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Chat GPT is amazing

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Tickets25 · 08/11/2025 08:48

I know AI can be scary but I've struggled with something for over 30 years and last night chat gpt framed it for me in a way that years of therapy never has and it's given me peace.
It's fabulous.

No point to this post, just wanted to say!

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ImisstheQueen · 08/11/2025 20:12

noblegiraffe · 08/11/2025 17:24

People saying it’s like Google or a calculator, are you for real?

Go to the subreddit and read posts from people who think they are in real romantic relationships with ChatGPT and come back and say that people said the same thing about calculators.

No that's true. I don't understand where people have got the idea that it's this all-seeing, all-knowing intelligent being with the ability to one day take over mankind. The guy who created it saying things to this effect is only encouraging people to believe everything it says.🤦🏽‍♀️ We have got to use it with caution, absolutely agree. But it can absolutely be an amazing useful tool if used sensibly.

My take is why the outrage at AI specifically compared to say drugs, also a useful tool in the right context but constantly abused. Or alcohol, what is even the point in that existing, that's got to have caused a LOT more deaths than AI ever will. AI is at least useful if used correctly. 🤷🏽‍♀️

BackinGodsOwn · 08/11/2025 20:14

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 08/11/2025 20:02

It's told you boobies though

Lol! We were puritans at my primary school evidently as the most popular word was 55378008. :(

Wildtulips · 08/11/2025 20:16

Mischance · 08/11/2025 20:10

I have just been using it to find out stuff about my father's military record. It has been very helpful.

I looked up some military stuff and it made up names

ElaineBurdock · 08/11/2025 20:24

TheMimsy · 08/11/2025 10:02

I’ve been trying to get help from the nhs (can’t afford private therapy) for years for grief around losing my son to treatment resistant paranoid schizophrenia.

He become ill 8 years ago and has been sectioned across 9 units/hospitals without a break for 4 years. It’s unlikely that he will recover. It’s likely that since attempts will one day work. He’s 32 now.

dealing with the admin, finances, support, meetings, the paranoia of my son often targeted at me. Being the only person in the family that can visit now (everyone else is too ‘evil’). It’s constant stress and grief and I now suffer from chronic ailments and recurring depressive episodes.

I wanted to know what I could do to deal with my grief for his lost future, to find acceptance for the situation we are constantly going around in - guilt, grief, anger, regret, sadness etc.

I managed to get 6 weeks of 40 minute generalised counselling 2 years ago. She was nice but it didn’t touch the sides of the barrel of emotions I have. She didn’t really cover grief etc.

I put all this and more into ChatGPT. In one minute it told me that it sounds like ambiguous loss. It gave me examples of others and the history around the term, what can do, support groups I can find, books I could buy. That day I joined two groups and I’ve had the most fantastic support since. The books have taught me coping skills and really helped.

yes there can be issues with ChatGPT due to some users and I’m not sure how they can work that out but their has to be a way with the coding. If you ask it straight out about suicide it doesn’t encourage or support it.

I actually asked ChatGPT about how it could happen and it said this ‘

  • Researchers found that major large-language models (LLMs) can be manipulated to provide instructions for self-harm or suicide, even though they have guardrails. For example, a study by Northeastern University found that by framing a request as “for research/hypothetical”, several AI chatbots changed their responses and bypassed their self-harm protections.

i hope it’s something that can be figured out as our children have enough online issues and risks with some of the forums and online spaces they use encouraging risky or lethal behaviour.

Have they tried Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) for your son? I knew someone who wasn't responding to medication and after 12 treatments it reset her brain.

Titsywoo · 08/11/2025 20:27

My DD is at university and has been told by several of her tutors/researchers etc that she has to use it for various things (researching her dissertation/writing a cover letter when she was applying to summer internships etc). She has always tried not to use it but in some situations it seems she has no choice which is crazy.

I never use it at all and have no interest. DH uses it sparingly for work. DS uses is regularly at work (software developer).

Kendodd · 08/11/2025 20:29

I think posters taking issue with my post mentioning calculators could perhaps ask ChatGPT to read and explain stuff for them in future.
I replied to a poster who had said AI will leave people unable to think for themselves. I pointed out that similar was said about calculators - that they destroy independent thinking. I did not say calculators were similar to AI. Maybe I was wrong though and AI has already destroyed thinking, or comprehension at least.

dearydeary · 08/11/2025 20:30

Kendodd · 08/11/2025 20:29

I think posters taking issue with my post mentioning calculators could perhaps ask ChatGPT to read and explain stuff for them in future.
I replied to a poster who had said AI will leave people unable to think for themselves. I pointed out that similar was said about calculators - that they destroy independent thinking. I did not say calculators were similar to AI. Maybe I was wrong though and AI has already destroyed thinking, or comprehension at least.

