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Chat GPT is amazing

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Tickets25 · 08/11/2025 08:48

I know AI can be scary but I've struggled with something for over 30 years and last night chat gpt framed it for me in a way that years of therapy never has and it's given me peace.
It's fabulous.

No point to this post, just wanted to say!

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MrsSkylerWhite · 08/11/2025 14:21

ImisstheQueen · 08/11/2025 14:20

I assume you don't use a hoover, as you could do the sweeping yourself and you don't want to lose arm strength? And no running water because you could go and source water yourself too you know and boil it before you use it, rather lazy really to rely on it coming out at the drop of a hat. And electricity at all come to that. Never use online shopping? Or a computer?

Honestly AI is just another modern convenience that will continue to make us softer people with easier lives..... And have a negative impact somewhere else in the world / on the planet. This is such a stupid view.

Perhaps we need a revolution and we all go back to living like the good old days when dinosaurs were around and just start all over again...

We weren’t around when dinosaurs were. Sorry, pedantic I know 😁

matchacatcha · 08/11/2025 14:23

It's been useful for me. Personal problems such as friendships or relationships, it brings a different light on to it or basically articulates it back to you then I take it and research it without ai. Been more helpful than mumsnet 😬 obviously for privacy issues, info is given vague just as you would on mn in fact more vague. Meal ideas, exercise, general questions you would ask google and scroll through pages of nonsense is just listed in one go.

Elisheva · 08/11/2025 14:24

The environmental impact caused by AI is nothing compared to the aviation industry, agriculture, cement production, travel etc.
This is the world that my children are growing up in. AI is not going to go away, so I need to be familiar with it and what it can do so I can guide my children. Ignoring it is not going to help, being involved means that people can feedback and steer it.
I work in a FE college. The students are way ahead of the lecturers in their understanding and use of AI - just shouting at them not to use it is not going to make any difference at all. We need to understand it and guide them in how to use it as a tool.

ImisstheQueen · 08/11/2025 14:25

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/11/2025 14:21

We weren’t around when dinosaurs were. Sorry, pedantic I know 😁

Yes sorry I was meaning a world without human intervention 😄 Fire was probably a wicked modern convenience once upon a time 😁

(Dramatic I know sorry. I just think it's daft to single out AI in this way.)

ImisstheQueen · 08/11/2025 14:28

Fwiw I do agree actually with the downsides to AI / Chat GPT. But we're in far too deep to worry about AI now. The people who didn't want a telephone installed back in the day were actually on to something... AI is just one more step in the same direction we've been headed since the beginning of time.

CraftyGin · 08/11/2025 14:34

I think you have to approach it with an attitude that it is not actually intelligent. It just does tasks quicker. If you are asking for it to give an actual opinion, you are on shaky ground.

Another positive experience I have of AI is in generating meeting notes. I was in a meeting on Teams, and we recorded it and asked AI to provide the minutes. We didn't need a minute taker, and honestly, the minutes were faultless - all in a matter of minutes.

I remember signing off the meeting, refilling my wine glass, and coming back to the minutes.

BackinGodsOwn · 08/11/2025 14:38

@lilycanna "I saw someone describing the task for future generations of removing AI bullshit from the information environment as like taking out asbestos."

Exactly, brilliant analogy. There have now even been legal cases where lazy lawyers made legal submissions citing bullshit made up cases because they relied on AI, e.g. this one stateside Fortunately, the submissions were so clearly inane that their falsity was picked up on right away. The judge was not pleased!

And AI is constantly feeding itself with its auto-generated bullshit, which grows like compound interest every hour....

