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Does your home feel luxurious to you?

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Roulett · 18/04/2026 22:37

I am a real homebody. When I go on holiday I miss my home, a lot of it is I find it really stressful- especially with two children - living out of cases and being in unfamiliar environments. I love it when I get home and everything is in its place. Obviously I’m constantly fighting a losing battle to keep things tidy with the children but where I can I try to make home feel nice.

we moved into a 3 bed semi detached new build 4 years ago - the first home we had ever bought. So it’s not a luxury mansion or particularly large house in any way but I have tried my best to make the most of the space and would love tips on what other people do to elevate their home. It’s not just about the aesthetic it’s about making it feel lovely for you.

About a month ago I treated myself to some lovely white company pillows and towels. I like to have all matching mugs and plates. I also bought some lovely neom diffusers. What do other people do to try and make their homes feel like a kind and lovely place to retreat to?

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SadBoys · 18/04/2026 22:49

Good bed linen. Open fire in winter. Really good lighting. Lots of plants.

pdjafcwtaoa65 · 18/04/2026 22:59

Smell and texture are important so as stated good bed linen and well decorated beds. I have certain candles I rotate through the year seasonally for familiarity. Lighting is key, rarely have the ‘big light’ on! Good storage so the house feels tidy.

Also, gadgets that make life easier. So for example having lots of Hive plugs and bulbs and having set routines to say ‘good evening’, ‘bedtime’ etc. We have a Virgin pure machine that has filtered cold water and boiling water on tap.

lazysundaymorning0 · 18/04/2026 23:00

Lighting options
candles, I really like the hurricane lantern type holders mix of textures - throws, cushions, rugs
scent
Nice handwash
feeling like I could wander and pick things up, not like I’m terrified of breaking stuff!

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Piglet89 · 18/04/2026 23:01

Extremely expensive bespoke furniture, built specially for the space. A beautiful, cohesive colour palette.

We hired an interior designer when we did our whole home renovation and it is now an absolute mid century palace. I love it.

Olive42 · 18/04/2026 23:02

Books in most rooms (in height order on bookshelves), looked after plants, reed diffuser/ essential oil diffuser at entrance and in bathrooms, decent, effective hand cream in bathrooms along with soaps. Soft towels. Good lighting, mainly from lamps and those plug in lights that light up as you walk by near to stairs, interesting magazines/books on coffee table (fanned!) Decent bedding.

It’s so nice coming home.

lazysundaymorning0 · 18/04/2026 23:07

Three of my fave parts of my home
I have an inexpensive home, and most of this is done over time on a budget

Does your home feel luxurious to you?
Does your home feel luxurious to you?
Does your home feel luxurious to you?
TheChosenTwo · 18/04/2026 23:10

It feels perfect to me!
I am a real minimalist, probably as a result of growing up in a house (very tidy, my mum has always been incredibly houseproud) full of furniture, ornaments, just things - if there was a 30cm space it was filled with something. I’ve gone the opposite way and there is so much space in our house. Not that it’s massive, it’s a regular sized house but there is a lot of space and it feels airy.
Lovely bespokely made furniture built in, comfortable seating, good bedding, candles, no clutter (until you go to dcs rooms but that’s none of my business 😂).

Muteduck · 18/04/2026 23:26

I live in luxury because.
No pets.
No kids.
No man.
No dramas.
Spotlessly clean all the time no clutter in sight.
Minimalist.

CautiousLurker2 · 18/04/2026 23:37

Yes. I refuse to holiday in Devon/Cornwall at the height of the summer paying in excess of £7k+ for a supposedly luxe 3 bed when that is several months’ mortgage on my stunning 5+bed in Surrey. I love my home and have spent 20 years renovating and extending it, with the most amazing builder, so I resent the money I pay to stay in places that are nowhere near as nice as mine.

Unless it is in Italy…

GentleSheep · 18/04/2026 23:37

Not even remotely! Thinking about it, no place I've ever lived has felt 'luxurious', but I did live in rented accommodation for a huge chunk of my life so not surprising. The home I have now is mine but there's so much that would need doing to it for it to become remotely luxurious. However, it's a roof over my head, I love the area and it's warm in winter and cool in summer. I'm pretty satisfied with that!

mondaytosunday · 19/04/2026 00:00

I’ve just come back from staying with family abroad in a house twice the size of mine (but worth considerably less as I live in London). They had lots of features I’d love to have: a full basement and garage, a huge family room as well as more formal livingroom, five bedrooms and three bathrooms…
But I live my house. It’s cosy and the layout works really well. Of course the decor is my choice. What makes it luxurious is my gas fire, my wall of crittal style glazing overlooking the garden, but tempur mattress with very high thread count sheets.

Crwysmam · 19/04/2026 00:16

No but I do have some cool appliances that communicate with me via my phone.I have a brilliant bean to cup coffee machine. And I invested in a very good mattress. The rest is just window dressing.

We don’t have the biggest home but it is in a lovely location. It is easy to clean and maintain and super energy efficient and best of all we’re mortgage free because we didn’t chase the dream.

Iwiicit · 19/04/2026 00:24

I love coming home to my cat.

bedfrog · 19/04/2026 06:45

Yes!! I have a tiny house but it feels luxurious. Ive focused on natural materials and no plastics and the decor is timeless (i.e not fashionable!!). My furniture is antique and solid wood, the colours are rich, I buy the best quality bedsheets (100% cotton, thick) i can reasonably afford. Blackout blinds (needed in scotland!!), stainless steel pans, lots of plants.

I'm disabled and spend a lot of time at home, so I've made sure to make it lovely.

Going on holiday could never compare.

