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Do your DC do a gazillion extra curricular activities because they want to, or because there's peer pressure to do them, or because you want them to?

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OvenChick · 15/11/2025 21:01

It's said a lot on here that children now do so many extra clubs and have hardly any down time. I want to understand a bit more about this now, as I have a baby and am thinking ahead to primary school years.

Is it just that it's the norm for children to do so many extra curricular activities and therefore kids would be weird for not doing them? Or is it that parents are encouraging them? Or is it something else?

(I went to Brownies and then Guides...that was it! Mid nineties to mid noughties. And even then I often wished I could just stay at home).

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Urmam · 16/11/2025 21:50

OvenChick · 16/11/2025 21:05

The more I read peoples' replies the more I realise I feel anxious about my DC doing load of clubs because I wouldn't personally want to do them. 🤣 This thread has worked like psychotherapy.

It's a fair observation!
I am far more introverted that DD and have lower energy and I find her endless pursuit of activity and company hard to manage (even as the taxi driver!). But it makes her happy and so I am led by her.

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