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Can English people explain how they feel about this?

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Green215 · 05/10/2025 18:22

As an English person, do you hold resentment towards any country based on historical grievances like war, invasion, famine, colonialism etc? If so, which; if not, why?

The reason I ask is because I’ve always found it odd how the English tend to be the only people in the world who do not hold such grievances.

Irish people are always complaining about British colonialism; many Scots and Welsh likewise complain about England on a historical basis; Greeks and Turks complain about one another; Africans, Indians, Arabs etc complain about European colonialism and American invasions; China complains about Japanese atrocities and vice versa; Russia complains about German atrocities; post-Soviet states complain about Russian occupation; France and Germany complain about one another; America often complains about the Revolution; Canada complains about the War of 1812; Mexico and Latin American countries and Caribbean countries complain about American invasions or interference or colonialism; some Australians resent British rule etc.

But, rarely do English people demand reparations or sing “rebel songs” or complain about historical grievances. Why?

I could understand if maybe some English people resented Germany due to the two world balls or resented America for things like the Suez crisis and the funding of the IRA. And truth be told, I have come across some English people that are like that. But, they are very few compared to the other peoples I described.

I understand that this is sort of an academic question, but I wanted to come on this forum to ask ordinary English people how they felt and I hope you can give some honest answers rather than sarcastic responses or not answering the question properly.

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Absentosaur · 05/10/2025 20:23

Agreed. The Italians invaded England. No one gives them a hard time. Maybe because they made stuff. We did that in lots of countries too. No one gives us credit..

As opposed to the Spanish who left only death and devastation in most of South America. And language.

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:23

BerryTwister · 05/10/2025 20:22

@NotMyKidsThough Romans, Vikings, Normans….

But actually occupying and colonising aren’t the only way to upset a nation. Bombing them isn’t very nice either. Nor is invading countries they have treaties with, obliging them to fight and die.

England has grounds for grievance against quite a few countries as it happens, but we just don’t feel it, because we’re conditioned not to.

Exactly. We got dragged into two world wars that we really didn't want to be a part of

70sMuuMuu · 05/10/2025 20:24

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:19

The Romans didn't invade England and the Vikings BECAME the English (in part)

The Normans were complete gits.

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The Normans were complete gits.

If Horrible Histories haven’t done a song called that, then they should’ve done.

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mullers1977 · 05/10/2025 20:24

soupyspoon · 05/10/2025 18:32

The French more or less.(Normans) And if you mean the land that is now England, then the Vikings and Romans. More or less.

Yes so it’s the living memory part that’s the issue

CantBreathe90 · 05/10/2025 20:24

I feel the other way, like it's really odd to hold grievances about things which didn't happen to you... against people who weren't alive whenever the misdeed took place.

I boggles my mind when countries (or company boards or whatever) "apologise" for things hundreds of years ago.

Trying to make it somewhat relative to my own life, my family are very left wing, and also got totally fucked by Thatcherites back in the not-too-distant past. But what could any of us possibly gain if the Conservatives one day "apologised" for it publicly? Don't get it. Plus, it's cringy.

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:24

Purplebunnie · 05/10/2025 20:23

Sorry of course we were not English at that time but the Romans were predominantly in the area that is now known as England and I should have clarified that

dont be a wet lettuce. You didn't need to clarify, it was obvious what you meant

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:24

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:20

The invaded the land that we now call England.

i see people are being very pedantic

Not pedantic at all

WaryCrow · 05/10/2025 20:25

Perhaps some of us save all the resentment for the inequality, class system and aristos foisted on us by the Conquest whose impacts never went away and regularly rear their ugly little heads. And on the north/ south division. There’s a lot of north/ south division and resentment of London.

Also all English people have a bounded duty to hate the French because they smell of elderberries. There’s a nice book called ‘A thousand years of Annoying the French’.

One of these is partly fun, because frogs are quite cute really and essential to ecosystems. The other is not.

CantBreathe90 · 05/10/2025 20:26

Absentosaur · 05/10/2025 20:23

Agreed. The Italians invaded England. No one gives them a hard time. Maybe because they made stuff. We did that in lots of countries too. No one gives us credit..

As opposed to the Spanish who left only death and devastation in most of South America. And language.

It's because no-one can be mad with the nation that gave us pizza - statistically, it's impossible.

MousseMousse · 05/10/2025 20:27

Whyamiherenow · 05/10/2025 20:10

Just picking up on one point in your post. I believe Germany paid reparations to the allies after ww1 so it wouldn’t be right to say that England/ Britain never asked for reparations etc.

And the reason we didn't levy crippling reparations after WW2 is because those from WWI created the circumstances which allowed Hitler to rise to power & directly contributed towards the second world war.

shhblackbag · 05/10/2025 20:27

Who were the English colonised by to feel angry at?

This was my first thought. The were the colonisers, not the colonised.

Livelovebehappy · 05/10/2025 20:28

I don’t hate any other country. And I always think countries that hate us - it probably comes from a place of jealousy….

MaturingCheeseball · 05/10/2025 20:28

BerryTwister · 05/10/2025 20:01

@Goldbar sadly I think that statement sums up the views of English people. We’re told from an early age that we’re vile horrible people who’ve committed relentless atrocities throughout history, and we should be ashamed of ourselves for simply existing.

