This is going to sound weird but it is seriously getting on my nerves and I don't really know what to do.
Let me just start by saying DH is great, works hard, shares the load (mostly), fantastic involved dad etc etc.
However, he does this one thing which is really pissing me off. When we are in bed asleep and he wants to touch me/put his arm around me/hug me etc (not for sex just for affection) he doesn't just put his hand on me, he sort of 'walks' his fingers over me to get where he wants to be and it creeps me out. I feel like he is some sort of sex pest trying to sneakily touch me instead of a loving husband. He only does it in the night and it's just weird. It makes me so angry. He did it this morning as he put his hand across my waist and I actually moved his hand away and said, 'Don't do the silly tickle thing..just put your hand there.' I think I have hurt his feelings now because I was pissed off and quite short.
It's such a daft thing but it makes me think of Jimmy Savile trying to touch up a young girl and now I've thought of that each time it gives me the ick and then if he does want to be intimate in the morning, I'm pissed off and icked but he doesn't understand why. I'm just not sure why he does it, if he thinks its all cute? But how do I have a conversation about something so daft?!