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How much worse can the cost of living get before society breaks down?

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TheGardenRose · 04/05/2026 08:58

I'm genuinely getting worried. Weekly shop now £72. It was around £40-50 not so long ago.

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sunflowersandsunsets · 05/05/2026 08:49

Phlfz · 04/05/2026 18:24

No of course you are. But I think if you'd ever studied history (even recent history) you'd realise how good (despite the col crisis) we have it in the developed western world.. .and how many years of extreme poverty, wars and disease outbreaks it has taken for societies in the past to break down. People have and are putting up with 1000x worse without societal collapse. The society you live in now is built on the back of hundred of years of people living in poverty and surviving wars and famine, and it's turned out very well for us.

It's just not likely society will break down over a weekly shop or your petrol costing a bit more... Especially given you've likely either been able to afford to drive, get public transport or walk (and not be afraid of being killed or attacked) to get your weekly food shop. And you got to the shop and it was full of food. There's no shortages. Your weekly wage allows you to eat. In not that distant a past in other countries some people's wages were less that the cost of public transport they needed to get to their jobs. And their society didn't collapse.

I understand to you and people struggling it is of course a big deal and it's a shame it's happening.. But in the grand scheme of things it's just not bad enough to cause what you're suggesting.

Edited

This sums it up perfectly. You only need to go back 100 years to see that (as a society), we’ve experienced much, much worse without anything disastrous happening.

What we’re living through now (high fuel and food costs) are absolutely nothing, really.

upinaballoon · 05/05/2026 15:07

Was it 4 or 5 years ago that petrol went up into the 170s? Until this last wobble it had gone down to 129.99. Now it's gone up again and the last time I filled up it was 154.99.
When threequarters of the people in the country have been without any food for the last five mealtimes, that is when a break-down will happen. Meanwhile I will make do and mend and eat liver and bacon and drink water. If we have a hot summer some big, bad boys will have some riots that are relatively small.

upinaballoon · 05/05/2026 15:22

bafta16 · 04/05/2026 15:23

all ears.

I'm not going to spend time looking it up and writing it out here but if you want to know exactly what Margaret Thatcher said, please don't be 'all ears'. Be 'all eyes' instead and google it, and get the whole of the quote, not just that first sentence. I found the whole statement interesting when I first read it. I'm sorry I can't remember it exactly, but in the same way that one big ocean is made up of individual droplets, I think she was meaning that 'society' is made up of individuals - something like that.

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upinaballoon · 05/05/2026 15:23

However did my great-grandmother manage to live without 24 cans of Red Bull a week?

Boomer55 · 05/05/2026 16:22

TheGardenRose · 04/05/2026 08:58

I'm genuinely getting worried. Weekly shop now £72. It was around £40-50 not so long ago.

It’s been worse and we all pulled through.

Loopylalalou · 05/05/2026 20:05

sunflowersandsunsets · 05/05/2026 08:49

This sums it up perfectly. You only need to go back 100 years to see that (as a society), we’ve experienced much, much worse without anything disastrous happening.

What we’re living through now (high fuel and food costs) are absolutely nothing, really.

You’re saying similar to my earlier post. Since reading some of the responses since, I think I could predict the decade of birth for many. Those hard times in the seventies were over 50 years ago, most certainly way before some of those stressing about what oldies like me understand as the nice to haves were born. No internet may seem catastrophic to many, and it can’t be denied it’d certainly mess the food supply chain up, but we’d still survive. As we would with limited access to foreign grown foods and everything else we didn’t have back then. Read books, eat spuds. Live.

charliehungerford · 05/05/2026 21:49

upinaballoon · 05/05/2026 15:22

I'm not going to spend time looking it up and writing it out here but if you want to know exactly what Margaret Thatcher said, please don't be 'all ears'. Be 'all eyes' instead and google it, and get the whole of the quote, not just that first sentence. I found the whole statement interesting when I first read it. I'm sorry I can't remember it exactly, but in the same way that one big ocean is made up of individual droplets, I think she was meaning that 'society' is made up of individuals - something like that.

I posted earlier the full quote. Yes, it’s about not relying on the state to solve everything for us. Look after yourself , your family and your friends and neighbours. Read the whole passage, it’s so annoying when only the first six words are ‘misquoted’.

bafta16 · 06/05/2026 21:12

upinaballoon · 05/05/2026 15:22

I'm not going to spend time looking it up and writing it out here but if you want to know exactly what Margaret Thatcher said, please don't be 'all ears'. Be 'all eyes' instead and google it, and get the whole of the quote, not just that first sentence. I found the whole statement interesting when I first read it. I'm sorry I can't remember it exactly, but in the same way that one big ocean is made up of individual droplets, I think she was meaning that 'society' is made up of individuals - something like that.

I did google and tried all eyes. Couldn't progress. Go away. I expect you are loaded and a Thatcherite.

bafta16 · 06/05/2026 21:14

The woman was an utter monster and sold off anything of shared value.

Needspaceforlego · 06/05/2026 21:29

bafta16 · 06/05/2026 21:14

The woman was an utter monster and sold off anything of shared value.

Selling everything of has left the UK incredibly vulnerable in so many ways.

Just think the profit British Gas and BP are making would have gone back into the government's pockets.
Instead they were sold off for a quick buck.

