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The CF neighbour caught bang to rights!

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Patiencerunningthin · 04/12/2025 16:37

I love a CF thread on mumsnet and am delighted to offer a tale today. Was expecting a parcel today and had to go out about 10 mins before end of delivery window. Knowing this was the case I’d updated the delivery app with a safe place alternative.
Return home and no sign of parcel or delivery card. Normal post has been. Check Ring doorbell and no sign of parcel delivery.
Delivery app is reporting successful delivery and on further investigation I recognise my next door neighbour in her pjs taking the parcel which clearly has my address on.
Son pops around to claim it and she denies any parcel was delivered “Nothing has come here today”. She even had him checking over their fence in case it had been dropped over the side.
Confused, I check the app again. It’s definitely her.
I return next door to investigate further. They’ll have seen me approach the house and come up the path. I can hear them inside but no one is answering the door. A few rings of the bell later and knocks of the door and she arrives all surprised. Same script again “No, nothing here”.
I show the picture and observe that whilst there isn’t a headshot it is a remarkable resemblance of her redeeming features. I also reflect that she seems to be wearing the same pj bottoms, stained t shirt and slippers. It also looks very similar to their carpet and doorframe. She agrees it’s a co-incidence.
She quizzes what time was it allegedly delivered, what was in it, am I sure it’s been delivered.
She then remembers they’d had parcels delivered and the picture is her holding one of her parcels. I zoom in and point out it has my name and address and the product brand all over the box.
She then recalls a further hazy memory from a whole 60 mins since the delivery occurred. Tells me to wait and shuts the door in my face.
She comes back with a ripped box with packaging trailing out (she’d have gotten away with blaming the dog), and expensive decent brand moisturiser in the other hand.
“Is this it? I thought it was mine. I’ve ordered some”.
I pointed out it had my name on, it had the brand all over the box, and it’s a man’s product.
She had no response, no apology, just silence.
It’s my husband’s birthday gift from his mum so I was initially a bit annoyed but I walked back in and couldn’t stop laughing with my 14 year old son.
It’s been a very entertaining story in the family WhatsApp this afternoon.
There was a reason I didn’t suggest the neighbour as an alternative recipient to take the parcel in.

OP posts:
FuzzyWolf · 04/12/2025 16:45

How satisfying to have had such conclusive evidence!

Hopefully some of her deliveries will end up at your house and then you can be just as obstructive.

ImThePr0blem · 04/12/2025 16:48

Cheeky fucker. I’d be making that woman’s life living hell.

Geneticsbunny · 04/12/2025 16:53

That's theft! What an awful person.

Dollymylove · 04/12/2025 17:00

I would be encouraging my dog to take a large steaming dump on her doorstep

gggrrrargh · 04/12/2025 17:03

Glad you got it back but she’s a thief rather than a CF!

RachelFanshawe · 04/12/2025 17:04

ImThePr0blem · 04/12/2025 16:48

Cheeky fucker. I’d be making that woman’s life living hell.

Me too. No mercy for thieves. Making her life miserable would be my priority from now on.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 04/12/2025 17:07

Nah! That’s not a CF (although satisfying so thank you for sharing!). She’s a thief!

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 04/12/2025 17:12

Wonderful! It's amazing how many people don't seem to realise that parcels are tracked extensively, photos taken, video footage obtained etc.

I think some of them are so blatant and thick that they would deny to a judge until they were blue in the face that they hadn't stolen an item as accused, and in fact had never even seen the item; even if they were standing right there with it in their hands!!

Velveletteslonleylonelygirlami · 04/12/2025 17:13

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 04/12/2025 17:07

Nah! That’s not a CF (although satisfying so thank you for sharing!). She’s a thief!

100% thief ,at least you know what she is.

EmeraldRoulette · 04/12/2025 17:17

Oh my God

I would've been furious

We've actually had similar in my building, but the person didn't open the parcel. It was weird because they initially denied having taken anything, but as soon as they saw the photograph showing their pyjama bottoms and slippers, they said "oh sorry I think I misunderstood" and just handed it over.

It is possible he was just being a bit dozy as he hadn't opened it. And knowing him, he was probably stoned!

That this lady has actually opened it - that's theft, isn't it?

CandyCaneKisses · 04/12/2025 17:18

Absolute tramps.

You’ll have to make sure you are always home or divert to a pick up location in future.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 04/12/2025 17:22

This isnt even cheeky fucker imo, shes a full on criminal!! 😄

Well done you for standing your ground

InSpainTheRain · 04/12/2025 17:23

It's a funny story - but honestly I don't think I'd be laughing. I'd be worried about the next parcel, but she isn't a CF she is actually a thief! I'd consider updating instructions to say "Only delivery to number x, do not hand to neighbour".

namechangedtemporarily123 · 04/12/2025 17:23

I had similar. Delivered to wrong address. By chance I recognised the front door while walking down the street. Knocked on the door, asked for package, she started acting all confused, blamed menopause, tried to call someone. I just waited and took none of her shit until she went upstairs and retrieved my opened parcel.

