DH and I have dc, youngest is 8mo. I have done every night feed ever and the days where dh wakes up super early, it’s always me that’s gotten up with them. Always. Db for months now has always slept until 7/8am. Not today. They woke up at 5am, had a bottle and was very sick everywhere. Which I cleaned up. Anyway it was abundantly clear that db was not going back to sleep. They’re wide awake. I am ashamed to say I cried a bit, dh asked what was wrong and I said I’m just exhausted, cue dh staring off into space like he’s hard done by. I said what should I do (to prompt him to do something for once) and dh said put the baby in the cot which is what he’d have done if I asked him to do something. For what? To hear them cry and then get up? I’m so fed up of it. He will now be grumpy when he wakes up and honestly I just feel so upset right now. Probably because of the last 8 months of always me losing sleep. But it’s Christmas Eve, and older dc are excited so I don’t want to ruin it for them. What do I do? Do I tell dh how I feel when he gets up or ignore and pretend everything is fine for the sake of Christmas Eve? FWIW lately I’ve had 0 time to relax, even in the evening. When db went to sleep last night I did housework before falling into bed.