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Dd just started a new job, is this normal

122 replies

Weezyi · 05/11/2025 10:24

Housekeeping. She worked 3 days then had 2 off and she just got her schedule and it says she is in for 9 days straight before her next 2 days off

Is that normal? I would be exhausted doing 9 days straight :(

OP posts:
yuol · 05/11/2025 15:37

I am quite a few years out of date now, but this was a similar pattern I worked as a hotel cleaner.
i actually quite liked it (after the beginning part!) I’m also autistic and just having a much longer routine was really nice, sometimes it feels like you barely get into your stride before a weekend, having the longer working was something I really learnt to enjoy.
give it some time it might be something she really likes in the end

Weezyi · 05/11/2025 15:39

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 05/11/2025 15:33

Let her get her feet in the door and see how she copes. If she can't manage, she can ask for reasonable adjustments and if the employer won't accommodate then she should be able to resume her UC claim on the basis that the job was not compatible with her needs under the equality act. But wait and see how she does. Of course you're anxious for her but you don't know yet how she will cope. I enjoyed housekeeping when I was her age as it was solitary work and I could listen to music while I worked (the radios in the rooms rather than on AirPods given it was 1998 but same principle applies!) looking back the head housekeeper was almost certainly autistic and she was amazing at the job, very organised, very fast and efficient, and she certainly appreciated the solitary nature of the work. You get your list of rooms and you crack on. If you work fast you get to sit and rest because nobody is watching you. It was great!

Thankyou, thats actually reassuring.

OP posts:
3hairspastfreckle · 05/11/2025 19:38

My dh regularly works 9 days in a row - employed by a major international company

WonderlandWasAllAHoax · 05/11/2025 19:58

That link proves absolutely nothing.

You can opt out of the 48 hour working week, and in any case, it's an average across 17 weeks, not something that's set per week.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 20:29

A) she’s probably opted out of the 48 hour weekly limit
B) it’s a 24 hour rest in 7 days or 48 in 14. She’s getting more than that
C) WTD is employment law, not H+S

rwalker · 05/11/2025 21:10

Can’t believe so many experts on here are getting this wrong
the max 48 hours working week. (Which you can opt out of but this is irrelevant here) is averaged out over 17 weeks
as for rest days you can legally work 12 days in a row but it has to be followed by 2 consecutive days off

Whilst not great they are doing absolutely nothing illegal or breaking any H+S rules

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 21:13

rwalker · 05/11/2025 21:10

Can’t believe so many experts on here are getting this wrong
the max 48 hours working week. (Which you can opt out of but this is irrelevant here) is averaged out over 17 weeks
as for rest days you can legally work 12 days in a row but it has to be followed by 2 consecutive days off

Whilst not great they are doing absolutely nothing illegal or breaking any H+S rules

It’s not even days off. If you finish at 7pm on Friday they can rota you back on from 7pm on Sunday.

firstofallimadelight · 05/11/2025 21:16

Yes this was my experience of hospitality. Days off few and far between, poor pay. Working 60+ hours a week. She will have more energy than you but
yes she will have to see if it’s for her

rwalker · 05/11/2025 21:38

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 21:13

It’s not even days off. If you finish at 7pm on Friday they can rota you back on from 7pm on Sunday.

Yeah a 48 hour consecutive break

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 05/11/2025 21:55

It’s really not good, but other people I know who have worked on a monthly hours contract where they have an amount they will be on over a month but have no set shift pattern, have all had similar. She’ll probably get 2 or 3 days per week now on the next two weeks. Even a friend who works for NHS has had similar until she had a regular shift pattern. How many hours does she do per day ?

ClassicalQueen · 05/11/2025 21:59

I think it’s pretty normal in hospitality, though I would be shattered too! Could she ask them to rearrange the rota?

IDontHateRainbows · 05/11/2025 22:02

I did housekeeping as a student and had to clean 10 rooms and bathrooms in 5 hours, despite already being slim i lost half a stone on a month from the exercise which 19 year old me was delighted about. Hard labour, yes.