Itsnaptime · 04/12/2025 17:24

I do not get on with my neighbour at all so I always click on the bit where you can leave a message to the delivery driver saying under no circumstance to leave the parcel with a neighbour and it's safe place only

EmeraldRoulette · 04/12/2025 17:27

@namechangedtemporarily123 blamed menopause 😱😱😱

ldnmusic87 · 04/12/2025 17:28

What a thief, she didn't say anything?

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 04/12/2025 17:42

Itsnaptime · 04/12/2025 17:24

I do not get on with my neighbour at all so I always click on the bit where you can leave a message to the delivery driver saying under no circumstance to leave the parcel with a neighbour and it's safe place only

That doesn't always work.

I ordered a kitchen item, worth >£100, that was delivered in it's factory box clearly showing what it was. My instruction to deliver to a trusted neighbour if I was out was ignored, it was left on my doorstep in full view of passing thieves.

I had a month-long struggle to get a refund as the company considered that leaving it on the doorstep constituted "delivery". I had to resort to Chargeback.

myhaggisblewup · 04/12/2025 17:43

My elderly neighbour, [a controling, sneaky and nosy git to boot no dementia obvious]. took in a small parcel for me, it was medication which had to be signed for.
I received the card and went round to see him, told him it had just been delivered to him 10 muniutes previous and I had seen the postman drive off, we live down a short lane. Nosy said he had put it away in a safe place but couldn't remember where, he's had it for 10 MINUTES! I stood on the doorstep in drizzle while he ambled around looking for it over several minutes, he came back to say I'll have to find it later. I said not to worry, I'd contact the pharmacy and explain to them so the could send some more.
Had just shut my door when he knocked the door having found it on the hall table! He has form for behaving like this as a 'nice old man' but he can be a conniving git, peeps around front door when I'm in the garden and pretends he's frail but can certainly move quickly if it starts raining and his washing is getting wet. He is the gift that keeps on giving on a daily basis, he was apparently a regular cf with previous people who lived here too. They actually wished us good luck with him, after we exchanged.😁

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 04/12/2025 17:44

Thieving get! I had similar a few years ago. Dd had ordered quite a few things for her holiday. Confusingly there's 3 number 5s in our street. (Us, 5a and flat 5) Message to say its been delivered but flat 5(scuzzy druggie pair) so I go with her
. "Hi can I have my parcel please? Its been delivered here"
"No its not"
"Yes here's your doorway, here's your post on the doormat. Here's your feet. Oh look"points behind him "there's my parcel" can hear his gf (who'd been to school with dd) Don't give it em Dave. Fucking stuck up cow" at this point I wander into view. He shamefacedly gave dd his parcel.
They got evicted the following week.

Itsnaptime · 04/12/2025 17:50

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 04/12/2025 17:42

That doesn't always work.

I ordered a kitchen item, worth >£100, that was delivered in it's factory box clearly showing what it was. My instruction to deliver to a trusted neighbour if I was out was ignored, it was left on my doorstep in full view of passing thieves.

I had a month-long struggle to get a refund as the company considered that leaving it on the doorstep constituted "delivery". I had to resort to Chargeback.

Oh gosh!! I've luckily not had that. I just can't believe the CFery of some people

Patiencerunningthin · 04/12/2025 17:57

You are all correct. I’ve just delivered the story to my husband as he got in from work. My son said “What a little thief”!
It’s an odd set up next door and there have been a number of odd bumps over the 18 years we’ve lived here. We’ve taken a humorous approach to the escapades as they are much more entertaining to us than they realise or intend. We might have some in house nicknames for them 🤣
There’s an older person who lives there whose house it is. She’d be mortified about what happened.
I thought we had the delivery preferences set but I’ll make sure to leave a note not to deliver there- although I’ve regularly turned up to a delivery just left on full view on the doorstep so I reckon most of the time they fire them out of the van!

OP posts:
MO0N · 04/12/2025 18:03

I would def' wonder what other dodgy things were going on if someone tried to steal my mail like that!

Cyclistmumgrandma · 04/12/2025 18:05

Had a parcel delivered to my house. It had someone else's name on it but had my address. I didn't recognise the name so I carefully opened it. Not something I had ordered so I took a photo and posted it on the local village facebook page. Yes I did find the intended recipient and handed it over.

NSA2103 · 04/12/2025 22:51

About 20 years ago, I had a Fortnum & Mason hamper delivered by mistake to me - different name, but my address. I rang F&M up and explained. They wanted to send a courier to pick it up, I said "don't be daft, give me the right address, and I'll deliver it myself" (a few doors down the street - think 204, not 224). I did this, saving them hassle and cost.

F&M sent me beautiful box of chocolates to say thank you. Class.

I teach my kids: one good deed every day.

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