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Just got scammed out of almost 1k

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BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:41

Please be so careful of phone calls from your bank. Always call them back, as caller ID can be faked. My actual bank said they had never seen this scam. They duplicated everything, all the spiels, the robot connecting voice, the hold music.

Second month of being paid after 5 months of no income. Back to nothing again. FFS.

OP posts:
MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 01/02/2026 08:52

ZookeeperSE · 01/02/2026 08:45

What bank is it OP?

I’m a bit confused as to what has actually happened. So the scammers had access to to your bank account AND they managed to get a legitimate code generated but you had to repeat the code to your bank when they called? How did they manage that? Sounds like something is amiss with the bank’s security if this is what happened and you should be reimbursed for any losses accordingly.

Mine above has been HSBC and my MBNA card. MBNA say that it isn’t their system that puts the scammers have hacked it’s that your phone recognises the name eg MBNA and then puts it in that thread. Very sophisticated

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 08:52

MotherofPufflings · 01/02/2026 08:42

I'm guessing that they used the a/c and sort code numbers to try and get into her online banking. Then the OTP that the OP was tricked into revealing allowed them to reset her online banking password and get access?

This is the bit I'm struggling with.

It sounds like they already knew OPs name and phone number (?).
So they rang her and got her to tell them her acc no & sort code.
Then what? I'm guessing they tried to log into her account using her name plus accno & sort code; the online banking screen gave THEM an OTP (which they tell her is a "verification code" ) then rang OPs mobile and she gave the OTP to the automated call thus allowing the scammer into her online account????

That doesn't sound like a very good security from the bank, does it? Normally the two-factor authentication works the other way round - the OTP comes to your phone and you type it in. If it had happened that way round then OP would probably have been alerted that something was a bit off.

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 08:54

NorthSouthEast · 01/02/2026 07:25

The narrative about “your bank will never call you” is half the sentence. Your bank will never call you to ask for a OTP, PIN, password etc. Your bank may well call you to raise concerns about fraudulent transactions but they will ask you to go through security ie selected letters from your password, not give out all your details direct to the caller. And the OTP code that is sent to your mobile and you tell the caller is literally you allowing the scammer to verify the purchase they are making on your card.

sorry you got scammed OP, the thing they do so well is the pressure and urgency which is what makes sensible people fall for this stufff.

This is what I couldn’t get my head around and now I understand.
in the op’s original post it sounded like she’d just given them sort code and acc number and I couldn’t understand how they had transferred the money out of her account.

Now I realise the situation was:
The scammers had enough details to make an initial transfer transaction with the bank. All they needed was the verification code to be able authorise the transfer. That makes me feel less anxious because the initial post did not explain that very well.

Could you explain the call back situation? One poster has made it sound like if you call the bank’s official number, scammers can somehow redirect the call to them. They literally said you need to use another phone altogether to avoid this scam. This is either extremely alarming or an attempt by the poster to scaremonger/or make themselves appear less gullible in falling for the scam. What do you think?

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BowstotheSettingSun · 01/02/2026 08:54

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 00:04

Report Fraud has just closed the case due to lack of evidence

Report Fraud is just that - a place to report. Ive never known the useless fuckers investigate anything.

BunnyLake · 01/02/2026 08:56

You did all this while you were out, frazzled with the kids? I know it’s too late now but whenever anyone ‘business’ calls me when I’m out I just say I’m out can you call me back later. First thing I would have then done is go on my bank app and check my account.

A hard lesson but at least you’ll never fall for it again.

Fancycrab · 01/02/2026 08:59

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 00:17

They asked me for my acct number and sort code to 'verify' my account. This is where I felt the doubt but didn't want to hang up and delay 'securing' my account. Also part of me probably felt that I didn't want to be rude or difficult, which is wrong but ingrained.

I don’t understand how they were able to scam you with only your account number and sort code? How does that work?

ZookeeperSE · 01/02/2026 08:59

123123again · 01/02/2026 08:50

@Owly11

The scammers have their own account and basically they convinced Op to put her money into it. Just like when you buy something online. The scammers got her to give them enough details to get a One Time Password/ verification code. This means Op agreed to send it so the bank authorised it

So that’s what I was thinking - they’d transferred all the money out with that OTP.

But OP then says:
Multiple payment notifications then came up and it was only later when I had time to think that I rang my actual bank

So multiple payments but only one OTP, I’m struggling to understand what exactly they have done and how and how it isn’t a failing of the banks system. Just comparing it to my bank and what I would have to do for this to happen and it doesn’t match up.
Would be good to know which bank it is…

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 08:59

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 08:54

This is what I couldn’t get my head around and now I understand.
in the op’s original post it sounded like she’d just given them sort code and acc number and I couldn’t understand how they had transferred the money out of her account.

