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Parking issue with commercial van - feeling anxious

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Bitofapickle22 · 22/04/2026 15:12

So I live in a quiet residential street. We all have driveways so no issues parking. About a week ago a large commercial lorry started parking in the street. It is huge. One of my neighbours saw the driver park it and then walk off to a street a few minutes away. I’m assuming he can’t or doesn’t want to park in his street so parks it in mine.

When it parks opposite my driveway it makes it harder to reverse in and yes to be honest staring out my lounge window at a huge van is an eyesore and I hate it. I shut the blinds but it’s bloody annoying.

Yesterday we had to help my neighbour out his drive as he couldn’t see round it.

I rang the company and politely asked if the driver could park more considerately. The bloke on the phone said the driver had moved to the area and would now be parking in my street and there’s nothing I could do about it. I explained about blocking driveways making it difficult to get in and out. He didn’t care. Said it’s taxed and insured and we’d have to get used to it. Said he’s known the driver 30 years and he is a “family man”.

Again today I hear it parking up opposite, the loud reversing noise. My DD who is 13 and off school sick looked out the window and the driver saw, came over to our house and started waving up at her. I am now thinking he’s obviously been told that I’ve complained and this is the start of some sort of personal vendetta.

I am a single parent and am now worrying what this bloke is going to do? I shouldn’t have rung. I’m so anxious about this. I just want a quiet life and now not only do I have to deal with this lorry 7 days a week and trying to get round it but the driver and the company know where I live.

Trying not to catastrophise but I have so much other stressful stuff going on that it feels like I’m spiralling.

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Ereerenownow · 15/05/2026 19:25

We have a similar issue wirh a bloke who lives a few streets away parking several commercial vehicles in and around our estate. He doesn't want them parked near his house as they're an eyesore but he's happy to take up all our parking spaces and make us look at his shitty wagons all day. He's an entitled twat who doesnt give a shit as long as him and his family are not inconvenienced

JohnofWessex · 15/05/2026 19:33

Ereerenownow · 15/05/2026 19:25

We have a similar issue wirh a bloke who lives a few streets away parking several commercial vehicles in and around our estate. He doesn't want them parked near his house as they're an eyesore but he's happy to take up all our parking spaces and make us look at his shitty wagons all day. He's an entitled twat who doesnt give a shit as long as him and his family are not inconvenienced

I would raise this as a planning issue, running a business from home and causing issues to the neighbours.

Ereerenownow · 15/05/2026 20:44

JohnofWessex · 15/05/2026 19:33

I would raise this as a planning issue, running a business from home and causing issues to the neighbours.

We've tried all sorts but no one in authority wants to know. If we try and park strategically he'll park on the paths outside people's gates. The bin wagons haven't been able to get into our estate a few times because his vehicles block their access...no one wants to know, not our local council, councillor or mp...meanwhile, the gimp does exactly what he wants

JohnofWessex · 15/05/2026 22:06

Are there any other issues around his behaviour?

Failing that the old bird seed trick

Bitofapickle22 · 16/05/2026 10:38

ere oh god I’m sorry that sounds awful what an odious little man. Seems to be quite common that commercial van man is happy to dump his vans anywhere as long as they’re not on his street or outside his house so he doesn’t have to look at the things. I do wonder how these people would feel if someone decided to dump their van outside his house. They’d be furious!

Meanwhile in my own saga van man didn’t park in our street for a week and the van was spotted parked up in a road where there are no houses, so not bothering anyone. However for the past two weeks it’s been back 7 days a week from 1 in the afternoon causing maximum problems, blocking drives, obscuring people views getting out etc but this odious little man doesn’t care.

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Itsanewdawnitsanewdayitsanewlife4me · 16/05/2026 11:52

He might care more if he came out to flat tyres...

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