British Steel - no more
Car industry & ship building - no more
Scotland can barely build a ferry, the same country that built the QE2, and the Queen Elizabeth and Queen Mary before it.

plsdontlookatme · 06/05/2026 21:36

Hoanna · 04/05/2026 15:27

and this is the lifestyle of the people on benefits. Imagine the working folk ....spa resorts weekly, massive cars, European power trips, skiing etc.

So who are we to be lied to. We can see it for ourselves.

It sounds as though a lot of those people might be tourists from out of the area

plsdontlookatme · 06/05/2026 21:38

The internet isn't just something to connect your iPad to. A lot of critical infrastructure relies on the internet.

charliehungerford · 07/05/2026 11:40

Needspaceforlego · 06/05/2026 21:29

Selling everything of has left the UK incredibly vulnerable in so many ways.

Just think the profit British Gas and BP are making would have gone back into the government's pockets.
Instead they were sold off for a quick buck.

British Steel - no more
Car industry & ship building - no more
Scotland can barely build a ferry, the same country that built the QE2, and the Queen Elizabeth and Queen Mary before it.

Our steel industry has diminished, but it still exists, in Port Talbot and Scunthorpe among others.

We still build cars, just under a million in 2025

As far as I know Royal Navy ships are still being maintained in Rosyth in Scotland, and HMS Glasgow was completed there in 2025, HMs Cardiff is under construction.

You can blame Margaret Thatcher for the demise of British industry, but 1990 was a long time ago, what have any party of any colour done to rectify the situation in the last 36 years!

Feelslikeaneternity · 07/05/2026 12:30

plsdontlookatme · 06/05/2026 21:38

The internet isn't just something to connect your iPad to. A lot of critical infrastructure relies on the internet.

Yes surely the majority of peoples work wouldn’t function without internet. Certainly whenever we had a power outage in hospital it was the lack of internet that was the issue - without it you can’t look at the medical records, the test results, the imaging, they are all online. We had to start prescribing by hand on pieces of paper. Care definitely suffered, it’s undeniable.

Kestrelsky72 · 09/05/2026 13:46

I think we have about 30 years before civilization starts to break down. The trigger will be the knock on effects of climate change on food production, uninhabitable climates causing migration, insufficient post-oil energy infrastructure. The rise and rise of AI will also make more people unemployed while the rich gets richer. It's bleak, and NO politicians want to address it because the voting public are entirely self-interested and only vote based on their own metaphorical weekly shopping trolley.

ohyesiseethatnow · 09/05/2026 15:28

ViciousCurrentBun · 04/05/2026 09:27

Actual civil unrest? I could draw you a map of the likely usual flashpoints. First big riots I remember was as a child in 1981. When I was at University I met someone who had actually lived in one of the areas they were in. He remembered the fires of Toxteth as a small child.

Countrywide civil unrest sort of revolution style? No that’s not happening anytime soon. People may be really struggling and places may be a bit grim but we are far from that. There is an argument that The welfare state is not there purely for altruistic reasons it’s to make people behave.

Until civil unrest reaches the leafy suburbs that politicians live in it will remain the same. Their kids don’t tend to go to schools where gangs reign supreme, I’m sure loads pop discreetly to private medical appointments, they don’t live like the majority of people. An example of this is the Labour MP Diane Abbot put her child through private school and I remember the furore about that coming out after she had criticised other MP’s for using the private school system.

The flashpoints tend to be places where the poorest live so they just destroy each others properties. Obviously you get the occasional protest go very wrong in London.

I agree with this but it makes me so sad.

I am financially comfortable. Live in a good area. Suburban.

Like many affluent people in politics, many of the issues don’t directly touch me.

But the idea of my kids growing up in a protected little bubble, where many of their peers are struggling and society is breaking down is horrifying.

I can’t understand why people would want to live in a country like that. Where you and the people in your little set are ok, and screw everyone else.

It’s so fundamentally unpleasant at a human level that I just can’t get my head around it.

(To clarify: I’m not incredibly rich. But I live in a leafy area where nobody needs to use food banks, there is no unrest or rioting or poverty. But I and other are aware of it and are concerned. It’s the “I’m alright, Jack” attitude of those who just don’t give a shit which is so horrible).

bafta16 · 09/05/2026 19:34

Needspaceforlego · 06/05/2026 21:29

Selling everything of has left the UK incredibly vulnerable in so many ways.

Just think the profit British Gas and BP are making would have gone back into the government's pockets.
Instead they were sold off for a quick buck.

British Steel - no more
Car industry & ship building - no more
Scotland can barely build a ferry, the same country that built the QE2, and the Queen Elizabeth and Queen Mary before it.

Terribly sad about Scotland. My GF was a steel maker. Those little boats were such an icon.

bafta16 · 09/05/2026 19:37

charliehungerford · 07/05/2026 11:40

Our steel industry has diminished, but it still exists, in Port Talbot and Scunthorpe among others.

We still build cars, just under a million in 2025

As far as I know Royal Navy ships are still being maintained in Rosyth in Scotland, and HMS Glasgow was completed there in 2025, HMs Cardiff is under construction.

You can blame Margaret Thatcher for the demise of British industry, but 1990 was a long time ago, what have any party of any colour done to rectify the situation in the last 36 years!

I do blame her, I was there I can remember it. She detroyed something, the fabric of society. We never recovered.
Then the racists destroyed what was left with Bexit.

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