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Tw would you say that a lot of people who take their own life didn’t mean to

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Level888 · 11/10/2025 00:35

Just cam to my mind as someone I know if recnely took their own life and when I spoke to someone about her. She said she believes it was misadventure and she just sadly wasn’t found in time,

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IDontHateRainbows · 12/10/2025 01:58

Franpie · 12/10/2025 01:16

I read a very moving piece by a man whose child took their own life. It was a journalist I think.

Anyway, in the piece he said that research shows that most people who take their own life decide to do it only moments before. That is why there is often no warning. Very few people mull over it for a while. It is a split second decision most of the time.

But, short of jumping off a bridge they happened to be on, surely they'd have to consider the practicalities of how it was going to happen. Its quite hard to kill a human body.

Badger32 · 12/10/2025 11:11

I attempted suicide as a teenager age 14
I meant it
I wanted to die
My parents had divorced and both had new families with step children on both sides ..I was spending half my time with each family ,not feeling like I was a part of either family .I was lost and felt forgotten about .
I was very depressed due to the the situation

DrCoconut · 12/10/2025 11:25

I recently attended a suicide awareness/prevention workshop and the person running it said that coroners will give an open/narrative/misadventure verdict unless it is very clearly suicide as they believe it protects the family. At the very least it means that the deceased's life insurance pays. That sounds clinical but I suppose coroners are. My uncle died by suicide following years of struggle with military related PTSD.

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