Neighbour starts thrusting me joking from behind

[Summerflower076]

Hi all, this sound's silly because i laugh it off but my neighbour we started hanging out years ago but got distant but lately talk again hes very needy says i should be mire reliable etc and i always cancel plans. But he's a bit to needy he thrusts himself up against me as if we were having intercourse i laugh and say stop but he them days ddi u like that its all playful with him but im starting to think is it right

It does not sound right unless you want to shag him.

He sounds creepy as hell!

Unacceptable sexual behaviour, I am surprised you didn't slap him the first time he did that.

Don't fucking laugh. Tell the creepy fucker to stop.

He's assaulting you.

Ugh, these men!

He sounds like a grim pervert. Why are you laughing at his repellent antics?

He’s gross and I would worry the behaviour would escalate. Avoid any contact with him and never spend any time alone with him.

Yuck! Don't laugh. He thinks you're encouraging him. Tell him to keep his filthy hands off you.

Of course it's not right for your neighbour to do that! Part of the issue is that you don't tell him, firmly “No, stop that” and secondly, you laugh which gives the impression that you at least think it is OK or possibly even that you find it funny or enjoyable.
He should know that this is not acceptable behaviour- but since he does not, you need to tell him clearly and politely to stop.

This. I would contact the police to report this. Creep.

He's quite a flirty person see he works in a shop next door so its hard to cause sny conflict etc but i think because im vulnerable he sees me as a laughy person etc i do find it wierd he texts me then saying i want to do. Sexual stuff and did i enjoy it meaning the thrusting etc he's also tried kissing my legs before. He says for me to go and help him clear his place or given him company then i back out and he says respect is earned etc and that i have no thought for people and he'll get some one else to help him

Do you work in Parliament?

No i don't work in parliament x

Why do you say you're vulnerable OP?

I have adhd and autism so a little bit out there sometimes but not in that way giving any sexual gestures but he knows i have this also

Grey rock him and stop him from coming close to you/behind you. Do not laugh around him. Stop sharing anything personal with him. If he does the thrusting/touching again tell him to stop and leave.

If he was a co worker he would be in an HR meeting and prob looking for another job. Sounds like some 70s BBC DJ (other jobs/ages/employers available)

I'm sorry that this is happening to you.
Please stop laughing about it, this will only encourage him.
I'm not sure how he tried to kiss your legs?

Why are you letting this man control and dictate your life. Stop cancelling plans, tell him firmly his behaviour is not acceptable, and stop contact

Are you giving this guy you used to hang out with, years ago any conflicting or mixed messages, you know like flirty behaviour around him?
If not, well really even if you are, after years he should not be behaving in such a physical sexual way towards you.
He does sound creepy as I'm sure you must think too.
As others have said don't laugh or giggle around him that's like a green light to anyone who thinks he can get away with behaving in such a physical and unacceptable way around and to you.
I'm sure that you should not be in any position to be allowing him to kiss your legs?

You need to reach out to someone in real life for support. And stop going to the shop next door.

Tell him to stop. Block his number

Don't Go near the shop, block him, swerve him, and watch your back.

If my neighbour started thrusting and humping against me I'd think he'd lost his mind. So strange

Do you live alone?

do you live with anyone else or anyone to help stand up for you? He’s seeing what he can get away with. Id be as blunt as possible and say “I dont like these messages” and “stop it now” im sorry its so hard for you.