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Can English people explain how they feel about this?

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Green215 · 05/10/2025 18:22

As an English person, do you hold resentment towards any country based on historical grievances like war, invasion, famine, colonialism etc? If so, which; if not, why?

The reason I ask is because I’ve always found it odd how the English tend to be the only people in the world who do not hold such grievances.

Irish people are always complaining about British colonialism; many Scots and Welsh likewise complain about England on a historical basis; Greeks and Turks complain about one another; Africans, Indians, Arabs etc complain about European colonialism and American invasions; China complains about Japanese atrocities and vice versa; Russia complains about German atrocities; post-Soviet states complain about Russian occupation; France and Germany complain about one another; America often complains about the Revolution; Canada complains about the War of 1812; Mexico and Latin American countries and Caribbean countries complain about American invasions or interference or colonialism; some Australians resent British rule etc.

But, rarely do English people demand reparations or sing “rebel songs” or complain about historical grievances. Why?

I could understand if maybe some English people resented Germany due to the two world balls or resented America for things like the Suez crisis and the funding of the IRA. And truth be told, I have come across some English people that are like that. But, they are very few compared to the other peoples I described.

I understand that this is sort of an academic question, but I wanted to come on this forum to ask ordinary English people how they felt and I hope you can give some honest answers rather than sarcastic responses or not answering the question properly.

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ProfessionalWhimsicalSkidaddler · 05/10/2025 20:15

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 05/10/2025 20:02

It was absolutely horrendous but it was almost 200 years ago.
My ancestors fled the famine and came to England.
I’m English.

Who do I get legitimately hate?

You’re English. It’s yourself obviously. Mine did the same - one half to England and one half to Scotland.

ZebraPyjamas · 05/10/2025 20:16

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No it wouldn’t be like that at all, not the same thing

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:16

Haters are gonna hate. I personally think they're all a bit jealous 💅🏻

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handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:16

ZebraPyjamas · 05/10/2025 20:16

No it wouldn’t be like that at all, not the same thing

It's exactly the same

Theunamedcat · 05/10/2025 20:16

Bigearringsbigsmile · 05/10/2025 18:28

No I don't hold resentment against any other nation

And I don't understand others resenting nations for things that happened 100s of years ago

Whats the point?

Same! The way people live so far in the past baffles me!

Why let your ancestral past affect your future

ERthree · 05/10/2025 20:17

ItstheHRTpat · 05/10/2025 18:31

The Irish hold resentment because it was still in living memory, and lasted for over 800 years before that. Who were the English colonised by to feel angry at?

The Romans, The Normans, The Vikings.

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:17

Purplebunnie · 05/10/2025 20:11

I think our ancestors may disagree with you. The Romans made slaves of the English, William the Bastard virtually destroyed the North. Rape and pillage by the Vikings. I think they may well have felt occupied

Edited to add I don't hate any other nation but am sad we are so hated

Edited

The Romans didn't have any interaction with the English whatsoever

Octavious · 05/10/2025 20:18

There is still much hatred towards the Germans ?
Very prevalent.

And isnt rule Britannia about britains fighting off slavers ?

SeaAndStars · 05/10/2025 20:18

Bigearringsbigsmile · 05/10/2025 18:28

No I don't hold resentment against any other nation

And I don't understand others resenting nations for things that happened 100s of years ago

Whats the point?

This.

soupyspoon · 05/10/2025 20:18

ZebraPyjamas · 05/10/2025 19:50

In living memory? The Normans, vikings and Romans?

Living

The aristocracy and the top landowners in England are descendants of the Normans.

No memory needed.

Implodingyourmirage · 05/10/2025 20:19

LadyRoughDiamond · 05/10/2025 20:01

Good point / I wonder if they feel differently?

Well, they've had foreign soldiers on their soil at lot more recently than 1000 years ago, so that might influence feelings.

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:19

ERthree · 05/10/2025 20:17

The Romans, The Normans, The Vikings.

The Romans didn't invade England and the Vikings BECAME the English (in part)

The Normans were complete gits.

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:19

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:17

The Romans didn't have any interaction with the English whatsoever

nit picking on the name there

zanahoria · 05/10/2025 20:19

godmum56 · 05/10/2025 20:12

yup, the "Pals" regiments.

Not one of the British army's most well thought out ideas. Although when the war started there no conscription and it would have encouraged volunteers.

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:20

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:19

The Romans didn't invade England and the Vikings BECAME the English (in part)

The Normans were complete gits.

Edited

The invaded the land that we now call England.

i see people are being very pedantic

PigletJohn · 05/10/2025 20:20

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:17

The Romans didn't have any interaction with the English whatsoever

I presume you are suggesting a different ethnicity for the people who lived in what is now England.

GiantTeddyIsTired · 05/10/2025 20:20

I think that's the thing - the English (and mainland Europe) spent a lot of time getting invaded by each other. We got quite good at it, then as technology improved we all branched out and invaded further afield.

Yes, the brits were very good at it, but the Portuguese, French, Spanish, Belgians, Dutch etc. all did rather a lot too.

Our oppression by foreign powers was just a much longer time ago than the countries on other continents that we invaded. We just developed the tech first to be able to do it - other countries were restricted to invading close enough neighbours but Europe invented ships and went out to find new places to conquer.

Although now I'm saying that - the crusades weren't exactly close to home.