We’ve got to hang our heads in shame for the slave trade, despite it being over 200 years ago, and despite England abolishing it before many other countries. We have to hate ourselves for having colonies, despite France, Spain, Portugal and others having colonies that they never seem to express shame over.

I think this constant state of enforced disgrace is one of the reasons people are fighting back and being tempted by horrible characters like Farage. Like a child who is forced to stand in the naughty corner every day. Eventually they think “fuck it, I’m sick of this”.

Absolutely.

We’re all awful people. F our inventions, f our language, f our literature, f our countryside, f our sense of humour…

No, we’re all Very Bad and must atone for the sins of our fathers (mine were total bottom of the heap really winning at life peasants).

As a pp observed, why on earth would anyone want to immigrate to such a dump as this?

Purplebunnie · 05/10/2025 20:28

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:24

dont be a wet lettuce. You didn't need to clarify, it was obvious what you meant

To be honest I thought it was obvious but apparently not

Ijustliveaquietlife · 05/10/2025 20:28
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Blarghism · 05/10/2025 20:28

I'm English and hold no grudges for the 2/3rds of the world selfishly taking their countries back and requesting return of the stolen riches. I would also not complain if the countries we continue to occupy did the same.

Whyamiherenow · 05/10/2025 20:29

BerryTwister · 05/10/2025 20:15

@Whyamiherenow but it was later acknowledged that the financial strain put on Germany by the post WW1 reparations were in part responsible for the unhappiness of the population, that led to Hitler’s success. So after WW2 we went the other way and gave Germany loads of financial help.

Exactly. Hyper inflation and all that jazz. But Britain did once ask …. and receive. Wow that GCSE history still hits hard 25 years later!

zanahoria · 05/10/2025 20:29

Octavious · 05/10/2025 20:18

There is still much hatred towards the Germans ?
Very prevalent.

And isnt rule Britannia about britains fighting off slavers ?

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Rule Britannia was actually written during The War of Jenkins Ear a conflict that broke out due to British ships smuggling goods into Spanish colonies - they smuggled slaves too. The Spanish navy used to board British ships and during one such encounter Captain Jenkins had his ear cut off. He later showed up in Parliament when there was debate on whether to go to war with Spain.

The song demands that Britain rule the waves so nobody can ever treat them like slaves even if they were transporting slaves themselves

ohfook · 05/10/2025 20:29

Because it’s not a thread we want to start pulling at because then we have to accept that we’ve done a lot of bad shit over the years!

The teaching of British history in schools is a bit crap. We focus a lot on ww2 (ie when we were the actual good guys) and then a lot on how England was formed - Romans/Vikings/Anglo-Saxons but not a lot on the nitty gritty of colonialism and what that actually meant. An example being you’d think it was wild if a German person didn’t know about Nazi concentration camps but very few British people will know about the British concentration camps in Kenya in the 1950s. So we just sort of have this incorrect idea that we were history's good guys. I know a few people who when it has came up in conversation actually thought Britain got involved in ww2 to save the Jewish people.

Also, it’s not so bad as in the 80s and 90s but there’s definitely a group of people who still bang on about what Germans did in the war so if they knew a bit more of British history they probably would hold a grudge to be fair.

Gwenhwyfar · 05/10/2025 20:29

I've met plenty of English people who hate the Scots, Irish, Welsh and French. Loads more with issues about the Germans - they chant 'two world wars and one world cup'. Plenty who resent the Poles and other eastern European migrants and some who don't like 'Pakis', 'wogs' and whatever.
Has all the anti-immigration flag painting of recent weeks passed you by?

pinkstripeycat · 05/10/2025 20:30

AgnesMcDoo · 05/10/2025 18:25

Don’t the English hate the French?

(Scottish myself so don’t know)

Absolutely not. Why would we?

nocoolnamesleft · 05/10/2025 20:30

When we were children, my granddad, who had served in WWII as a medical orderly, took us to Cannock Chase war cemetery. He chose that location because he wanted us to know that the ordinary German soldiers were just ordinary people, and not evil. Why blame people today for the actions of previous generations? There is no point to that for me. Though I can confess, when younger, being peeved at US funding for the IRA.

FamBae · 05/10/2025 20:32

londongirl12 · 05/10/2025 18:32

English and don’t hate anyone else. The people of today aren’t responsible for the actions of their ancestors.

My thoughts exactly.

Uggbootsforever · 05/10/2025 20:32

Gwenhwyfar · 05/10/2025 20:29

I've met plenty of English people who hate the Scots, Irish, Welsh and French. Loads more with issues about the Germans - they chant 'two world wars and one world cup'. Plenty who resent the Poles and other eastern European migrants and some who don't like 'Pakis', 'wogs' and whatever.
Has all the anti-immigration flag painting of recent weeks passed you by?

I think the Celts need to stay out of our banter with our European friends, they really don’t understand it!

Shatteredallthetimelately · 05/10/2025 20:32

Bigearringsbigsmile · 05/10/2025 18:28

No I don't hold resentment against any other nation

And I don't understand others resenting nations for things that happened 100s of years ago

Whats the point?

Agree with this...

While I do remember those that gave their lives for England's freedom I'm the type that believes you can't move forward if you keep looking back.

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