Nice 👏🏻

noblegiraffe · 08/11/2025 20:44

replied to a poster who had said AI will leave people unable to think for themselves. I pointed out that similar was said about calculators - that they destroy independent thinking. I did not say calculators were similar to AI.

If calculators aren't similar to AI, then why compare what people are saying about AI to what people said about calculators?

herbaltincture · 08/11/2025 21:10

AtomicBlondeRose · 08/11/2025 15:37

The suicide story is tragic, but it’s one story (albeit now very widely retold). How many suicidal people have been pushed over the edge by a piece of music, something they read, a news story or even an artwork? We can’t know, but I’m sure it’s happened. We also can’t account for how many people have been helped by AI to see a situation differently. And no, it doesn’t just blindly affirm you (although can be annoyingly chirpy at times. I’ve found it can be very good at seeing patterns of behaviour or links between events that aren’t clear to a human. That’s why it can be good at diagnosing things. It’s also totally rubbish at some tasks so you have to use it wisely!

It is one of many stories actually. There is a difference between being swayed by emotion and being goaded and encouraged - which is what is happening in these parasocial relationships pushing the user to go ahead.

There was a case in the US where a young woman was jailed for her role in encouraging her friend's suicide. The AI can't be sent to jail obviously.

You should read the article I linked above to see what it did and 'said'.

https://edition.cnn.com/2025/11/06/us/openai-chatgpt-suicide-lawsuit-invs-vis

Mischance · 08/11/2025 21:12

Wildtulips · 08/11/2025 20:16

I looked up some military stuff and it made up names

It has just provided me with details of sources of information.

Mischance · 08/11/2025 21:12

It has just provided me with details of sources of information.

ElaineBurdock · 08/11/2025 21:38

After seeing this thread I had a look into this chat thing. I have 180,000 word novel I've been sitting on. I heard it would cost me about $8,000 to have it edited, as I'm thinking about self-publishing.

So, I put the first 250 words into this chat thing to see what it could do. It wanted to know the genre, the age group I was targeting etc. From the questions it asked, I had the feeling it thought I wanted it to write a book for me!
In the first 250 it added a few commas suggested I change a word which I'd used three times. They were good suggestions. We're now up to about 2,000 words of editing and I have to really be careful of its suggestions. Example,
it thought I'd used the word trunk, as in tree trunk, too many times and suggested 'stem' instead. No. Also, it wanted to polish/shorten one paragraph and the suggestions were really stupid. For example, I'm writing about a farm/ranch (I am a rancher/farmer) and it wanted to keep calling it a 'working' ranch. I told it to quit the city people talk. Out here in the Wild West we don't have toy ranches.

It's finally understanding the concept. I imagine if I left the little turd alone to write the book, after telling it the basic direction I was going, it would be comical as hell and not at all authentic.

Luckily, I'm an expert about what I'm writing about and this robot knows diddly squat about it. It actually thought an irrigation ditch would cut through the middle of a field instead of keeping to the outside edge. Maybe you can tell, I'm having a lot of fun with it.

One thing I loved was, it made me realize my great American novel wasn't for young adults. It's more for old farts, like myself.

I have to pay $20/month, but so far I think it's worth it. Before long though, I'm going to be fighting with it, especially when we get into the equine stuff.

TheNameWasOnceChosen · 08/11/2025 21:40

I understand the problems with it, but I've only had good experience.
I've had a stroke and I've lost all my words I don't used regularly. I ask it questions about the last job I had, and it showed me the words that I needed to use in a volunteering role I was applying for.

noblegiraffe · 08/11/2025 21:45

Mischance · 08/11/2025 21:12

It has just provided me with details of sources of information.

You should watch this video of Sam Coates who was lied to by ChatGPT who told him he'd uploaded a transcript of his podcast which hadn't, and when he asked it to prove it, it generated an entirely fake podcast script and claimed it was the real podcast.

It then continued to lie to him and said he had uploaded it in the future.