XenoBitch · 05/11/2025 22:14

It sounds normal to me, and is the usual for jobs that need staff there all the time.

I used to do a 5 over 7 shift pattern (NHS hospital porter) so I always worked 5 days in any Mon-Sun period, but sometimes those 5 days were next to the working days the following week.
But before my 10 day run, I did have 4 says off in a row.
It was just how our shift pattern worked, but by day 6 (we also had a 7 day run) I would be falling asleep in the rest room.

Clonakilla · 05/11/2025 22:26

Very normal in health care. Also normal in the jobs I did to support myself getting my degree so I could work in health care!

She can apply for other things whilst she’s doing this. I wouldn’t assume she can’t cope.

MrsZiggywinkle · 05/11/2025 22:31

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 10:59

At 20 I had a full time office job for 40 hours a week and an evening/weekend job for 20 hours a week and also managed to fit in a very active social life. This shouldn’t be “exhausting” to a healthy 20 year old.

Presumably if she had 3 days on and 2 off the 9 on 2 off pattern isn’t routine?

Bully for you.

Not everyone wants to work stupid hours. Some people want a life.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 22:44

MrsZiggywinkle · 05/11/2025 22:31

Bully for you.

Not everyone wants to work stupid hours. Some people want a life.

I didn’t want to. I had a mortgage by then.

Working those hours contributed to me being mortgage free by 45.

I guess you can “have a life” in lots of different ways.

TartanMammy · 05/11/2025 23:22

Dp works in the NHS and this is quite normal in his department. It happens when two rotas are run back to back so you get your days off at the start and end of each. E.g. 2 days off, 5 days on, 5 days on, 2 days off.

usedtobeaylis · 05/11/2025 23:30

What the fuck are people on saying it shouldn't be exhausting, it's a physical job. Just stop.

usedtobeaylis · 05/11/2025 23:33

OP it is quite normal in some sectors, hospitality and social care for example. I used to get it in retail sometimes when I was younger although it was't too common in my own experience - the rota would just work out that your days off were towards the start of the week one week and the end of the week then next. People often don't like it and rotas can contributes to high turnover.

reversegear · 05/11/2025 23:47

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 05/11/2025 11:37

She's 20. She'll be fine. Have none of you worked this kind of job when you were 20? She's full of energy and youth. Through adversity we build character. Let her get on with it.

100% this my DS is 21 working night shifts and prior to that in retail he would take overtime and worked 13 days straight (his choice) nights he opted to do 4 nights, he spends his days so busy, out and about with friends.

At 20 she will have energy to do this. See how she feels in 6-9 months and enjoy the money..

reversegear · 05/11/2025 23:49

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 22:44

I didn’t want to. I had a mortgage by then.

Working those hours contributed to me being mortgage free by 45.

I guess you can “have a life” in lots of different ways.

Good for you!! From a fellow grafter.

MrsZiggywinkle · 06/11/2025 14:48

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 05/11/2025 22:44

I didn’t want to. I had a mortgage by then.

Working those hours contributed to me being mortgage free by 45.

I guess you can “have a life” in lots of different ways.

That’s still your choice.

Just because you think this young woman shouldn’t be exhausted by working nine days on the trot doesn’t make it true. We’re all allowed to feel how we feel without someone telling us we’re wrong.

MrsZiggywinkle · 06/11/2025 14:50

Normalising long working hours, poor conditions and high workloads will not benefit the general population.

x2boys · 06/11/2025 14:53

When I was a nurse I regularly worked 10 day stretches ,you could have days off at the beginning of one week and the end of another
I guess it depends where you work.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 06/11/2025 15:19

MrsZiggywinkle · 06/11/2025 14:48

That’s still your choice.

Just because you think this young woman shouldn’t be exhausted by working nine days on the trot doesn’t make it true. We’re all allowed to feel how we feel without someone telling us we’re wrong.

It feels as though the OP is projecting though. She hasn’t said her daughter is struggling, it’s all her fears and expectations rather than reality. A bit of resilience is not a bad thing to expect of someone at the start of their working lives.