Now I realise the situation was:
The scammers had enough details to make an initial transfer transaction with the bank. All they needed was the verification code to be able authorise the transfer. That makes me feel less anxious because the initial post did not explain that very well.

Could you explain the call back situation? One poster has made it sound like if you call the bank’s official number, scammers can somehow redirect the call to them. They literally said you need to use another phone altogether to avoid this scam. This is either extremely alarming or an attempt by the poster to scaremonger/or make themselves appear less gullible in falling for the scam. What do you think?

Could you explain the call back situation? One poster has made it sound like if you call the bank’s official number, scammers can somehow redirect the call to them. They literally said you need to use another phone altogether to avoid this scam.

If they call on a landline then the call doesn't end when you put the phone down. So if they simply stay on the line then whatever you dial just goes back to them.
This doesn't apply to a mobile phone.

They can also make their incoming call to your mobile LOOK as if is from your bank.
But they can't interfere with an outgoing call from your mobile phone.

Hope that helps

Owly11 · 01/02/2026 08:59

DeftWasp · 01/02/2026 08:43

Very true, my acc number and sort code are on all my invoices for customers to pay me, they alone won't let anyone access you account.

They will need your customer number and pin to do that and often a one time pass code to do a new, large payment.

Yes so how did they get op's pin etc?

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 01/02/2026 09:00

Banks do still call you. My dp had a few calls that he ignored. Now his credit card is cancelled because it was his banks fraud team calling, due to scammers trying to access.
Thank goodness for these teams in banks.

hididdlyho · 01/02/2026 09:00

GabriellaK · 01/02/2026 08:29

But some scammers set up a system where the number you call LOOKS like your bank but they have intercepted it.

So as PPs have said, you call from a different line or key in 159. I agree people should be vigilant, but to say banks will never call you is incorrect. In my case, I called back the next day after they called me as I wasn't home and my DH only just remembered to tell me. If there is suspected fraud, the bank will hold the transaction until they can verify it with the customer, so there's no need to feel unduly rushed.

If you're fortunate enough to still have a local branch to go into, then that's of course an option (although they'll likely direct you to use their phones, so you'll still end up talking to a call centre). I suspect we're not far off branches becoming completely obsolete, so it's better to educate yourself as to what information a bank will and won't ask you for, rather than scaring people unnecessarily. In this case, asking for the full account number and OTP code were the red flags, although I can completely see why the OP was fooled and think the PPs ridiculing her are being very harsh.

OP, I would pursue this with the bank by going through their complaints process. They do like to try to shut people down at the first hurdle, but it seems like in this scenario, they should be returning the money to you.

Owly11 · 01/02/2026 09:00

123123again · 01/02/2026 08:50

@Owly11

The scammers have their own account and basically they convinced Op to put her money into it. Just like when you buy something online. The scammers got her to give them enough details to get a One Time Password/ verification code. This means Op agreed to send it so the bank authorised it

Op said she didn't transfer her money to another account.

Wolfpa · 01/02/2026 09:01

Are you sure you have actually reported this to your bank and not the scammers?

it is a really common fraud that a real bank will know all about.

there are processes for you to get the money compensated back to you

EdithBond · 01/02/2026 09:01

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 00:23

Yes, when I asked what my chances were of recovering the money they said they couldn't say as this was a new scam. I don't know if they meant specific aspects were new, the degree of sophistication in imitating the bank communications, or what

Are you sure you were talking to your bank and not more scammers? Such an odd thing for the bank to say. Did you call their fraud department?

Suggest try your bank again to see if you’re protected. Thought it’s the No.1 rule to never give out info over the phone.

123123again · 01/02/2026 09:03

BassinBas · 01/02/2026 01:00

I got scammed in a fucking car park. It was cashless and someone had put a fake QR code on the information board. I thought I was paying for two hours' parking. Turns out I was setting up a subscription to a fake company. It actually took ages to unravel because the money started leaving my account several days after I'd left the car park and thought no more about it. And it was a council car park, so every time I tried to speak to someone I got "not my job" responses.

This is horrendous! So tricky of them. Who is going to spot that.

@LittleDaisyDot
You’re a man aren’t you. Possibly American ( we tend not to use citizen in that context).
I take your point. However the security rules change as we get more codes more hoops and know less about what information others have on us.
At one point we were all told don’t write any passwords down. Now it’s probably safer than storing them with a company online as we do. A burglar isn’t going to be able to work out your laptop password and have the time steal all your codes written in your diary.

TheGoddessAthena · 01/02/2026 09:04

Owly11 · 01/02/2026 08:39

Yes I am wondering the same. I give out my bank account number and sort code to clients but that wouldn't be enough information for them to take money out of my account surely? To take money out of my account you have to log into my account first. And unless you also gave them your password to get into your account they could only get into it by hacking in and you can't really do anything to prevent someone hacking the account. I also wish I understood exactly how the scam works.

