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Just got scammed out of almost 1k

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BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:41

Please be so careful of phone calls from your bank. Always call them back, as caller ID can be faked. My actual bank said they had never seen this scam. They duplicated everything, all the spiels, the robot connecting voice, the hold music.

Second month of being paid after 5 months of no income. Back to nothing again. FFS.

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BunnyLake · 01/02/2026 09:10

123123again · 01/02/2026 09:03

This is horrendous! So tricky of them. Who is going to spot that.

@LittleDaisyDot
You’re a man aren’t you. Possibly American ( we tend not to use citizen in that context).
I take your point. However the security rules change as we get more codes more hoops and know less about what information others have on us.
At one point we were all told don’t write any passwords down. Now it’s probably safer than storing them with a company online as we do. A burglar isn’t going to be able to work out your laptop password and have the time steal all your codes written in your diary.

I have everything face ID’d now. I don’t even know my passwords, I get access to my bank app through my face.

Owly11 · 01/02/2026 09:10

TheGoddessAthena · 01/02/2026 09:04

The scammers are either trying to make a payment from the OP's account or log into her account. After going through their spiel about securing the account and suspicious transaction, they say they are sending her a "reset code" but it's actually a one time passcode to authorise the payment. OP gave them the number, payment goes through.

I do have sympathy for people who lose money but also don't think that banks should always be refunding no questions asked. One time passcodes always have a clear warning that they are never to be shared. When I make any payment from my account I have to read a page saying that I know the person or are buying goods or services. Personal responsibility has to factor in too.

Yes but to set up the payment they would need to be in her account and they would need her user name and PIN number for that.

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:10

TheGoddessAthena · 01/02/2026 09:04

The scammers are either trying to make a payment from the OP's account or log into her account. After going through their spiel about securing the account and suspicious transaction, they say they are sending her a "reset code" but it's actually a one time passcode to authorise the payment. OP gave them the number, payment goes through.

I do have sympathy for people who lose money but also don't think that banks should always be refunding no questions asked. One time passcodes always have a clear warning that they are never to be shared. When I make any payment from my account I have to read a page saying that I know the person or are buying goods or services. Personal responsibility has to factor in too.

Yes, I called hours later and they transferred me to the fraud dept

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busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:10

Beachtastic · 01/02/2026 09:05

So sorry you've experienced this, OP. Please don't beat yourself up about being a mug - there's a series of Radio 4 programmes discussing exactly this sort of scam, and interviewing people who have fallen victim to it. None of them are daft, many of them would naturally be wary but were distracted by other things at the time of the call. The criminals are increasingly sophisticated and precisely mirror bank processes, such as the familiar script.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/m002h2gt

It's not quite true to say the victims weren't daft, the one with the couple and the collections is jaw dropping in its daftness

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:11

TheGoddessAthena · 01/02/2026 09:04

The scammers are either trying to make a payment from the OP's account or log into her account. After going through their spiel about securing the account and suspicious transaction, they say they are sending her a "reset code" but it's actually a one time passcode to authorise the payment. OP gave them the number, payment goes through.

I do have sympathy for people who lose money but also don't think that banks should always be refunding no questions asked. One time passcodes always have a clear warning that they are never to be shared. When I make any payment from my account I have to read a page saying that I know the person or are buying goods or services. Personal responsibility has to factor in too.

I didn't receive the OTP so I didn't receive any warning of what it was or not to share it. The scammer received the OTP and gave me a false explanation

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dawngreen · 01/02/2026 09:12

Watch scammers payback it shows these scams all from dodgy call centres.

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 09:12

I got scammed in a fucking car park. It was cashless and someone had put a fake QR code on the information board. I thought I was paying for two hours' parking. Turns out I was setting up a subscription to a fake company

I've read about that. Also QR codes on pub tables (especially outdoor ones). You think you're ordering food and find that you've signed up for something you don't want. You need to look carefully at the QR code itself (is it plastic or laminated or just a sticker?) and at the website it takes you to.

I had something similar in a car park (not a QR code, it was a parking app). What alerted me was the site asked for my credit card before taking my car registration. I thought that was a bit odd so I cancelled out and started again a bit more carefully.

Venicelagoon · 01/02/2026 09:12

Banks often wont refund on scams under £100 but you should pursue this. Be pleasant but bring into conversation their Financial governing authorities. Ombudsman ?