- YouTube

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https://youtu.be/oqSYljRYDEM?si=QqqqetsunLD_A0Ot

Disturbia81 · 08/11/2025 14:41

Honestly I love it. It gives such reasoned advice and I love that it’s always there. It’s helped me with so much.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 08/11/2025 14:44

JudgeBread · 08/11/2025 14:15

For those of you using it to do your work emails for you or write your shopping lists or write your CV or whatever, you might want to read into The environmental impact of ai and consider just doing your fucking job yourself. The cost of each answer ChatGPT gives is frightening.

https://nationalcentreforai.jiscinvolve.org/wp/2025/05/02/artificial-intelligence-and-the-environment-putting-the-numbers-into-perspective/
Wikipedia is massively oversimplifying the issue of course. An AI search may use much more data than a google search but it could fetch as much data as you'd find in 20 individual google searches. There's already significant progress being made to reduce the environmental impact and AI will have a massive net positive impact overall in reducing environmental damage.

Artificial intelligence and the environment: Putting the numbers into perspective - Artificial intelligence

Headlines around generative AI’s environmental impact often focus on isolated numbers and statistics, which can appear alarming without context. However, some recent articles, such as ‘What’s the impact of artificial intelligence on energy demand?’ wri...

https://nationalcentreforai.jiscinvolve.org/wp/2025/05/02/artificial-intelligence-and-the-environment-putting-the-numbers-into-perspective/

leakycauldron · 08/11/2025 14:53

TheeNotoriousPIG · 08/11/2025 11:33

I know of a teacher who uses it to write reports. I know that it will probably save them time, but I was quite shocked as it just seems so... impersonal!

My mum recently gave me my old school reports. They all had the same sentences in them! So they obviously used tick boxes or something to create the reports to save time.

So no less personal then using A/I.

I use it a lot in work as i struggle to formulate my thoughts into what i want to actually say.

I have also used it to meal plan and it was really bad at it!

RedTagAlan · 08/11/2025 14:58

ChocolateMagnum · 08/11/2025 09:16

I teach about responsible AI use at university. I like to bring in these wider issues, which I know a lot of my colleagues seem to be clueless about. Does anyone have any links to evidence the encouragement to attempt suicide examples please?

There is this one from the US, ChatGPT encouraged college graduate to commit suicide, family claims in lawsuit against OpenAI | CNN

That is Chat GTP specific.

And there are various chatbot ones. Example here:

AI chatbot pushed teen to kill himself, lawsuit alleges | AP News

I don't use AI as its mostly banned where I live. So I need to use BING search, as Google is also banned here. From what I can figure out, it seems many of the folk singing the praises of AI are maybe folk who never really used the normal search ?

It does surprise me that someone teaching A stuff I would not know about at least some of these stories. It's potentially a massive can of worms if developers are found liable.

ChatGPT encouraged college graduate to commit suicide, family claims in lawsuit against OpenAI | CNN

A 23-year-old man killed himself in Texas after ChatGPT ‘goaded’ him to commit suicide, his family says in a lawsuit.

https://edition.cnn.com/2025/11/06/us/openai-chatgpt-suicide-lawsuit-invs-vis

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 08/11/2025 15:00

ChocolateMagnum · 08/11/2025 09:16

I teach about responsible AI use at university. I like to bring in these wider issues, which I know a lot of my colleagues seem to be clueless about. Does anyone have any links to evidence the encouragement to attempt suicide examples please?

There is a wiki page on deaths by chatbot. You can also talk about its exploitation of third world ghost workers.

AlisonLittle · 08/11/2025 15:05

Yes I am newly addicted to chatGPT and don't know how I survived without it, or it's alternatives.

Shegotanology · 08/11/2025 15:05

Whether we like it or not, it's here to stay and will only get more pervasive.

MadameWombat · 08/11/2025 15:10

Buyer beware, and you need to know how to use it properly, but yes, it's definitely amazing.

Wildtulips · 08/11/2025 15:24

It's our brains that are the limiting factor. If we think we can remember that it's not always right, that it's sycophantic, that it could harm us, that it is not a friend, that it doesn't sound authentic to others, then we are fooling ourselves. Our brains are set up with all kinds of shortcuts and cognitive biases that we cannot bypass. We tend to believe what we see and read. I have already seen some very intelligent people fall for its seductive flattery and diminish their reputation. I will too, I expect. It will be amazing and it will also enshittify our whole information environment. Regulating and policing it will be an impossibility. The rich and the criminal will benefit most, as always.

