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Premier Inn Housing Homeless

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UpsyDaisy6789 · 01/10/2025 10:52

As a family of four we very often have short breaks away in Premier Inn. Mostly just 1 night at a time, occasionally up to 3 nights at a time.

We've noticed on a few occasions now, Premier Inns seem to be housing homeless local families/individuals. On our most recent break of 3 nights this particular hotel seemed to be mainly housing homeless people. Some with obvious substance issues. There was one family with a very small baby, the man in the couple obviously very volatile and uncomfortable to witness/be around his manner to the young woman.

No one seemed to dress in the morning, all just downstairs just rolled out of bed in various dishevelled states.

It all made us feel really uncomfortable to be honest and now considering cancelling future breaks we have booked.

Honestly, if a local council are willing to fund a hotel to house homeless I'm impressed if anything. It's not that I'm not all for them having that help, especially the young couple with a tiny baby. I can see locally how much homelessness has increased and that there is a rising need for help.

However, with this most recent stay I think the right thing would be to now close that particular hotel for general bookings. We honestly felt that we were holidaying in a homeless shelter and it was really uncomfortable for us and we were particularly unhappy with some of the behaviour around our young kids.

Also can't help feeling awful for feeling this way, because I'm also very glad for them they're getting help. Feel really uncomfortable and conflicted about how we felt. Fed all this back to Premier Inn when received their usual "how was your stay" email and they've just totally ignored it.

Just wondered if anyone else had noticed similar and if it had/would put you off?

OP posts:
warmapplepies · 01/10/2025 12:08

fastingforweightloss · 01/10/2025 11:49

Only on MN, would people pay for a nice night away, and then not care at all, if the hotel was full of homeless people, some on heroin. Nonsense virtue signalling.

If you want a nice night away then you don’t book a Premier Inn 🫣 don’t get me wrong, I stay in them regularly, but only because they’re cheap, clean, convenient and do a good breakfast.

I’m not there for the atmosphere and I don’t give a toss about the other guests as long as they’re not noisy.

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/10/2025 12:08

I’m assuming it’s temporary housing for families? Due to a shortage of council homes?

how shit must it be to be in a hotel rather than a flat, nowhere to do your washing, let the kids play. Nowhere to keep a fridge or make a snack.
Must be awful.

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/10/2025 12:09

fastingforweightloss · 01/10/2025 12:04

People are people

I don't understand this.

Jack the ripper and Fred West were "people". It doesn't mean you'd be okay with them staying in the room next door.

My very respectable Nanna, is not the same as Mick, who takes heroin, raids the local Co-op twice a week, breaks into people's homes and regularly beats up his girlfriend.

Both are "people", but nothing alike. One you might like to socialise with, or allow around your children, the other ..... not so much

You don’t know anyone in a hotel. You wouldn’t let anyone from a hotel around your children in anyway other than being at the next table or in the next room.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

WhamBamThankU · 01/10/2025 12:10

Snobby. Choose another chain hotel.

MaturingCheeseball · 01/10/2025 12:13

These holier than thou posts are ridiculous. If I book a hotel - be that a Premier Inn or the Ritz I want to feel safe. eg I have stayed alone at two Premier Inns recently to attend funerals. I think the hotel should inform guests if they are accepting “irregular” customers so that someone can decide to stay elsewhere.

And are some posters seriously claiming that if they stayed in a hotel - and the reason is irrelevant - they would not mind at all if homeless were housed there? What if they were to turn up at a (very MN) Mark Warner resort and found that although they had paid €€€€€ the other guests were being put up by the councils there?

Furthermore a few years ago a businessperson booked out an entire (I think it was) Premier Inn in Bristol for homeless people at Christmas. Very nice and all that, but the hotel said it was not fair on their staff who should not be expected to deal with alcohol/substance misuse and mental health and possibly violence issues.

klim · 01/10/2025 12:26

We stayed in a chain motel in Florida which was housing mainly people who'd been made homeless by the hurricane. It was a different atmosphere to be sure, but they were the ones going through something, not us. It did us no harm to see how lucky we are that this is not our life, both the kids and DH & I.

There's nothing to stop you boycotting Premier Inn for your future short breaks, but I think if you switch to staying at another chain it could as easily happen again there. And YAB a bit unreasonable to name and shame them on this thread. Do you have evidence that this is a particular problem in Premier Inns, or are you extrapolating from a single data point?

Jellycatspyjamas · 01/10/2025 12:35

Greenwitchart · 01/10/2025 11:52

I have worked for two homeless charities and that would bother me because people who have issues with alcohol and substance use can be very volatile and chaotic. That's why they do better in hostels with support workers on site who can help them.

The last charity I worked for ran a day centre for homeless people and there were constant fights and there were instances of staff members being attacked. One of the many reasons why I left that organisation. I never felt safe there.

So although it would not bother me if a family with kids was housed in a hotel while they wait for permanent accommodation, I don't thinks that regular hotels is a place to house single homelessness people with complex needs.