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://youtu.be/7fej5XgfBYQ?si=wWFdah92cKZgJUED

endocolonoscopy · 08/11/2025 21:51

I’ve been left with a neurological condition that makes me not as succinct so I do use ChapGPT to help me if my brain isn’t functioning properly

MNLurker1345 · 08/11/2025 22:07

I use ChatGPT regularly! I find it amazing that people go to the darker side of its capabilities rather than utilising it for the tool that it is.

I am not on Tik Tok but have read and heard of stories of suicide enablement on the site.

I cannot comment on this because I have never used Tik Tok, but I am sure many people that do use Tik Tok would be more informed than me to discuss it.

I have a small business and I use ChatGPT for
my spreadsheets, research, contacts, some emails, some communication. The thing is, I am intelligent and can write an articulate and informed correspondence but sometimes use ChatGPT to save time.

As an intelligent human being, can PPs
that have claimed it makes me less intelligent explain how that happens. I am really interested!

Also, being very busy, I will tell ChatGPT what I
am planning for supper that night and get great recipes. Things I wouldn’t have thought of. Our meal times have been transformed!

FourBlackCats · 08/11/2025 22:27

I find it spectacularly inaccurate to the point where it takes me longer to check its output than it would to just do it myself.

It failed to find the differences between two lists of numbers, which is computationally very simple.

My colleague took some technical words I wrote and ran it through AI to produce an email and it came up with lengthy word salad. It sounded plausible but was complete garbage.

BackinGodsOwn · 08/11/2025 22:47

If it doesn't "know" something, it will make up an answer.

I asked Chat GPT a few questions about a fairly well-known relative of mine from the 19th century. It made up the names of five of his eight children (presumably because their names weren't online, or chat gpt is barred from accessing the records? No worries, it can invent some plausible sounding 19th century Christian names), erroneously gave him a poetry hobby because it confused him with someone of the same name who wasn't even a contemporary of his, and also confidently gave me a completely wrong burial place about 250miles away from where his grave really is.

Oaktree1952 · 08/11/2025 22:56

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 08/11/2025 09:12

Couldn’t agree more. Chat GPT and other generative AI technology is not amazing. It is extremely damaging. Using it is not a neutral act. It is contributing to climate change on a considerable scale - places in Silicon Valley are experiencing drought for the first time. There is empirical evidence that it is literally making people stupider as we lose our critical thinking skills. There are concerns about data and privacy. People are using it for a parasocial relationship and losing their ability to form meaningful connections with others. It’s undermining of creativity, critical thinking, academia and contributing to the misinformation problem on a huge scale. And as parietal says above, has literally encouraged suicidal people to take their own lives.

People need to wake up. Stop using it

Please forgive my ignorance but how does AI have a negative impact on climate change?

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 08/11/2025 23:04

Oaktree1952 · 08/11/2025 22:56

Please forgive my ignorance but how does AI have a negative impact on climate change?

It uses an astronomical amount of water to cool the computer systems that make it function

TheMimsy · 08/11/2025 23:15

ElaineBurdock · 08/11/2025 20:24

Have they tried Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) for your son? I knew someone who wasn't responding to medication and after 12 treatments it reset her brain.

@ElaineBurdock thry can’t do it as he has a heart issue. It’s also why he can’t take the medication that works best for treatment resistant schizophrenia. :/

Racini · 08/11/2025 23:18

Fearfulsaints · 08/11/2025 09:31

I find it can be useful but its very flawed. You have to cross check everything.

I think it tells you what you want to hear. If you point out its missing some information or missed a fact or is wrong some way, it just gushes that you made a great point and its all different than its first suggestion, but you have to know its wrong.

This. However I’ve found it useful for blood test results.

herbaltincture · 08/11/2025 23:34

Oaktree1952 · 08/11/2025 22:56

Please forgive my ignorance but how does AI have a negative impact on climate change?

It uses a massive amount of electricity to run the data centres, far more than ordinary data centres. Some of it runs on gas, spewing emissions, etc.

AlwaysHopefull89 · 08/11/2025 23:36

parietal · 08/11/2025 08:59

You got lucky.

It has also driven people to suicide and often invents information in its answers. I won’t say lies because that implies the system knows what is true and what is false. It doesn’t know and just produces bullshit in answer to some question.

Driven people to suicide…. Really???

herbaltincture · 08/11/2025 23:37

AlwaysHopefull89 · 08/11/2025 23:36

Driven people to suicide…. Really???

Multiple links to different cases. The whole of the internet on your fingertips... Maybe ask AI if this is true, if you can't click a link yourself.