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Just got scammed out of almost 1k

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BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:41

Please be so careful of phone calls from your bank. Always call them back, as caller ID can be faked. My actual bank said they had never seen this scam. They duplicated everything, all the spiels, the robot connecting voice, the hold music.

Second month of being paid after 5 months of no income. Back to nothing again. FFS.

OP posts:
VanCleefArpels · 01/02/2026 07:47

suki1964 · 01/02/2026 01:14

Never call the caller, they have cloned the number and it will direct you straight back to them

If you are called from "the bank, HMRC etc " you look the number up and ring that, preferably from another number

@BonneMamanAbricot , sorry this has happened to you, your bank should reimburse you pretty quickly

You misunderstood my comment - I meant call the actual organisation the scammer says they are from

greengreengrass3 · 01/02/2026 07:48

I used to work in fraud and this was one of the main frauds that we dealt with several times a day.
it’s likely you’ve received in previous days/ weeks a phishing email or text, that you’ve believed to be genuine. You’d have clicked on a link and started to give critical personal information that enables the scammer to start that phone call with you.

I’m so surprised the bank said they’d never heard of it!

My simple advice would be, if your bank calls, you end the call with them immediately and call your bank yourself to check the call was legitimate. You call your bank from a different phone and dialling 159, you also never answer any security questions unless you call a company never if they call you.

Sophomore · 01/02/2026 07:49

AncientMoo · 01/02/2026 06:56

The narrative about it being "a new scam" and the money being irretrievable sounds dicey to me. Are you 100% sure you were talking to your bank. I only say as I've heard of 2 cases lately where calls made to a legitimate number from the bank's website were intercepted (by staying on the line or some other means). OP suggest you talk to the bank again on a different number to secure your account.

I work in business finance and it's not true that banks never call you, Santander in particular do it all the time. These sort of scams are ever so common and easy to fall for.

Yes, agree with this. I was nearly scammed just before Christmas- fell for a delivery charge scam but realised immediately and was able to cancel my card before anything was taken. I then had two further scam attempts, both pretending to be my bank’s security following up in relation to the first scam (luckily I didn’t fall for these). So do be aware that this is time at which you are vulnerable and ma be targeted again.

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Fizbosshoes · 01/02/2026 07:50

My bank did actually call me about 10 years ago, but I never want to speak on the phone as im suspicious its a scam. My card stopped working so I went into the branch to sort it out and they said they called....and I said but I thought it might be a scam! They had stopped th3 card because my spending patterns seemed suspicious (all the transactions were my own!)

But now there wouldnt be a branch to go and ask.

Barrenfieldoffucks · 01/02/2026 07:53

Did they spend the money or transfer it? Not sure from your description.

I had a very similar scam attempted on me last year, they're very convincing. But the OTP should have been the clue.

Namingbaba · 01/02/2026 07:54

I think asking for the confirmation code should hopefully be a red flag for most as quite often there’s a warning with it about not giving it out.

I think scammers can be so clever now so everyone should be careful. Like others say if you wish to be really careful then you call the bank back on a different phone in case the scammers are still on the line and pretend to be the bank again.

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 01/02/2026 07:56

I’ve had where they have called from a number that when you google it comes up as my banks number
I just played along and told them the authorisation code was fuck off

DeftGoldHedgehog · 01/02/2026 07:57

pinkstripeycat · 01/02/2026 00:15

This scam is shown all the time on BBC Scam Intercepters.

If your account has been compromised the bank would never call you. They’d fix it and refund as it would be their error.

They used to though. I had a legitimate call like that from Barclays in the 2010s. People don't have much contact with their banks these days and probably assume they still do it that way.

dawngreen · 01/02/2026 07:58

Watch Scammers Payback on Youtube it shows you what scams they use. Never give personnel details on the phone, and always ring your bank back using the number on your card. And never let any one install stuff on your pc.

Wolmando · 01/02/2026 08:00

Ginnyweasleyswand · 01/02/2026 01:55

It makes you wonder how many elderly people are losing hundreds of thousands to this sort of theft and nothing is done. Would the bank have stepped in if OP hadn't realised? They don't seem to care much, do they?

Adults between 18 and 34 are most likely to be scammed by bank frauds, the elderly lose more but young people are more likely to be victims of scams

DeftGoldHedgehog · 01/02/2026 08:01

The bank should give you the money, OP. The scammers have exploited and mimiced the bank's systems to defraud you and the bank.

MotherofPufflings · 01/02/2026 08:01

pouletvous · 01/02/2026 07:28

sorry OP but if my bank called snd asked me
to manually transfer £1k i wouldnt do it

why did you think it was genuine?

Read the OP again. That's not what happened.

mumandgran24 · 01/02/2026 08:02

VanCleefArpels · 31/01/2026 23:52

What was the reason they gave for you to move money out of your account?

You've learned the hard way that any unexpected contact by the bank, HMRC etc should be met with “I can’t talk right now I’ll call you back”, and then call the “caller” to check if it’s actually them.

Also be careful calling back as I read somewhere on a landline they can keep the line open and make it seem you are calling your bank but it’s still them.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 01/02/2026 08:03

Sophomore · 01/02/2026 07:49

Yes, agree with this. I was nearly scammed just before Christmas- fell for a delivery charge scam but realised immediately and was able to cancel my card before anything was taken. I then had two further scam attempts, both pretending to be my bank’s security following up in relation to the first scam (luckily I didn’t fall for these). So do be aware that this is time at which you are vulnerable and ma be targeted again.