''@childofthe607080s · Today 11:50 Only in a truely selfish society would people prioritise their holiday accommodation over a home for someone however''

That sounds all well and good but as I have described above there are serious safety concerns associated with mixing holiday makers with drug addicts and people who might have serious, untreated mental health issues made even worse by drugs and alcohol. People like that need specialist/individual support, not a room in a hotel where they are left to their own devices without supervision. It is not fair on staff or visitors.

Edited

I don’t disagree with you, but those types of service are costly to run and that cost is paid by the local authority. An unsupported hotel room is much, much cheaper and as ever tax payers don’t want to pay the cost of decent support for people they consider undeserving.

AutumnLover1989 · 01/10/2025 12:37

We stayed in one last year,close to Chessington and it was grim. Filthy mattresses in the car park and security on each level. Awful and couldn't wait to leave.

Jellybunny56 · 01/10/2025 12:39

I think you’re mixing issues together here to be honest.

Are you saying that you would be okay with the other guests having tiny babies, being volatile, drunk/on drugs if they were paying hotel guests rather than homeless people?

Jellycatspyjamas · 01/10/2025 12:42

fastingforweightloss · 01/10/2025 12:04

People are people

I don't understand this.

Jack the ripper and Fred West were "people". It doesn't mean you'd be okay with them staying in the room next door.

My very respectable Nanna, is not the same as Mick, who takes heroin, raids the local Co-op twice a week, breaks into people's homes and regularly beats up his girlfriend.

Both are "people", but nothing alike. One you might like to socialise with, or allow around your children, the other ..... not so much

Actually they are all people. People with different life choices and opportunities, people with different ways of living but still people. You may not want to have breakfast with them, but suggesting they are in some way “less than” is where it all starts.

You don’t know how you would live your life if your circumstances had been different. If you had been neglected or abused, had significant trauma, had no family or social support, no money to throw at adversity, no access to education. You just don’t know. The people housed in these hotels all have stories, those stories often explain how they’ve ended up where they are. There but for the grace of God.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 01/10/2025 12:42

UpsyDaisy6789 · 01/10/2025 11:32

To answer how we knew they were homeless, this stay in particular it was really obvious plus could hear the conversations confirming it.

In 2 previous stays i had kind of noticed and wasn't at all bothered as it was a very different dynamic. One of those stays it was confirmed when I overheard someone talking to the waitress who was really sweet with their young boy. I noticed as the young boy had the same disability as mine. As I say I was pleasantly surprised councils fund this when there's a need having had dealings with social care previously. But this recent stay was a very different dynamic.

So 2/3 interactions like this and you were ok. The third you felt uncomfortable? Surely that’s just hotel life? Probably the 4th time will again be fine.

PoppySeed091 · 01/10/2025 12:44

MaturingCheeseball · 01/10/2025 12:13

These holier than thou posts are ridiculous. If I book a hotel - be that a Premier Inn or the Ritz I want to feel safe. eg I have stayed alone at two Premier Inns recently to attend funerals. I think the hotel should inform guests if they are accepting “irregular” customers so that someone can decide to stay elsewhere.

And are some posters seriously claiming that if they stayed in a hotel - and the reason is irrelevant - they would not mind at all if homeless were housed there? What if they were to turn up at a (very MN) Mark Warner resort and found that although they had paid €€€€€ the other guests were being put up by the councils there?

Furthermore a few years ago a businessperson booked out an entire (I think it was) Premier Inn in Bristol for homeless people at Christmas. Very nice and all that, but the hotel said it was not fair on their staff who should not be expected to deal with alcohol/substance misuse and mental health and possibly violence issues.

Obviously, non-homeless people never drink too much alcohol or use recreational drugs at Christmas.

Balletdancing · 01/10/2025 12:47

fastingforweightloss · 01/10/2025 11:49

Only on MN, would people pay for a nice night away, and then not care at all, if the hotel was full of homeless people, some on heroin. Nonsense virtue signalling.

Agree. I would definitely not want to stay in a hotel with a homeless drug addict in the next room. In fact, I wouldn't want to be there even if i was paid never mind expecting me to pay for ir the privilege!!!

There I said it. Flame me for being honest.

Balletdancing · 01/10/2025 12:48

Jellycatspyjamas · 01/10/2025 12:42

Actually they are all people. People with different life choices and opportunities, people with different ways of living but still people. You may not want to have breakfast with them, but suggesting they are in some way “less than” is where it all starts.

You don’t know how you would live your life if your circumstances had been different. If you had been neglected or abused, had significant trauma, had no family or social support, no money to throw at adversity, no access to education. You just don’t know. The people housed in these hotels all have stories, those stories often explain how they’ve ended up where they are. There but for the grace of God.

They should be in homeless shelters NOT hotels

childofthe607080s · 01/10/2025 12:49

Well perhaps you could go and build a homeless hostel or convert your own home into one? Or it’s that “someone else’s problem “

UpsyDaisy6789 · 01/10/2025 12:49

Jellybunny56 · 01/10/2025 12:39

I think you’re mixing issues together here to be honest.

Are you saying that you would be okay with the other guests having tiny babies, being volatile, drunk/on drugs if they were paying hotel guests rather than homeless people?