FMLRN · 08/11/2025 15:30

I prefer Claude, I'm using it today to put something together for a presentation I have on Monday. I find it better than Chat or Copilot. I also use it for personal stuff, even down to telling me jokes or interesting facts on a long train journey. I don't fly or eat meat, which has a much bigger environmental impact.

LilyCanna · 08/11/2025 15:36

@PumpkinTwistyWindToots “AI will have a massive net positive impact overall in reducing environmental damage.”
Says who? Based on what?

Meanwhile in the US there’s a massive love-in between tech companies and fossil fuel companies to drill fracked gas to power data centre expansion. Companies like Microsoft and Google have basically abandoned their climate ambitions. That’s what’s really happening behind the greenwash.
https://techcrunch.com/2025/10/17/your-ai-tools-run-on-fracked-gas-and-bulldozed-texas-land/
https://heated.world/p/ai-is-guzzling-gas

And in the UK too…
https://archive.ph/tuWmA

Your AI tools run on fracked gas and bulldozed Texas land | TechCrunch

If you're wondering why AI companies are pursuing this path, they'll tell you it's not just about electricity — it's about beating China.

https://techcrunch.com/2025/10/17/your-ai-tools-run-on-fracked-gas-and-bulldozed-texas-land/

AtomicBlondeRose · 08/11/2025 15:37

The suicide story is tragic, but it’s one story (albeit now very widely retold). How many suicidal people have been pushed over the edge by a piece of music, something they read, a news story or even an artwork? We can’t know, but I’m sure it’s happened. We also can’t account for how many people have been helped by AI to see a situation differently. And no, it doesn’t just blindly affirm you (although can be annoyingly chirpy at times. I’ve found it can be very good at seeing patterns of behaviour or links between events that aren’t clear to a human. That’s why it can be good at diagnosing things. It’s also totally rubbish at some tasks so you have to use it wisely!

Mischance · 08/11/2025 15:39

There is good and bad in everything.
I use it:
... to design posters for local events
... to deal with tech problems e.g. my phone went haywire after an update and it talked me through correcting it all.
... to help me write a difficult letter. It suggested lots of nuanced ideas, some of which I included in my final letter.
... to point me towards research papers into my heart condition ... really helpful.
.... to find holiday accommodation that meets my disability needs
... to source commentary on poetry
... to troubleshoot faults in household items... it gets the answer far quicker than manufacturer's websites.

I could go on. I have disabilities, live very rurally and it is a godsend to me.

Sometimes it gets things wrong ... but very very rarely.

Environmental considerations..... as I understand it these mainly applly to the environmental impact of the setup process thst has happened rather than ongoing usage. Alternatives for me are hours on the phone trying to get info from manufacturers, using masses of petrol getting to town (no public transport here) and trying to get to a library (on short hours and up steps I cannot manage).

It has improved my life immensely.

Mischance · 08/11/2025 15:45

ohwoaw · 08/11/2025 11:23

Gen Z onwards will have brains like mush and no ability to summarise or think critically. It’s not great at all.

Not my experience. I believe them to possessed of critical thinking too.

Mischance · 08/11/2025 15:48

I do not fly because of the environmental impact. But people think I am nuts and carry on buzzing round the world at the drop of a hat.
So much in the modern world has environmental impact. We each have to choose where we draw the line. But we cannot turn the clock back .....

OriginalUsername2 · 08/11/2025 15:49

I’ve changed my mind. I was raving about it a few months ago but when you get into the dodgy business side behind it, the many human jobs being lost because greedy ceos fall for the hype, and the crazy amount of energy use behind it, the huge data centres being built to maintain it while we’ve essentially reached peak energy.. I just can’t use it anymore.

No judgment, I’ve certainly had a good go of it asking it all my stupid questions. Ironically my questions to ChatGPT eventually lead me to the information that made me delete it.

CarefulN0w · 08/11/2025 15:53

I can’t imagine why Wiki thinks AI is a terrible idea…