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Single parents of babies/little ones - what do you wish you'd known/ what tips do you have?

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SarahAndQuack · 08/12/2025 13:05

I'm a single mum to my eight-year-old DD, but I was with her mother until she was 6, so I've never done the baby bit on my own. I'm expecting a baby in June.

If you were a single mother with a baby, what would your tips be? What things do you wish you'd known, or done differently?

TIA!

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BlossomMills · 01/04/2026 21:41

Latenightreader · 08/12/2025 18:19

Have at least two water bottles with you at all times, particularly when you sit to feed (if you bf). The thirst is unreal. I remember crying because my mum brought me a small glass when I wanted at least a pint.

Snacks too. I kept a biscuit tin of crackers, club biscuits, and dried fruit next to the bed and the same by the sofa.

Fill the freezer with food, have tins of soup/beans in the cupboard. Easy stuff you can stick in the microwave. Don't be afraid to put a crying baby in the cot and go and eat. I had to do this a couple of times and it was horrible but I coupld cope better once I'd eaten.

People say to sleep when the baby sleeps. I say do something to make you feel human when the baby sleeps. Read a book, take a shower, have a sleep, eat with two hands - just something to make you feel like you again.

Good luck! You'll find your path on your own.

This is a great advice, taking this on board

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