No. Reading the various replies has actually made it clearer in my mind why I feel so awful for finding it so uncomfortable. I really don't have a problem with them being homeless which is why I was aware but not put off the previous times. I found the volatile/aggressive behaviour, the obvious drug use, the feeling something may kick off etc uncomfortable.

OP posts:
JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 01/10/2025 12:51

There was a near-identical thread about a month ago.

As I said on there, I run a food bank for a living and we often find ourselves having to support people who are housed in hotels like this, and “temporary” could last months or even years. They are not allowed cooking facilities in their room, and often have no washing facilities for clothes either. It’s certainly better than being homeless but it presents very significant challenges.

InTheWellBeing · 01/10/2025 12:51

Good lord! This would ruin your vacation.

YelloDaisy · 01/10/2025 12:52

childofthe607080s · 01/10/2025 12:49

Well perhaps you could go and build a homeless hostel or convert your own home into one? Or it’s that “someone else’s problem “

This why the uk is in a mess

Balletdancing · 01/10/2025 12:52

childofthe607080s · 01/10/2025 12:49

Well perhaps you could go and build a homeless hostel or convert your own home into one? Or it’s that “someone else’s problem “

Not homeowners or hotel guests problem.

We all have problems and it is up to us to deal with them, not to be a burden to others who are nothing to do with you.

Jellybunny56 · 01/10/2025 12:54

UpsyDaisy6789 · 01/10/2025 12:49

No. Reading the various replies has actually made it clearer in my mind why I feel so awful for finding it so uncomfortable. I really don't have a problem with them being homeless which is why I was aware but not put off the previous times. I found the volatile/aggressive behaviour, the obvious drug use, the feeling something may kick off etc uncomfortable.

And you don’t think paying hotel guests can behave aggressively, use drugs, kick off? Only homeless people?

If your issue is with the BEHAVIOUR, then you should have reported that to the hotel just like you would for any guest. We stayed in a hotel last year and reported the room next door to us as the guests were sniffing coke in the corridor, I couldn’t care less if they were homeless or live in a £10 million house, I’m reporting the behaviour, I’m not happy to be around that behaviour, regardless of their financial status.

Would you be less uncomfortable if it had been a man with a Rolex watch, a Bentley parked outside and the keys to a mansion in his pocket blatantly using drugs and behaving aggressively?

Jellycatspyjamas · 01/10/2025 12:54

Balletdancing · 01/10/2025 12:48

They should be in homeless shelters NOT hotels

I agree, but they are expensive to run and tax payers don’t want to pay for it, so hotels it is.

MaurineWayBack · 01/10/2025 12:55

I’m following an account on IG (allegedly) from a travel advisor for very very rich people.
She recreates some of the calls she has with them.

One of them was a client complaining that the other guests were making her look poor. Please can you sort it out?
I thought this was a crazy idea. But actually the OP is sort of doing the same.

And the answer is ‘well she is entitled to.’ If she feels the environment has changed, isn’t really meeting her standards, then she should find another hotel (just like client I mentioned above btw).
You can wonder why PI is happy to house people that are on the street. Especially as some people WILL be reacting like the OP. But again, their brand, their choice.

Fwiw I’ve made a similar decision with Travel Lodge after staying in a couple of their hotels around london. It wasn’t that I saw homeless people. But it was the various (room) doors with holes in them etc… Once is a mistake/isolated incident. Two or three times and I’ve written them off.

EDIT
As I started my post but ended up sending it a bit later and missing OP’s last post.
I get where you’re coming from @UpsyDaisy6789 . If you’re feeling uncomfortable/stressed due to unruly behaviour, fair enough.
As I said above, I’ve basically done the same thing years ago with Travel Lodge.

MaurineWayBack · 01/10/2025 12:57

Balletdancing · 01/10/2025 12:48

They should be in homeless shelters NOT hotels

Then we need to give money for that to happen.

BoredZelda · 01/10/2025 13:00

MaturingCheeseball · 01/10/2025 12:13

These holier than thou posts are ridiculous. If I book a hotel - be that a Premier Inn or the Ritz I want to feel safe. eg I have stayed alone at two Premier Inns recently to attend funerals. I think the hotel should inform guests if they are accepting “irregular” customers so that someone can decide to stay elsewhere.

And are some posters seriously claiming that if they stayed in a hotel - and the reason is irrelevant - they would not mind at all if homeless were housed there? What if they were to turn up at a (very MN) Mark Warner resort and found that although they had paid €€€€€ the other guests were being put up by the councils there?

Furthermore a few years ago a businessperson booked out an entire (I think it was) Premier Inn in Bristol for homeless people at Christmas. Very nice and all that, but the hotel said it was not fair on their staff who should not be expected to deal with alcohol/substance misuse and mental health and possibly violence issues.

I don’t recall any hotel doing a background check on me when I booked. I’d feel safer with a homeless heroin user than a handsy tech bro with a coke habit. But I don’t get to choose who else is staying in the hotel. What I can choose is to keep my mind on my own business and report any concerns to staff.