Grammarnut · 01/02/2026 09:13

BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:58

They had my basic info and ran a list of 'fake' transactions by me which I obviously didn't recognise. Then said he was from the fraud team and would open an investigation. He said the scammer had gained access to my online and mobile accounts so he would need to freeze the accounts and re-verify my details as the correct details for the account. He told me he would never ask for my personal information (the spiel) but asked for account number etc to 'verify' the account.

At this stage I was out with my kids and frazzled and distracted so just wanted to give the bank what they needed to resolve the issue. I suppose a part of me did sense a red flag but I didn't want to lose time by hanging up and verifying. Which was a mistake but the combination of authenticity and urgency was very effective.

I gave him the details and he gave me a code that he said was my verification code for mobile banking, to ensure mine was the only number on the account. I then got a call from my actual bank and gave this code (I didn't realise this was a payment authorisation code).

The scammer then said that, due to my phone number being verified on the account, I would now start to receive payment notifications that the scammers had attempted, but not to worry as these were delayed and had already been blocked. He also told me to delete my online banking app until the fraud investigation was through.

Multiple payment notifications then came up and it was only later when I had time to think that I rang my actual bank. Heart dropped to the fucking floor.

It's obvious looking back but at the time it all seemed believable.

My bank never rings me. If the fraud department phoned I would assume it was a scam and phone my bank. That banks do not make unsoliciited calls to customers is all over (the few) branches that exist. Please, please don't fall for these people, they are very clever but just bear in mind: your bank will not make you unsolicited calls, if you get one, call your bank at once (there is a general fraud line), and part with no info.
So sorry this happened to you. I had a near miss with a text that purported to come from the NHS. A friend was present and said they thought I had been scammed and I at once phoned my bank and cancelled all my cards. Very, very lucky!

123123again · 01/02/2026 09:14

Owly11 · 01/02/2026 09:10

Yes but to set up the payment they would need to be in her account and they would need her user name and PIN number for that.

No they never went “into” her account.

They set up a payment page based on the info she gave them and the Op authorised the payment.

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:15

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:11

I didn't receive the OTP so I didn't receive any warning of what it was or not to share it. The scammer received the OTP and gave me a false explanation

I think that's the bit that is difficult to work out, if they were able to get the OTP why weren't they able to give it to the bank.

It would be really useful to know which bank it is, any account I've used sends the OTP to your mobile so how did the scammers receive it? If they somehow changed the phone number on your account then they could speak to the bank themselves

mydogisthebest · 01/02/2026 09:16

cantankerousoldcrone · 01/02/2026 05:17

What on earth does this mean? Why did someone answer their phone when it rang?

I don't answer my phone to numbers I don't know. If it is important they will leave a message. I often check a number online that has rung me and it almost always comes up that it is a known scammer

Boutonnière · 01/02/2026 09:17

KitsyWitsy · 01/02/2026 08:48

A good policy is not to answer the phone to unknown numbers. iPhones will screen calls for you too. There’s no need to answer. This could have been avoided. No scammers ever even manage to communicate at all with me.

Both my doctors’s surgery and the hospital ring from number withheld or, as happened recently, an unknown number. They say it is to protect my privacy in case someone could see my screen - though if someone was in a relationship where they didn’t want it known they were being contacted, they could save the number as something else. Inconvenience of the many to protect a theoretical unknown few.

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:17

Grammarnut · 01/02/2026 09:13

My bank never rings me. If the fraud department phoned I would assume it was a scam and phone my bank. That banks do not make unsoliciited calls to customers is all over (the few) branches that exist. Please, please don't fall for these people, they are very clever but just bear in mind: your bank will not make you unsolicited calls, if you get one, call your bank at once (there is a general fraud line), and part with no info.
So sorry this happened to you. I had a near miss with a text that purported to come from the NHS. A friend was present and said they thought I had been scammed and I at once phoned my bank and cancelled all my cards. Very, very lucky!

Edited

What do you mean by your bank never rings you?

How do you know there is no circumstance in which they wouldn't call you? It's not like they're in the habit of making social chit chat calls randomly to the rest of us.

Beachtastic · 01/02/2026 09:18

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:10

It's not quite true to say the victims weren't daft, the one with the couple and the collections is jaw dropping in its daftness

I haven't heard them all! But the ones I've listened to while driving on long journeys very much covered the scenario OP is describing.