Easylifeornot · 19/04/2026 06:50

pdjafcwtaoa65 · 18/04/2026 22:59

Smell and texture are important so as stated good bed linen and well decorated beds. I have certain candles I rotate through the year seasonally for familiarity. Lighting is key, rarely have the ‘big light’ on! Good storage so the house feels tidy.

Also, gadgets that make life easier. So for example having lots of Hive plugs and bulbs and having set routines to say ‘good evening’, ‘bedtime’ etc. We have a Virgin pure machine that has filtered cold water and boiling water on tap.

How do you learn about ligthing? I need to add layers of light to my room but I just don’t know how to it.

High tread count bedding. I like calm and simple so I white bedding and white crockery but high quality matching mugs.

I agree with adding plants.

CalicoCaterina · 19/04/2026 06:56

I love my home. I am not an expert on lighting @Easylifeornot but I like the lighting I've got. All my bulbs are hue bulbs which can be changed from warm white to daylight (for reading/working), candle effect, various different shades of whites, or colours - but I rarely use those.

I also really like the effect of foil backed lampshades, but I think it is the warmth effect of the bulbs that's made the biggest difference to my lighting.

PersephoneParlormaid · 19/04/2026 06:56

I have a super king bed to myself, with a 1000 thread Egyptian cotton sheet. That’s luxury to me. I’m about to go on holiday where I’ll have a single bed, so I’ll be looking forward to coming home !
And I’m currently getting rid of the IKEA furniture and replacing it with solid wood.

BewareoftheLambs · 19/04/2026 06:59

We don't really aim for luxurious, but we've an old cottage and love lots of comfortable cosy touches like blankets, candles etc. We're also having our log burner redone in a short while, which gives the whole place a gorgeous feeling when lit.

FlorenceBlack · 19/04/2026 07:14

Smell is very important to me, I have the bedroom windows open every day no matter what the weather to air the house. I’ve never forgotten going to a colleague’s huge and expensive place and all I could smell was cat pee! If you’re going to have lots of cushions and throws make sure they’re freshened up regularly.
A diffuser near the front door so it’s the first thing you smell as you enter.

Light switches, sockets, door handles, taps, things that could be upgraded from new build basics unless you’ve got decent ones already.

Artwork that’s in proportion to the size of your walls, nothing too small.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 19/04/2026 07:18

Yes it does. It’s calm, tidy and uncluttered and the dogs are here. The views are extraordinary and my partner has an amazing eye for interiors. Very lucky.

JennyForeigner · 19/04/2026 07:18

It does actually, but that is new and follows more hard work than I can say. After years of clutter I have got rid of 80%, so that it feels spacious and light. Everything I have is second hand but it is all good quality and has been ruthlessly pared back.

I have a lovely house but never dreamed it might feel luxurious, so this is quite a revelation!

Morepositivemum · 19/04/2026 07:25

I’ve a great home but it’s a non stop mess. Was in my mums the other day and she pointed out something slightly (as in barely!) askew and said sometimes the clutter stressed her. I laughed thinking dhr was joking but no. She hasn’t been to my house in a year (mobility issues and we all meet at hers) and I think it would be the most shocking thing on earth to her to see it. I was always sad her house was so very very minimalistic but I never get to do what you say and just go ‘ahhh!’ when I get home. Well done to you op, I know you say it needs tidying etc but it’s obviously fairly en pointe!

blackheartsgirl · 19/04/2026 07:28

Cosy yes. Luxurious no.

luxurious just gets wasted on 2 messy teens and sticky fingered grandchildren.

I once bought really lovely bath and hand towels, dd2 used them for fake tanning and hair dying.

i will wait until they all move out before I buy anything luxurious.

I have decluttered a lot though which does make a difference to the feel of the house

user1476613140 · 19/04/2026 07:32

I have been doing a major declutter of the home so it's starting to feel more of a relaxing space.

I love candles on at night to relax. Lots of neutral colours.

Velvetandleather · 19/04/2026 07:34

I guess it does.

we don’t have young kids here (young adults who come home regularly but don’t live here) or pets so it’s easier to keep clean

not sure if any of these ideas help, but, we have:

thick cream carpets upstairs, and downstairs it’s exposed oak with thick cream rugs, which always looks more expensive and bring in light.

the sofas are cream in one room, mink in another, dark green armchairs, cushions are expensive from voyage maison and add colour, thick throws folded over the arms.

large antique mirrors and artwork on the walls.

large velvet ottamons at the end of each bed.

Two log burners in different rooms with large baskets of logs to the side.

Heavy velvet or silk blinds in green, mink, teal etc.

nice candles that are dotted round and used, mainly diptyque.

lots of interesting antiques, clocks, a carved trunk, many just curious interesting bits I have found, we live in an old period property so it works,

lots of framed family photos on the fire places.

two huge coffee tables in either living room, with books candles etc on.

towels are from the white company, bedding is heavy count Egyptian cotton. All white in all rooms, heavy throws on the beds, thick hotel pillows.

molton brown hand soap and moisturiser in the loos.

pots and cookware are le creuset in volcanic, a 8 burner range cooker in the kitchen,

Two electronic tower diffusers downstairs, on a timer, so it always smells nice, I like vanilla scents.

lots of real large plants in corners, as in 5 or 6 foot tall , with led fairy lights woven between the leaves and used at night. Sitting in nice pots, some Chinese, some antique,

antique woven baskets (picked up cheaply ) to hold loo roll in the bathrooms

No clutter, and the house is clean,

one thing I learned over the years, is don’t ever buy something just to fill a space, only buy something you love, and keep the empty space till you find it. As if you love it, you likely always will. Avoid mass market stuff like next at home. You can get fabulous stuff for the same price in antique shops or Etsy, finding it is half the fun.

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