I thought a delivery charge was a scam but it was real, from UPS. Their systems are so weird that everything about it said scam to me. Anyway, I didn't want the item if it was going to cost me over £50 to receive it!

itsthetea · 01/02/2026 08:04

mumandgran24 · 01/02/2026 08:02

Also be careful calling back as I read somewhere on a landline they can keep the line open and make it seem you are calling your bank but it’s still them.

Ideally call from another phone or call a friend first to make sure it’s your line

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 08:06

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 01/02/2026 01:37

That's what their plan was .
Luckily DH twigged they were not disconnecting the call and when he called back , same man "Hello this is xyz Bank" you think you have called them and they get all the details they need .

There were things the first caller said that rang alarm bells .

When he did phone the bank -the real bank- he used another phone . We still had landline back then and mobile .

Sorry, I’m really not understanding this; neither the Op’s original post or yours. I’d be really grateful if you could clarify because this is giving me anxiety:

I don’t understand the bank account and sort code/verification bits of op’s original post. I could give my sort code/bank acc number to anyone. It doesn’t mean they can transfer money from my account. If somebody called me, asking me to verify myself I’d be wanting verification of who they were so I’d call the bank’s official number. This leads me to panic slightly about your husband’s scenario:

In your post I’m not understanding the call back issue. Are you saying the scammers can somehow redirect your next call back to them or that your husband pressed redial?

I hope I’m not coming across as difficult, I just think it’s really important to a absolutely clarify this in order to raise awareness without inducing anxiety. Thanks

PrettyDamnCosmic · 01/02/2026 08:09

SweetnsourNZ · 01/02/2026 02:23

Unfortunately as OP gave out her account number the bank is probably in the right. If the scammer had known her name and account number it would be more likely to be a security breach on the banks side and OP would be entitled to a refund.

Edited

I don't know about NZ but here in the UK your bank account number & sort code is not a secret as it is printed on every cheque.

The OP is entitled to a refund because that's what the banking code of practice says should happen. The onus is on banks to actively prevent fraud & protect vulnerable customers. The code has been toughened up to explicitly cover Authorised Push Payment (APP) scams where the victim is duped into sending money to the scammer.

www.psr.org.uk/information-for-consumers/app-fraud-reimbursement-protections/

Youdontseehow · 01/02/2026 08:13

“The narrative about “your bank will never call you” is half the sentence. Your bank will never call you to ask for a OTP, PIN, password etc.”

@NorthSouthEast exactly what I’ve been thinking as I read through numerous posts saying banks never call you.

If course your bank may call you but they’ll never ask for critical information like passwords/passwords codes.

@BonneMamanAbricot I hope you get your money back. I am always saying to DH, it’s a case of “when not if” one of us gets scammed. The criminals are always one step ahead of everyone else.

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 08:15

JennyWren5 · 01/02/2026 00:27

The most important thing to remember is your bank will never, ever call you. Ever.

If someone calls you and says they’re from your bank, please tell them you are busy and will call them back. And then ring your bank on their official number - which will be on the back of your bank card or on your banking app screen.

Please remember this and tell this to everyone you know.

There are loads of other scams, of course, but this is still important to remember as it’s unfortunately still quite a popular and effective scam.

The most important thing to remember is your bank will never, ever call you. Ever.

This is not true.

The fraud team absolutely WILL call you if they have concerns about transactions going through an account you manage.

However, they won't ask you to tell them details about the account (they may go through security, but don't forget that's only one or two characters from your password).

More importantly, those OTPs (what op called a "verification code") come with explicit warnings NOT to share them with anyone.

@BonneMamanAbricot I agree with others that the bank should reimburse you. Didn't you get a text or an email telling you that changes had been made to your account?

LittleDaisyDot · 01/02/2026 08:15

Keepoffmyartichokes · 01/02/2026 07:33

Well you're a treat! I work in a bank and yes while some scams seem obvious to people on the outside, in that moment to the customer they are not. The scammers rely on panicking people, then rushing them so they make mistakes. They call with the number showing as your banks number, they will quite often have an accent local to where the banks call centre is based. People are naive, yes, but they do no deserve to lose their money to these criminals for being naive. I'm not sure why you think our taxes will pay for this, it's nothing to do with tax. The banks pay for the fraud out of their profits this is why they spend millions on fraud systems.

That's why I said via taxes OR FEES. Either way citizens with common sense end up paying for stupidity..

LittleDaisyDot · 01/02/2026 08:16

daisychain01 · 01/02/2026 07:30

Here speaks the milk of human kindness.

Or just common sense. Seriously when did we start making excuses for plain idiocy.

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pinkswirl · 01/02/2026 08:17

Sorry you have gone through this and thanks for warning others.

As others have said, it definitely isn’t new as I had a similar call a couple of years ago. They sounded very professional and they also called addressing me by my full name and also told me my address!

However a red flag appeared quickly because they were referring to an account where I wasn’t the account holder. I kept listening and they changed from professional to extremely agitated when I said I wasn’t receiving the code they’d sent which could stop the transactions, and then hung up when they could see they weren’t getting anywhere!

I’d only made one online transaction using that card in the 6 months prior, to a genuine site which must have been compromised - in fact I thought it odd at the time that it hadn’t asked for an verification code.

GabriellaK · 01/02/2026 08:17

BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:41

Please be so careful of phone calls from your bank. Always call them back, as caller ID can be faked. My actual bank said they had never seen this scam. They duplicated everything, all the spiels, the robot connecting voice, the hold music.

Second month of being paid after 5 months of no income. Back to nothing again. FFS.

Calling the bank back is NOT the way to go.
Scammers set up a system where it looks as if you are calling your bank, but in fact the call is diverted to the scammer.
The only way is to go into a branch of the bank and not do anything based on a phone call.

dawngreen · 01/02/2026 08:18

They can buy info off dodgy data brokers too.

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