with raw meat then handling food ready to eat.. not uncommon

Handling cash / touching screens then handling food.. not uncommon.

Yes it does put me off eating outside of my house unfortunately 🙃

I have come across a LOT worse but this example irritates me.

Your turn!!!!!

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Natsku · 16/05/2026 18:23

Lollygaggle · 16/05/2026 17:38

Because of liability, as the trainees are employed by the NHS so fit testing had to be done by them on masks they supplied. By this point dentists and trainee dentists had already died.

we did get some masks from stockpiles quite late on but……. They had been stored so long (and restickered use by dates ) that often the elastic had perished and they pinged off so we didn’t use them. Also many of them did not pass fit tests particularly on small females.

I just really hope that lessons were actually learnt from this, about keeping stockpiles in good condition and not left to go out of date, making sure there is ppe to fit women instead of just "standard man", and clear plans to follow if there's a similar situation again.

I probably hope in vain.

TheignT · 16/05/2026 18:55

What I've learned is in another pandemic/lockdown I'd cancel denplan and save the money. Me thinking I should keep paying as dentist would still have costs was a bit onesided.

Lollygaggle · 16/05/2026 19:20

TheignT · 16/05/2026 18:55

What I've learned is in another pandemic/lockdown I'd cancel denplan and save the money. Me thinking I should keep paying as dentist would still have costs was a bit onesided.

Unless they sacked all the staff , sold the building of course there would still be costs . Private dentists were entitled to no help from government at all.

As I’ve said before I’m massively surprised they were closed for so long. For the vast majority of practices they were open but restricted in what they could do because of all the cross infection control so eg routine check ups , scaling were cancelled because it took so long to treat people who had problems. By the time you had gowned up , set up surgery , done treatment which took much longer in all the PPE , scrubbed down then left the room fallow for 30 minutes to an hour , instead of maybe seeing 25 to 30 people a day you were seeing 6 to 8 and utterly exhausted afterwards .

Fluffypuppy1 · 17/05/2026 08:52

Whyarepeople · 13/05/2026 14:17

By the end of March 2020 it was 100% verifiably true that if you were between 20 and 50 and in good general health you had almost no chance of dying from covid. That is not what was communicated to the public and there were many people in that age group who believed they were personally in severe danger if they interacted with anybody.

20 to 50 obviously doesn’t include children. The messaging that adults were at risk was no doubt safer than saying we’re locking down to keep children safe. Parents would have been terrified and dashing to A&E every time their child had so much as a runny nose.

Sheknowsaboutme · 17/05/2026 09:44

What the council wastes money on. Especially in adult and wellbeing. Its our council tax and seriously boils my piss

CDTC · 17/05/2026 10:41

Sheknowsaboutme · 17/05/2026 09:44

What the council wastes money on. Especially in adult and wellbeing. Its our council tax and seriously boils my piss

My brother worked for the council and he got a warning because he screwed in two loose screws on a door handle and changed a lightbulb. They were paying a £50 call out fee for every single thing in that building so for those two 'jobs' he saved them upwards of £100 but almost got fired for it.

AllyMacbealmyarse · 17/05/2026 12:29

revels1 · 15/05/2026 17:11

The cost of the majority of everyday meds cost pennies to buy from the manufacturer/supplier so it really grates when i have to pay almost £10 for a prescription/antibiotics

But a prescription charge isn’t for your particular meds, it’s a contribution towards then nhs. Otherwise you’d be paying very little for something cheap and the pricing of an expensive med would be out of reach.

Sheknowsaboutme · 17/05/2026 12:32

CDTC · 17/05/2026 10:41

My brother worked for the council and he got a warning because he screwed in two loose screws on a door handle and changed a lightbulb. They were paying a £50 call out fee for every single thing in that building so for those two 'jobs' he saved them upwards of £100 but almost got fired for it.

Exactly what im getting at. Plus kennel and cattery fees.

holidays for “naughty kids” and them trashing places snd then billing the council ridiculous amounts

i can go on and on

chaosmaker · 18/05/2026 07:15

AllyMacbealmyarse · 17/05/2026 12:29

But a prescription charge isn’t for your particular meds, it’s a contribution towards then nhs. Otherwise you’d be paying very little for something cheap and the pricing of an expensive med would be out of reach.

Free in Scotland and Wales but then more competition from people moving here to take advantage of it.

Gloriousgardener11 · 18/05/2026 08:19

FarmersWifeOf30Years · 15/05/2026 18:24

If a cow has twins and one is male and the other female then the female twin will be very unlikely to be able to breed. They are called Freemartins.

