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What tax do you most hate

422 replies

Taxta · 04/05/2026 15:04

I’m torn between stamp duty and inheritance tax.

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Slobberchops1 · 04/05/2026 16:17

I will never buy a house or inherit anything so neither of those bother me

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 04/05/2026 16:18

minipie · 04/05/2026 16:13

It’s nonsense

They are saying that if we tax people’s gambling winnings then we also have to give people “credit” for their gambling losses - ie they could deduct their losses from any tax they have to pay on their winnings (or even from other taxes)

But there is no rule that says we would have to do it that way. We tax people on their income without allowing them to deduct the money they have “lost” in earning that income (train ticket, work clothes costs, childcare). We could absolutely tax gambling winnings without allowing deduction of gambling losses.

I thought the whole idea of gambling taxes was that you paid the tax with your stake, wasn't it? Was this not established in 1994 when the national lottery came in?

The government get the same amount of tax in overall, but if you tax the very people who win big, it makes them deeply resentful; whereas 20p or so on every couple of quid to enter spent by millions of punters doesn't even register with most people.

JLou08 · 04/05/2026 16:18

ProudAmberTurtle · 04/05/2026 15:50

It affects many people who live in south east England and there are numerous people who don't want to engage with the 7 year rule as they're fearful of what their life might be like in 7 years.

And this doesn't change the fact that it's evil that money that has already been taxed is being taxed again.

Inheritance is unearned by the recipient. Taxing it is not 'evil', I'd say it's the fairest place for the government to be taking it from.

Denim4ever · 04/05/2026 16:18

JehovasFitness · 04/05/2026 15:24

In most cases, and yes there are exceptions, they didn’t earn it. They’ve had a massive untaxed capital gain.

Who are these people and where are they getting this untaxed gain from?

My parents worked hard for their savings, they were not wealthy, just prudent. My Dad was an orphan, my Mum one of 9, they inherited nothing. They had 2 children one of whom pre deceased them by not very much time. Apart from the sibling loss, there are many people like me who only narrowly avoided inheritance tax. They didn't leave me with much admin, but any when you are bereaved is effort and feels like you have to prove you are entitled to what they wanted to give you.

CloudPop · 04/05/2026 16:19

Growlybear83 · 04/05/2026 15:18

I agree with you. We’re in the process of moving after being in the same house for 34 years, and I was really shocked by how much we will be paying in stamp duty. It also makes me very angry that our daughter won’t be able to live in our house when she inherits it because she will need to sell it to pay the inheritance tax 😡

There really are options around tax planning that you should look into

Tabla · 04/05/2026 16:19

I think stamp duty is actual theft. It’s free money for the govt to squander.

Inheritance tax also (not that I’ve ever know anyone who’s paid any) - but it seems that your accumulated wealth over your lifetime that you wish to pass to your children is partially stolen by the government. Just because they can.

Council tax is also theft. My bins are emptied once every 3 weeks. That’s it. Nothing else to show for it. The adult social care was severely lacking when my mum was old and dying.

I could accept taxes if there were decent services. But the services are shocking.

No idea of the solution, seems we’re totally fucked.

Soon people will also hate income tax. The benefits bill this year will exceed income tax receipts. That seems totally fucked up.

Viviennemary · 04/05/2026 16:20

Inheritance tax is daylight robbery.

Bridesmaidorexfriend · 04/05/2026 16:21

I’m completely in favor of IHT. Stamp duty I would rather not have to pay but in general I’m pro tax. It makes complete sense to me. I don’t find any taxes ‘evil’

RedRiverShore6 · 04/05/2026 16:22

Dividend tax because I had to pay a very small amount last year, £3 and it was a right palaver as it isn't taken automatically, I either had to fill in a rather lengthy form or ring up to declare this and then it took several months for them to tell me it had been sorted out, I wasn't sure if I had filled in the form correctly, next time I will ring up.

Gottagetfitin26 · 04/05/2026 16:23

Council tax is just ridiculous and outdated, and yes, currently seems very poor value for money. The whole system needs to be redone to make it fairer.

Stamp duty is awful, although hasn't affected me personally

I do agree with IHT though, despite the fact it may well affect me in the future

eurochick · 04/05/2026 16:23

Stamp duty is terrible and distorts the housing market in negative ways.

On a personal level, I paid several years worth of hard saving to the government simply for the privilege of moving house in the South-East.

Pedallleur · 04/05/2026 16:24

Someone famously said All Tax is Theft but re the IHT you need to do the work beforehand because that's what rich people do (or pay someone to do it). Once again all these taxes are within the ability of the Government of the day to change. Are any of them going to put these tax changes in their manifestos?

caringcarer · 04/05/2026 16:24

CGT

Owninterpreter · 04/05/2026 16:24

Stamp duty. I hate it. Why should I have to pay a tax because I need to move for work or ill health for instance.

