I have a family member and her husband who whenever we meet with them (usually at home gatherings) they will both wait for me to leave the room and then take selfies or photos with my DC. They will put my DC next to them and do family shot type photos. I find it annoying as they seem to wait until I have left the room and don't take it with any other family members. As far as I know they don't post to socials but I don't know for sure as I do not go on FB etc. They have done this quite a bit since my DC were born. In the beginning I used to ask them not to do this.
They constantly spam the family whatsapp group with their DC photos and their own DC who has additional needs has started to stim and tantrum when they take photos. I recently called this out as the DC was so distressed.
I do not like my DC photos all over the place and certainly I never post anything about DC online.
They are odd in other ways (not to be outing). I am low contact and keep a relationship with them for all DCs sake.
Wwyd? I am pretty uncomfortable about this.