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Rome - go or cancel?

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IReallyLikeYorkshire · 23/09/2025 12:01

I've booked a weekend in February next year but for some reason I just can't get excited about it. It just doesn't fill me with excitement as it did before I started looking on street view. It looks... quite run down and just not what I expected. But then sometimes the best trips are the ones that surprise you.

Go or cancel? I'll not lose much £ if I cancel soon...

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JoyousCoralPombear · 23/09/2025 17:39

I really hope you go it's an amazing city, I have been 3 times and I love it. Yes like any capital city there is graffiti and sometimes rubbish but it is also beautiful and full of history, has some fantastic restaurants and I have always found the locals friendly and helpful.

Canonlythinkofthisone · 23/09/2025 17:39

IReallyLikeYorkshire · 23/09/2025 12:56

Thanks for anyone who has left helpful and non insulting comments it's appreciated.

I won't be coming back to this pathetic thread.

🤣🤣🤣 byeeee

PastaAllaNorma · 23/09/2025 17:46

Calliopespa · 23/09/2025 16:33

The maps I love! Actually more than the Sistine chapel.

ETA your username is making me hungry ...

Edited

Coincidentally, it's cacio e pepe for dinner here tonight - a nice Roman dinner!

CasperGutman · 23/09/2025 17:50

I love Rome. Yes, parts of it are run-down - ruined, even. But the layers of buildings, one on top of another, some squatting in the ruins of others or re-using materials from them, are what makes the place so magical. The walls between us and the past feel so thin, and you can lose yourself in the place and see why it came to be called the Eternal City.

Over here is the Temple of Vesta, which even the ancient Romans claimed was ancient - supposedly predating the founding of the city itself.

Over there are the ruins of Nero's Domus Aurea, hastily buried under a square mile of earth after his death, partly covered over by the Baths of Trajan and by the Colosseum, then rediscovered by a shepherd boy so we can now visit parts of it. Only in Rome could the fifteenth century feel so recent!

And then there's St Peter's Basilica, of very current relevance to the world's Catholics, but a newcomer by Roman standards, built with bits pillaged from the Colosseum and elsewhere.

It's great! But you have to take your time, take it all in, and think it all through to feel the power of it.

I recommend getting up very early and wandering around it all before the day-tripping tourists arrive.

S0upertrooper · 23/09/2025 17:51

Allora, vai! Visit travestere area of Rome for quirky vintage shops, coɓbled streets, graffiti, cafe and spritz. Get out and see different things, it's good for the soul!

TicklishMintDuck · 23/09/2025 17:52

It’s a fabulous city with loads to see, do and eat! The weather might not be the best in Feb, but at least it won’t be quite as crowded.

PinkCherryPie · 23/09/2025 17:52

I hated Rome. You'd have to pay me a lot of money to go back. But lots, if not most, people love it.

Illberidingshotgun · 23/09/2025 17:53

It's the most amazing city, I went for my honeymoon last year, I would urge you to go. Everywhere is walkable within the centre. Book all the main sites and museums before you go. We didn't book a guided tour of the Coliseum, but wish we had done. The "wedding cake building" is often considered a monstrosity, but we found it really interesting and the cafe at the top had beautiful views over the forum and beyond. Vatican city is fascinating, and I loved St Peter's Basilica. Of course there are run down parts, but they do not detract from the sheer magic and majesty of the city.

DancingInTheMoonlights · 23/09/2025 17:55

I found Rome boring, run down and quite rough

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 23/09/2025 17:55

I’ve never been to Rome, now I really, really want to go!
Thank you for starting the thread @IReallyLikeYorkshire

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 23/09/2025 17:58

@SamPoodle123

Thank you for that - my dd watches Emily In Paris, and by coincidence to the Op, is taking me to Rome in Feb for a ' special ' birthday, just a shame I no longer get to retire at that age :)

sleepwouldbenice · 23/09/2025 17:59

AnnaMagnani · 23/09/2025 12:12

That's some parts of Italy for you, it doesn't signal run down in the same way as here.

When we were driving into Bologna for our honeymoon I thought 'Why have we come to this graffiti-strewn shithole for our honeymoon?' As soon as we started exploring I realised I was totally wrong and had a brilliant time.