So few people actually end up paying inheritance tax. Its a stupid high sum for those that do which just makes people work even harder to avoid it.

tigger1001 · 04/05/2026 16:26

It's not a tax as such for me - it's the complexity of our tax system.

i would like to see a complete overhaul of it and make it much more straight forward. The rules on vat in particular are odd and often actually just crazy. Ie confectionary standard rated (absolutely fair enough) but giant marshmallows (a recent vat case) are zero rated as they generally aren't eaten with fingers (roasted etc) - make that make sense.

the vat rules on food are quirky and complicated.

CharnwoodFire · 04/05/2026 16:27

Iht - good tax
Stamp duty - bad tax
Fuel tax - bad tax: a basic necessity which affects working people
Income tax: the bandings are wrong
Council tax: the bandings are wrong and craply managed
NI: I don't really understand why this is a separate tax - though obvs important - could do with better management
Capital gains : good tax
Vat : makes sense
Uni loans aka 'graduate tax' : some are too high
Gambling should be taxed at a super high rate and I don't understand why it's not

genesis92 · 04/05/2026 16:27

onmylastnerveseriously · 04/05/2026 15:22

i sometimes wonder if inheritance tax should be 100 percent. Imagine how much social inequity that could address.

stamp duty is a sod though

Yes and how demotivating it would be for people to work hard and be successful if you knew you couldn’t pass on anything to your children.

Great idea

DontKillSteve · 04/05/2026 16:28

Monty36 · 04/05/2026 16:06

I dislike stamp duty.
I dislike council tax.
I dislike VAT.
I dislike tax credits.
I dislike self employed people paying less than PAYE

Stamp duty because it feels like a form of theft.
Council tax because it is so flawed. And unfair for so many. But nobody seems to have any gumption to try to change it. And I think it costs Councils a lot of money.
I dislike VAT on basic things that poorer people have to purchase as well as those who buy without thinking twice.
Tax credits are a massive employer subsidy. And keep wages for modest jobs at a set rate, along with the NMW.
Self employed people will often say they don’t get paid for holidays, sick etc. I don’t agree. I know those who have calculated such costs into quotes. They want the fire engine to turn up but don’t want to pay for it as PAYE have to. They often get paid cash in hand and do very well indeed. But pay less tax than they should. Not okay.

She said it all.

Ihateboris · 04/05/2026 16:29

Council tax. I live alone so get 25% discount but I think it should be 50%

Denim4ever · 04/05/2026 16:30

OnceUponATimed · 04/05/2026 15:42

My parents bought their house in 1983 for £55k. If it went up in line with inflation, that would be about £275k today.

It's recently been valued for £1.6 million.
They haven't been taxed on that, so I don't seem why they shouldn't. They did nothing to deserve it other than to be lucky.

They haven't 'done anything to deserve' 😲

EasternStandard · 04/05/2026 16:31

Upstartled · 04/05/2026 15:37

Stamp duty for me. Bad for the individual, bad for productivity, bad for housing stock.

Agree.

Also VAT on any education as a ridiculous and damaging policy that brings no benefit.

Ihateboris · 04/05/2026 16:31

I also hate the fact that as a self employed person I have to pay tax in advance. So unfair.

Denim4ever · 04/05/2026 16:33

TheSmallAssassin · 04/05/2026 15:40

Earnings are taxed, interest is taxed, not savings. You can't punish dead people.

Inheritance is unearned by the benefactors, so I think it's fine for it to be taxed. I think inheritance leads to massive inequalities in society, so it's right to address those using the tax system

Savings are declared on your tax return if you have to make one. Pensioners often do.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 04/05/2026 16:33

JLou08 · 04/05/2026 16:18

Inheritance is unearned by the recipient. Taxing it is not 'evil', I'd say it's the fairest place for the government to be taking it from.

But it isn't the recipient who pays it - it's the person who dies (well, their estate) who pays it. Otherwise, there would be a huge difference between an heir who has nothing and one who is already a multi-millionaire.

Theoretically, you could avoid all other taxes - however extremely impractical it would be. You could only earn under your tax-free allowance; you could camp in a field rather than living in an actual home; you could only buy things that are zero-rated for VAT. BY contrast, unless you can live forever, there is no way whatsoever that you can be immune from paying IHT if you have assets over the threshold.

Bridesmaidorexfriend · 04/05/2026 16:33

genesis92 · 04/05/2026 16:27

Yes and how demotivating it would be for people to work hard and be successful if you knew you couldn’t pass on anything to your children.

Great idea

Yet somehow people who don’t have kids continue to be successful despite not having children to leave their money to. Maybe it would make people more generous while they’re alive instead of hoarding wealth and dying at 90 and making their 65yo well off children richer