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 09:18

Grammarnut · 01/02/2026 09:13

My bank never rings me. If the fraud department phoned I would assume it was a scam and phone my bank. That banks do not make unsoliciited calls to customers is all over (the few) branches that exist. Please, please don't fall for these people, they are very clever but just bear in mind: your bank will not make you unsolicited calls, if you get one, call your bank at once (there is a general fraud line), and part with no info.
So sorry this happened to you. I had a near miss with a text that purported to come from the NHS. A friend was present and said they thought I had been scammed and I at once phoned my bank and cancelled all my cards. Very, very lucky!

Edited

Don't be silly.

Banks fraud departments absolutely WILL phone you if they have concerns about your account - as many PPs have attested on this thread.

What they WON'T do is ask you your accno & sort code. Or your pin. They might take you through security but that would only involve giving one or two characters from your password/pin.

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:20

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:15

I think that's the bit that is difficult to work out, if they were able to get the OTP why weren't they able to give it to the bank.

It would be really useful to know which bank it is, any account I've used sends the OTP to your mobile so how did the scammers receive it? If they somehow changed the phone number on your account then they could speak to the bank themselves

Yes I have no idea. The only thing I can think is that my number was on the account so they needed me to authorise it for 2 factor ID. I don't know how they got the OTP and not me but I had no notification other than the automated call asking me to key it in. When I called the fraud dept they said it sounded very involved and higher-level than usual. The fraud dept said the scammer had accessed my accounts and set up multiple payees and transfers. The account was then frozen when they tried to make other payments online.

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 01/02/2026 09:20

BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:49

@Elvisbaby321 so lucky you were with her and could stop it. I was with friends and family as well but no one realised it was a scam, it seemed so legitimate :(

That type of scam has been demonstrated more than once on TV progs. about them. It’s evidently well used.

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:21

Beachtastic · 01/02/2026 09:18

I haven't heard them all! But the ones I've listened to while driving on long journeys very much covered the scenario OP is describing.

It is a good series but it's not only about bank scams amd you do wonder about the peopele who fell for some of them

Monty34 · 01/02/2026 09:21

I do wish our Government would bring pressure to bear on the places where these scammers work from. In a variety of ways.
The biggest centre for financial scammers is India, and Pakistan.
To do nothing about it is scandalous. A political shrug of the shoulders. No. Visa restrictions, expectation they are closed down even ? Try a bit ?
Do some work those in charge.
This sort of theft makes me angry.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 01/02/2026 09:21

Parker231 · 01/02/2026 09:09

  • Contact Your Bank: Tell them immediately if you have paid money or shared details. Use the official number on the back of your card or 159.
  • Stop All Contact: If you are in direct contact with scammers, cease all communication instantly.
  • Secure Accounts: Change passwords for online banking and, if necessary, your email.
  • Report the Fraud: Report the incident to Action Fraud (online or 0300 123 2040) or Police Scotland on 101.

It's Report Fraud now, same phone number but not available in Scotland.

I can only think Report Fraud have closed the OP's case because the bank is still investigating or insufficient information was provided.

KitsyWitsy · 01/02/2026 09:21

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:08

No scammer has communicated with me either but it's not because I don't answer the phone, it's simply because they haven't rung me.

Your fiendishly clever phone refusing isn't necessarily the reason 😀

"fiendishly clever'? What are you on about. I just don't have the time or inclination to talk to people who probably want to scam me or sell me something or otherwise want to waste my time. I only answer known callers or will answer if the screening tells me it's someone I am expecting to hear from.

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:23

Never, EVER give out your information to ANYONE calling you. Say “thank you for letting me know”, look up their number and call them directly yourself. Real banks will ask for your postcode and letters/numbers from your security word. They never, EVER ask for your sort and account numbers. I thought everyone knew that by now tbh. I’m sorry about your money, OP.

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:23

I'm going to go into the bank on Monday and tell them to send the new card direct to the branch so I can pick it up there. That courier story is crazy, the lengths they will go

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Monty34 · 01/02/2026 09:24

Sadly all sorts of vulnerable people and less vulnerable get scammed. The elderly, the not so able.
I hate the people who do it. The misery they cause is criminal.

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