I keep seeing posts from men ,not understanding why their wife with multiple kids does not want sex...has no one explained to these men ,the responsibility that falls on women's shoulders when they gain a house a husband and kids .
And that the wife is touched out ,she's had enough,and sex can be an extra to do on her list ...When husband is not doing half of domestic shit .
For me personally,I after I had my kids ,and I remember it slowly dawning on me the amount of domestic chores that were now my responsibility..I had no idea of the amount of cleaning and cooking and shopping that would be my responsibility,with a family .
It totally overwhelmed me .I want to say to my daughter,don't get married,don't get a husband, don't have children..(but I don't )
For me personally,it felt like some huge conspiracy that no one told me about ,like I was sold a lie.
Maybe society needs to tell younger men ,that the sex they have in their 20 s , ,could be vastly different from sex in their 40s with house and kids .
And tell women ,just how much their life changes with all the added responsibility a family brings