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I know I’m getting old because ….

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chunkyBoo · 06/02/2026 17:24

I’m watching Star Trek the next generation because I’m off sick from work (long term) and I have started watching old things unused to watch back in the day …. I told myself earlier that I must be getting old because I’m looking at Jean Luc Picard, thinking he’s looking quite foxy … it always used to be the younger men back in the early 1990’s 🤣

anyone found them telling themselves that they’re getting old , and why?

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worstofbothworlds · 06/02/2026 21:52

I'm a university lecturer and when I tell the students about my degree days .. they look at me like I'm some sort of guru from the past. They don't actually understand Science Citation Index so I can't tell them about using it as a book.

Also when I say the old lady things my mum says (I've already said all the mum things at least 100 times each).

AmazingGraced · 06/02/2026 21:56

For me it’s the shock of people offering you their seat or letting you go ahead. There’s a sort of ‘poor old granny’ look in their eyes. I hate it.

runningonberocca · 06/02/2026 21:59

GreenRedFlowers · 06/02/2026 17:33

I remember reading a list of things that identified this and the two I remember were saying 'oof!' when you sit down and reading the Lakeland catalogue in bed.
I'll see if I can find it.

I’m guilty of both of these!

BlueEyedBogWitch · 06/02/2026 22:00

I’m a teacher. Over the past couple of years I’ve been floored by meeting students who have never heard of:

  1. The Beatles
  2. Kylie Minogue
  3. Magazines
AgentPidge · 06/02/2026 22:00

ASometimeThing · 06/02/2026 17:53

I have children in their 20s, the eldest of whom says things like ‘you’ll be dead soon’. I’m 53. 🥴

Mine asked me the other day when I'm going to get rid of all the crockery, books etc so clearing the house when I die won't be a pain!

BlueEyedBogWitch · 06/02/2026 22:01

Also, I’ve started loving a rummage in a charity shop, making tea in a pot, Radio 3 and slippers.

shhblackbag · 06/02/2026 22:04

When I started living in comfortable clothes. I have zero fucks to give.

Allseeingallknowing · 06/02/2026 22:06

GeneMcdanielsWalkwithawinnerNsoul · 06/02/2026 20:58

Noises when rising out of a chair
Noises when sitting down on a comfy chair..aaagh.thats better❤️👍

Some noises are not just joints creaking…

springawakeningss · 06/02/2026 22:11

DS refers to my childhood as "in the olden days.."

GeneMcdanielsWalkwithawinnerNsoul · 06/02/2026 22:11

Allseeingallknowing · 06/02/2026 22:06

Some noises are not just joints creaking…

Getting up out of a chair..oh my bloody knees.👍😁

AgentPidge · 06/02/2026 22:12

When I was 18 I had a friend who was 21, and who had a young baby. I found out that baby is now a grandma! Oh boy, that made me feel ancient! I'm not a gran (yet).
They all must've been very young mums.

Gloriousgardener11 · 06/02/2026 22:16

Mine was today when I heard that it is Rick Astleys birthday and he’s 60!

pinkpony88 · 06/02/2026 22:19

Saga was my cheapest car insurance quote🫢

Myfridgeiscool · 06/02/2026 22:21

I’ve stopped getting stressed about stuff which realistically will only be a problem in about 20 years and I’ll probably be dead by then. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm all about stress minimisation these days.

GinToBegin · 06/02/2026 22:24

Because my date of birth is closer to 1899 than 2026.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 06/02/2026 22:31

GinToBegin · 06/02/2026 22:24

Because my date of birth is closer to 1899 than 2026.

Yikes.

Nevermind17 · 06/02/2026 22:32

I was in hospital this week and a nurse came over and began to ask me questions about whether I’d had a fall in the last twelve months, was I at risk of falls in the home etc. I must have looked a bit puzzled and she said “Wait, how old are you?” I told her that I had just turned 50, and she said “Oh sorry, that’s okay then. I only need to ask these questions to the geriatric patients”.

TheDogsMother · 06/02/2026 22:32

FlyMeToTheSpoon · 06/02/2026 18:16

The hairdresser used to give me Heat and Closer magazines. Now I am given Good Housekeeping and Red.

Arrgh is Red an oldies mag ? I think I started reading in my 30s. I confess I do like a Good Housekeeping magazine and even more tragically I turn straight to the recipes.

applebee33 · 06/02/2026 22:34

Loving my own company, a good book and bar of chocolate excites me also

crazycatladie · 06/02/2026 22:46

Putting my coat on to put the bins out.

Ahwig · 06/02/2026 22:47

I bought my old school friend a card that said, “you know you’re old, when you listen to the music that you used to dance to while doing the cleaning now “. I laughed as I bought it because literally the previous weekend , I’d been singing really loudly some bangers from my disco days, night fever, silly games and grease mega mix whilst wearing ear pods and hoovering.

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ChaliceinWonderland · 06/02/2026 22:56

I explained to my teenage son I went interailling in yugoslavia in 1989
He had no concept if what that was.

Morepositivemum · 06/02/2026 22:58

On sitcoms they’re all talking about being old and they’re younger than me (last one was modern family!!)

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