That’s really interesting!
Is the male calf still fertile?

ButterYellowFlowers · 18/05/2026 09:31

AllyMacbealmyarse · 17/05/2026 12:29

But a prescription charge isn’t for your particular meds, it’s a contribution towards then nhs. Otherwise you’d be paying very little for something cheap and the pricing of an expensive med would be out of reach.

This. Cancer meds can cost thousands… the charge is a middle of the road one to balance out across the service.

FarmersWifeOf30Years · 18/05/2026 09:58

@Gloriousgardener11
Yes the male calf would still be fertile. There is a small chance his testes would be smaller but he'd still be able to breed.

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 11:01

Fluffypuppy1 · 17/05/2026 08:52

20 to 50 obviously doesn’t include children. The messaging that adults were at risk was no doubt safer than saying we’re locking down to keep children safe. Parents would have been terrified and dashing to A&E every time their child had so much as a runny nose.

I thought everyone was aware that the extremely low risk to children was known about and publicised widely from the very beginning. Obviously not.

Fluffypuppy1 · 18/05/2026 12:16

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 11:01

I thought everyone was aware that the extremely low risk to children was known about and publicised widely from the very beginning. Obviously not.

With lockdowns 88 children had Covid as the cause of death between 2020 and 2022. Quite a large number of children with long covid too. A 15 year old sibling of one of dc’s classmates was horribly disabled with long covid.

I don’t personally find that extremely low risk.

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 12:58

Whyarepeople · 13/05/2026 15:13

You don't have believe me.

I find you hard to believe as you are so factually incorrect. I also find it hard to imagine you being part of any sort of messaging after you wrote phrases such as: "messages...implying scary danger and death".

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 13:46

Fluffypuppy1 · 18/05/2026 12:16

With lockdowns 88 children had Covid as the cause of death between 2020 and 2022. Quite a large number of children with long covid too. A 15 year old sibling of one of dc’s classmates was horribly disabled with long covid.

I don’t personally find that extremely low risk.

Luckily it's not a matter of personal opinion. Yes, some children were badly affected by covid and died from it, just like some children are badly affected and die from other infections. Statistically, no matter how you feel, covid is of extremely low risk to children. That wasn't hidden at all by the authorities, they actually stated it quite regularly, so you either weren't listening or don't believe them either.

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 13:48

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 12:58

I find you hard to believe as you are so factually incorrect. I also find it hard to imagine you being part of any sort of messaging after you wrote phrases such as: "messages...implying scary danger and death".

I never stated I was part of any sort of messaging. I was part of decision-making around healthcare during covid. The messaging was beyond disgusting and I would never have been part of that for one second. Everyone who had a part in it should be totally ashamed of themselves IMO.

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 14:00

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 13:48

I never stated I was part of any sort of messaging. I was part of decision-making around healthcare during covid. The messaging was beyond disgusting and I would never have been part of that for one second. Everyone who had a part in it should be totally ashamed of themselves IMO.

You said that you were part of the decision making. And you wrote:

Oh and a lot of the covid messaging was outright lies. I think a lot of people know that now, but maybe don't realise how blatant it was.

The decision making affected the messaging, surely. And pretty well everything you have stated was "known" - particularly what you say was "known" in March 2020 - was not known at all.

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 14:10

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 14:00

You said that you were part of the decision making. And you wrote:

Oh and a lot of the covid messaging was outright lies. I think a lot of people know that now, but maybe don't realise how blatant it was.

The decision making affected the messaging, surely. And pretty well everything you have stated was "known" - particularly what you say was "known" in March 2020 - was not known at all.

I don't know how to state it more clearly tbh - I was involved in decision making that was not directly related to messaging. The decision making was knee-jerk and often made no sense. The messaging was built around scaring people.

Again, you don't have to believe me. I'm stating my knowledge and experience. You seem to know more than I do about it, somehow. That's fine.

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 14:27

You wrote, as something you know because of your job:

That a lot of the decision making around healthcare during Covid was ad hoc and panic-based rather than based on any data or scientific reasoning. I know this because I was involved in some of that decision making when I absolutely should not have been.

Then you wrote:

By the end of March 2020 it was 100% verifiably true that if you were between 20 and 50 and in good general health you had almost no chance of dying from covid. That is not what was communicated to the public and there were many people in that age group who believed they were personally in severe danger if they interacted with anybody.

The data was definitely not in "by the end of March 2020", and it has never been the case that it is "100% verifiably true that if you were between 20 and 50 and in good general health you had almost no chance of dying from covid". Tell that to all the people of all ages who did die, and are still dying of covid.