The scammers are either trying to make a payment from the OP's account or log into her account. After going through their spiel about securing the account and suspicious transaction, they say they are sending her a "reset code" but it's actually a one time passcode to authorise the payment. OP gave them the number, payment goes through.

I do have sympathy for people who lose money but also don't think that banks should always be refunding no questions asked. One time passcodes always have a clear warning that they are never to be shared. When I make any payment from my account I have to read a page saying that I know the person or are buying goods or services. Personal responsibility has to factor in too.

Andepeda · 01/02/2026 09:04

So, my bank did actually call me about a suspicious transaction on my account.
They asked me for personal information to identify myself. I laughed, 'So you are ringing me up and want me to prove who I am? Don't be ridiculous!'

The official letter arrived 2 days later from my bank, detailing the problem. So if anyone calls you for anything, just ignore, they'll get in touch another way if it's genuine.

Beachtastic · 01/02/2026 09:05

So sorry you've experienced this, OP. Please don't beat yourself up about being a mug - there's a series of Radio 4 programmes discussing exactly this sort of scam, and interviewing people who have fallen victim to it. None of them are daft, many of them would naturally be wary but were distracted by other things at the time of the call. The criminals are increasingly sophisticated and precisely mirror bank processes, such as the familiar script.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/m002h2gt

BBC Sounds - Scam Secrets - Available Episodes

Listen to the latest episodes of Scam Secrets on BBC Sounds.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/m002h2gt

ZookeeperSE · 01/02/2026 09:05

TheGoddessAthena · 01/02/2026 08:45

Banks do call people.

BUT, if anyone from "your bank" phones and the first thing they say is some bollocks about suspicious transactions on fraud on your account it's a scam. 100%. Hang up. Dial 159 from any phone but preferably a different one and it'll put you through to your own bank's fraud department and they can advise whether you need to cancel cards or change passwords.

That’s not correct either.

I absolutely have been called by First Direct to ask if some suspicious transactions were indeed done by me. They weren’t. Their system recognised it as an unusual pattern of spending on my account and so they blocked them all (and the ac) and called to ask if I recognised them. Crucially though, they didn’t ask me to do anything (once I’d gone through the usual security detail to confirm it was me, none of which includes anything to do with your account - and now they use voice recognition). They simply dealt with it once they knew I hadn’t attempted to make those payments.

BunnyLake · 01/02/2026 09:06

PsiloLemon · 01/02/2026 08:50

What is this common sense you speak?!
That is going to throw some of the pearl clutchers right off their perch.

Speaking as an out and proud pearl clutcher, we tend to be very cautious people (hence the clutching of pearls). We are probably the least likey to answer unknown phone calls or be easy prey to scammers. 🙃

Parker231 · 01/02/2026 09:07

@BonneMamanAbricot - have you rang your bank for them to investigate?

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:08

KitsyWitsy · 01/02/2026 08:48

A good policy is not to answer the phone to unknown numbers. iPhones will screen calls for you too. There’s no need to answer. This could have been avoided. No scammers ever even manage to communicate at all with me.

No scammer has communicated with me either but it's not because I don't answer the phone, it's simply because they haven't rung me.

Your fiendishly clever phone refusing isn't necessarily the reason 😀

Wolmando · 01/02/2026 09:09

I just block the lot of unknown callers on my iPhone, they can text or leave a voicemail which gets printed out.

ZookeeperSE · 01/02/2026 09:09

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 08:52

This is the bit I'm struggling with.

It sounds like they already knew OPs name and phone number (?).
So they rang her and got her to tell them her acc no & sort code.
Then what? I'm guessing they tried to log into her account using her name plus accno & sort code; the online banking screen gave THEM an OTP (which they tell her is a "verification code" ) then rang OPs mobile and she gave the OTP to the automated call thus allowing the scammer into her online account????

That doesn't sound like a very good security from the bank, does it? Normally the two-factor authentication works the other way round - the OTP comes to your phone and you type it in. If it had happened that way round then OP would probably have been alerted that something was a bit off.

Edited

That’s exactly what I’m thinking.
Which is why it would be good to know which bank.

Parker231 · 01/02/2026 09:09
  • Contact Your Bank: Tell them immediately if you have paid money or shared details. Use the official number on the back of your card or 159.
  • Stop All Contact: If you are in direct contact with scammers, cease all communication instantly.
  • Secure Accounts: Change passwords for online banking and, if necessary, your email.
  • Report the Fraud: Report the incident to Action Fraud (online or 0300 123 2040) or Police Scotland on 101.
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