PurpleChrayn · 05/10/2025 20:20

I hate all nations and people equally.

SanctusInDistress · 05/10/2025 20:21

Maybe because the English have never been colonised themselves?

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:21

PigletJohn · 05/10/2025 20:20

I presume you are suggesting a different ethnicity for the people who lived in what is now England.

Well of course. England being named after the Angles who arrived after the Romans

handlansa · 05/10/2025 20:21

SanctusInDistress · 05/10/2025 20:21

Maybe because the English have never been colonised themselves?

Urgh. Boring answer. We have.

BerryTwister · 05/10/2025 20:22

NotMyKidsThough · 05/10/2025 20:15

But it isn't odd, is it? Along with France, Belgium and Germany, we carved up the globe between us. We weren't oppressed or occupied by a foreign power, we were the ones doing the oppressing and occupying. That really only stopped in the 1970s, and not by our choice - we just couldn't afford it after the Second World War. Several historians think we couldn't afford it after the First.

@NotMyKidsThough Romans, Vikings, Normans….

But actually occupying and colonising aren’t the only way to upset a nation. Bombing them isn’t very nice either. Nor is invading countries they have treaties with, obliging them to fight and die.

England has grounds for grievance against quite a few countries as it happens, but we just don’t feel it, because we’re conditioned not to.

Gonners · 05/10/2025 20:22

popcornandpotatoes · 05/10/2025 18:35

Who would we demand reparations from? The Vikings and normans?

Definitely the Vikings ... coming over here, ruining the country with their shipbuilding skills and their red hair!

Purplebunnie · 05/10/2025 20:23

OneDearWasp · 05/10/2025 20:17

The Romans didn't have any interaction with the English whatsoever

Sorry of course we were not English at that time but the Romans were predominantly in the area that is now known as England and I should have clarified that

ChessorBuckaroo · 05/10/2025 20:23

ChessorBuckaroo · 05/10/2025 19:56

Interesting you say that about the English, although that's never been my impression as an Irish person. The English are grounded and well read. As far as I'm concerned the English, invariably, are the sensible ones in the room. Put it this way, if aliens landed on Earth and we had to pick a nationality to represent humanity to make an impression on the aliens so they wouldn't exploit us, the English would be near the top.

Your comment is definitely true about Germans. I read a great book (peer reviewed) by a US author who explained why Germany, despite being just 80 years from the Holocaust, was able to largely be without internal conflict, whereas america was not. The reason was Germans don't try and whitewash their history like america does. They own it, thus deal with it. There is a humility with Germans. There is no "patriotic history" equivalent in Germany like those advocated by Trump. More than virtually any other nation on the planet america should be very humble after the atrocities it has committed, starting with the dehumanization and ethnic cleansing of the Native people.

I made this comment recently to a typical ra ra ra ignoramus from america who was boasting about how great america was:

"You might have never gone without (refuse to believe that), but millions in america have. It has the worst "healthcare" in the Western world with millions unable to afford any. Stan Brock, a British philanthropist, started a charity intended to provide healthcare for the third world but ended up being based in america such was the need. Recently a kid in america died from asthma as he could not afford an inhaler. Last December a CEO of a health insurance company was assassinated. Then there is the cheap wooden housing, the poor quality cars, shootings (average of more deaths by firearm in america in 1 day than the UK in a year), home to the highest incarceration rate in the world, the unparalleled income disparity where the top 1% own 98% of the wealth (and the race disparity where blacks despite being 14% own just 1.5% of national wealth), the global leader in race law (white only citizenship, white only vote, white only schools to white only residents), the dehumanization and ethnic cleansing of the Native people, the enslavement of Africans by the "founders", all the racist documents that now come with a warning (declaration, constitution etc), the national anthem written by a slaveowner with a third verse that excoriated the slaves who fled the plantations and joined the British to gain their freedom, and on and on. With your ignorance ("we the best") it sounds like in history class you got the infamous education, patriotic (whitewashed) education, that Trump is trying to maintain. Any american (which is a white person per one of its many race based laws) with a semblance of history and world affairs would be very humble."

I could never have made the same comment to a Brit or a German (despite both nationalities achieving far more in the world than america) as Brits and Germans are too sensible, too mature, too grounded in reality, and aware of history and not brainwashed with a whitewashed version of it, to be making the ignorant claims of a typical american.

To further this point, this was how foreign people viewed other countries (Germany top, UK came third).

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-22624104

To follow up on this, where is the English equivalent of this whitewashing of history (brainwashing with "patriotic history") in schools?

https://www.prwatch.org/news/2021/03/13701/rights-campaign-erase-americas-racist-roots

"Today's reactionaries are picking up the mantle of generations of Americans who have fought to ensure that white children are taught a version of America's past that is more hagiographic than historic", with examples cited including Oregon enacting a law in the 1920s that banned the use of any textbook in schools that "speaks slightingly of the founders", to Lynne Cheney launching a campaign in the 1990s against an effort to introduce new standards for teaching U.S. history which she found insufficiently "celebratory".

The Right's Campaign to Erase America's Racist Roots

While Trump and other Republicans attacked the 1619 Project in 2020 campaigns, right-wing think tanks and policy groups backed them up. Now GOP state lawmakers want to ban schools from teaching it.

https://www.prwatch.org/news/2021/03/13701/rights-campaign-erase-americas-racist-roots