Whyarepeople · 18/05/2026 14:30

peppermintfizz · 18/05/2026 14:27

You wrote, as something you know because of your job:

That a lot of the decision making around healthcare during Covid was ad hoc and panic-based rather than based on any data or scientific reasoning. I know this because I was involved in some of that decision making when I absolutely should not have been.

Then you wrote:

By the end of March 2020 it was 100% verifiably true that if you were between 20 and 50 and in good general health you had almost no chance of dying from covid. That is not what was communicated to the public and there were many people in that age group who believed they were personally in severe danger if they interacted with anybody.

The data was definitely not in "by the end of March 2020", and it has never been the case that it is "100% verifiably true that if you were between 20 and 50 and in good general health you had almost no chance of dying from covid". Tell that to all the people of all ages who did die, and are still dying of covid.

Ok.

ForLimeCat · 18/05/2026 14:53

NHS - staff toilets are often left in a disgusting state. I mean shit/blood on seats, walls or floors.

We'd have a 'book-man' come in every few weeks and leave books and little items that could be ordered. Nearly every time he'd have to report that something had been stolen. Same with cake sales or other snacks where people were supposed to leave payment in a jar - always came up short.

Start of covid - several emails went round about missing PPE, toilet paper and paracetamol. Staff threatened with disciplinary and criminal action as it was clear staff were stealing stuff.

Covid - before the vaccination, all staff who had any potential symptoms which were quite vague early on told they had to take 14 days off which would not count towards their sickness record. I knew several people do that several times while posting pics on social media drinking wine in their gardens. I jokingly asked someone I respected if he was going to take his 'free two weeks off 'and he said no, he was waiting to do so when things got busy because at the time, the hospital was dead and staff were just sitting around watching TV on their 'phones and carrying home bags of takeaways and easter egg donations from local businesses who mistakenly thought due to scenes from hospitals that were swamped, that that was the case everywhere when it wasn't.

MaySheWillStay · 18/05/2026 15:26

Maverick197 · 13/05/2026 11:50

Over 30 years ago I used to work as a junior admin in a school office at a private school and some of the wealthy Russian clients would pay for their kids school fees with big fat envelopes full of cash.

This happened a couple of times at the private school where I worked. Two years’ fees paid in cash in advance.
There was also a rumour that some of the Russian children had parents in the Russian Mafia, and their status with the others depended on their father’s position within it.

Quite quickly the school stopped taking Russians altogether.

There are private schools and private schools. All the academic staff at that school had degrees, and further training (eg specialist teaching courses and Master’s degrees) was encouraged and subsidised if not completely funded. Some of the sports staff, who coached a sport but did not teach GCSE or A level PE, might not have degrees but would have lots of experience with their sport probably at a professional level.

I have read that Academies, which are state schools, can recruit people without degrees or other teaching qualifications as teachers, but I don’t know if that’s true.

Gloriousgardener11 · 18/05/2026 17:55

ForLimeCat · 18/05/2026 14:53

NHS - staff toilets are often left in a disgusting state. I mean shit/blood on seats, walls or floors.

We'd have a 'book-man' come in every few weeks and leave books and little items that could be ordered. Nearly every time he'd have to report that something had been stolen. Same with cake sales or other snacks where people were supposed to leave payment in a jar - always came up short.

Start of covid - several emails went round about missing PPE, toilet paper and paracetamol. Staff threatened with disciplinary and criminal action as it was clear staff were stealing stuff.

Covid - before the vaccination, all staff who had any potential symptoms which were quite vague early on told they had to take 14 days off which would not count towards their sickness record. I knew several people do that several times while posting pics on social media drinking wine in their gardens. I jokingly asked someone I respected if he was going to take his 'free two weeks off 'and he said no, he was waiting to do so when things got busy because at the time, the hospital was dead and staff were just sitting around watching TV on their 'phones and carrying home bags of takeaways and easter egg donations from local businesses who mistakenly thought due to scenes from hospitals that were swamped, that that was the case everywhere when it wasn't.

Wow !
And we all stood outside and clapped for this. 🙄

looselegs · 18/05/2026 18:20

Bertiebiscuit · 11/05/2026 13:44

I worked on a Rape Crisis Helpline, and a Domestic violence Helpline, you would not believe the number of men who would phone both to just to try to talk dirty to the women who answered the phone, just too cheap to pay for their grubby porn line hobby. Beyond gross.

A friend of mine worked for the Samaritans and that was the same...