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Who's your rock/indie band crush?

109 replies

ArtfulLilacWriter · 30/12/2025 14:03

I've read threads on here about celebrity crushes and they're always the same, usually Harry Styles, Chris Hemsworth and the like. All of mine over the years, since I was like 10, have been a lot less well-known/obscure- nearly always members of rock or indie bands. Mine is currently another band member, band are from the NW. Who are yours? ☺️

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afaloren · 02/08/2026 18:06

Gerard Way from My Chemical Romance. Nobody comes close tbh.

StarCourt · 02/08/2026 18:06

Jane143 · 02/08/2026 17:41

David Coverdale from Whitesnake when he had loads of hair

I had a huge crush on him until I saw Whitesnake in concert. Got the ick

Wingwalk · 02/08/2026 18:08

Heyhelga · 30/12/2025 20:59

Isn't he just!

Just googled him, he looks alright tbf. He actually looks a bit like Julian Casablancas

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newmenewwhatever · 02/08/2026 18:11

Robert smith. I’ve always loved him.

Davros · 02/08/2026 18:13

QueefofSheena · 30/12/2025 14:19

Jean-Jacques Burnell

Oh yes, saw them many times late 70s. He seemed like a nice bloke too. I saw him fiddling with his motorbike outside the Nashville, I seem to remember him being nicknamed Harley John

mumisfull · 02/08/2026 18:25

Jarvis Cocker is always my number 1 but Brett Anderson is a close second. The charisma they both have is incredible

Quacking4it · 02/08/2026 18:28

Matt Bellamy and. Christ Wolstenholme from Muse, Jarvis, have always liked him!

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 02/08/2026 18:29

Eddie Vedder & Chris Cornell

Iamateadrinker · 02/08/2026 18:32

Seconded Michael Hutchence
New sensation video ..that "huh" after " there really is no difference"
Beautiful

Puppylucky · 02/08/2026 18:35

Davros · 02/08/2026 18:13

Oh yes, saw them many times late 70s. He seemed like a nice bloke too. I saw him fiddling with his motorbike outside the Nashville, I seem to remember him being nicknamed Harley John

I'm not sure anyone would describe J-J Burnell as a nice bloke! He was notoriously aggressive back in the day particularly towards female journalists.

zurigo · 02/08/2026 18:39

Robert Smith was gorgeous in the early 1980s, but he looks dreadful now, such a shame! Brandon Flowers, also gorgeous at one point, but has overdone the Botox and veneers now. John Taylor still looks pretty great though in a craggy sort of way.

ItReallyDoesntMatterAnymore · 02/08/2026 18:49

As a teen Axl Rose but he's not quite to my taste now. Recently found out my very first boyfriend (we were 15) is now the lead guitarist of a glam rock band that is rather big/known in my home country, he looks quite hot in all that eyeliner, tattoos and tight leather 😳 does that count a a crush?

SadiraOfTyr · 02/08/2026 18:49

James Dean Bradfield (Manic Street Preachers)
Gerard Way (My Chemical Romance)
Becky Baldwin (Mercyful Fate)

suburburban · 02/08/2026 18:53

I do quite like Jarvis Cocker and Alex from Artic monkeys

nourth · 02/08/2026 18:54

My best friend had a massive crush on a member of a successful Britpop band. Who would have known that he would have a child who would be in the same class as my oldest. I had always quite liked him, but not once I got to know him - he is so miserable. However, our DCs were friends and would invite each other to parties. She used to travel from South Wales to London every year for Dc1s birthday (never for my younger kids!) and would often happen to come on the weekends of our school summer fair. Eventually she realised that the real man and her fantasy version were very different. I still see him and his wife about and he’s still a miserable sod!

ConnieHeart · 02/08/2026 19:36

@nourthplease name him!

BoarBrush · 02/08/2026 20:13

It was always Bert McCracken from my favourite band. In person meets have kinda tampered that sadly.

Cheesehound · 02/08/2026 20:14

Daniel Johns from Silverchair - back in the early 00s

MrsApplepants · 02/08/2026 20:18

Eddie Vedder. Loved him since 1992

MrsBucketHat · 02/08/2026 20:23

TheWelshposter · 02/08/2026 17:55

Damon Albarn in the 90s was something else. Still a cheeky chappy.

Yep! And Alex James same era. I’d also
like 2013 Alex Turner please!

BoarBrush · 02/08/2026 20:28

Cheesehound · 02/08/2026 20:14

Daniel Johns from Silverchair - back in the early 00s

Ah no, he has weird turkey teeth now. 20 years ago, yes.

malloryknox123 · 02/08/2026 20:32

Brett Anderson back in his Suede heyday.

now he looks like the subject of some true crime documentary sadly

HernameisRio80s · 02/08/2026 20:36

Tim Burgess from The Charlatans. Then and now!

MrsEndeavourMorse · 02/08/2026 20:42

I was in love with Albert Hammond Jr from The Strokes. Also Howlin' Pelle Almqvist from The Hives when he had dark hair

Devilsmommy · 02/08/2026 20:51

I used to love Phil Anselmo from Pantera. Also had a thing for Jared Leto until I read about all the rumours about his creep vibes with young girls