This
Honestly its literally part of their style
My kids were taking photos of it
Its not a sign of it being run down

LevBee13 · 23/09/2025 18:08

The touristy bits are lovely. Avoid the back streets and suburbs - we ended up down a random road where there were literally swastikas drawn on people's front walls.
The whole city stinks though - bad sewage system.

mumontherun14 · 23/09/2025 18:13

I was there in February with my daughter it was wonderful! The hop on bus tour is great & look at Viator to book trips. It was the best city break we have ever had the vibe in the evenings is just fantastic so friendly. The weather is so mild then early spring much nicer than the UK we sat on rooftop bar in T-shirts with aperol spritz it was just lovely.

mumontherun14 · 23/09/2025 18:13

I’m going back next year with my husband!

Doone22 · 23/09/2025 18:22

If you're staying in the centre you can walk every day and see beautiful things everywhere

Stresshead84x · 23/09/2025 18:25

Rome is amazing, I don't think i've ever been awed by anything or anywhere the same as I was in Rome. We stayed out a bit and there were a few sketchy areas that we weren't keen on walking through at night but we just got taxis home. I also found Italy incredibly clean.

Stresshead84x · 23/09/2025 18:27

we were also careful shopped around for where we ate and actually found it really reasonable.

limegreenheart · 23/09/2025 18:39

Outside of the main historic areas and more middle class-to-upscale residential neighborhoods graffiti and tagging is generally allowed to proliferate, and IMO there's a lot more of it recently (similar in some areas to what you'd have seen in places like Ercolano ten years ago). If you've been looking at, reading, and hearing older travel accounts I can see why the newest pics/views may seem like a lot. However, all the things that made the city great (and probably made you want to visit in the first place) are still there.

If you want to avoid graffiti and tagging as much as possible, try basing your stay in central, tourist-friendly areas: look at Ludovisi, Via Veneto or Campo Marzio; near the Spanish Steps, Margutta or Piazza del Popolo; Prati (nearer Vatican and Castel Sant’Angelo), or the Aventine Hill (quieter in general while still being close to major sights). Avoid the area around train stations especially Termini and perhaps also Trastevere and other more gritty areas in terms of looking for a hotel, although they are still worth a visit. Grittier and mixed, artsy/studenty neighborhoods like San Lorenzo, Pigneto, Monti, Ostiense, and Garbatella have good budget hotels and more modest accommodation but may not be in your comfort zone as a place to stay.

Sodukuchess · 23/09/2025 18:54

I understand you OP even if others just want to be unpleasant because your view differs to theirs.

When I went I hated the huge amounts of litter, graffiti, crowds, scammers etc.

I'm glad I went though as I loved the churches, the Pantheon, the Vatican, the Colosseum etc.

I was disappointed by the food and should have done a lot more research about good places to go. At one restaurant the food was actually inedible. Literally inedible.

Would I go again? No but I'm still glad I went.

abbynabby23 · 23/09/2025 19:14

IReallyLikeYorkshire · 23/09/2025 12:01

I've booked a weekend in February next year but for some reason I just can't get excited about it. It just doesn't fill me with excitement as it did before I started looking on street view. It looks... quite run down and just not what I expected. But then sometimes the best trips are the ones that surprise you.

Go or cancel? I'll not lose much £ if I cancel soon...

Stunning city, amazing food and drinks! What else do you want?!

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 23/09/2025 19:14

Love Rome, been three times, walk everywhere, will be visiting again. Beautiful City.

mince3point14159265 · 23/09/2025 19:18

IReallyLikeYorkshire · 23/09/2025 12:08

The graffiti absolutely everywhere has really put me off!

Have you been watching ? 😂

Seriously Op, it's an amazing city, probably my favourite European city to visit, everywhere you look the history is just incredible. My only caveat is to be extra cautious of pickpockets on public transport.

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Sodukuchess · 23/09/2025 19:28

mince3point14159265 · 23/09/2025 19:18

Have you been watching ? 😂

Seriously Op, it's an amazing city, probably my favourite European city to visit, everywhere you look the history is just incredible. My only caveat is to be extra cautious of pickpockets on public transport.

And cautious at restaurants too. Don't put your bag on the floor. Keep it on your body.

Mercurial123 · 23/09/2025 20:35

DancingInTheMoonlights · 23/09/2025 17:55

I found Rome boring, run down and quite rough

That says more about you than Rome.