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Developed feelings for another woman in my thirties and feeling confused

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Lostsoul35 · 23/04/2026 15:28

Has anyone else experienced this.
I'm 36 why have I all of a sudden developed feelings for another woman.
I'm so confused by this, never have I looked twice at another woman sexually or emotionally. I've always exclusively like men. I was with the same man from 17 till 34.
I have lots of lesbian friends and been around gay people since my teens not once have I had any thoughts like this. Quite the opposite the thought of being with another woman was a total turn off to me. Apparently not now I have a crush on another woman my stomach does backflips when she walks in.
I don't know what to do with these feelings

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Lostsoul35 · Today 13:43

LaurenBacal · Today 10:35

People can’t just switch sexual preferences and orientation for convenience . It does sound like some people think you can.

Im not sure you can just choose to change preference but hormones ant thoughts change through life and peoples sexual orientation dies change probably more often than what you would believe.
I made this post b cause this is what may be happening with me and I was and am very confused and freaked out by it as it's came as a massive shock to me

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